<p>"占我的便宜" and "吃豆腐" are all disadvantages for usage with nagetive meaning for daily Chinese people.</p>

<p>However, the first set phrase is NOT ONLY used to women but to other things as well. We usually use this phrase to describe a senario that someones (tries to) gain sth at the expense of others, but the expense is very little for the others. And the fixed one is very similar to "揩油"(ShangHai dialect).——This is very similar to you.</p>

<p>Another meaning is that “贪小”（greedy for small gains or profits）</p>

<p>Now let's see some Chinese samples:</p>

<p>不要捡地上随便掉落的元宝、金银器物，<strong>不要占便宜</strong>，否则你极可能被犯罪分子要挟勒索！</p>

<p>"吃豆腐" is used when a man wanna do something ugh to a woman (especially something that is dirty)：(e.g), <strong>A man in the bus is rubbing the woman with the reason that the bus is fully crowded with people</strong>.</p>

<p>For more, you can see this <strong><a href="https://chinese.stackexchange.com/questions/1042/what-is-the-exact-meaning-of-%E5%90%83%E8%B1%86%E8%85%90-and-where-does-the-expression-come-from?lq=1">sample</a></strong>.</p>

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<p>吃豆腐 always means 调戏妇女. 占我的便宜 is synonymous with 吃豆腐 in some contexts. For example, when a girl becomes the victim of sexual harassment, she might shout out:</p>

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  <p>抓流氓啊！有人占我的便宜！</p>
</blockquote>

<p>However, there are cases where 占我的便宜 has nothing to do with sexual harassment. For example, the following kind of conversation is very common in daily life:</p>

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  <p>小明：我特别喜欢吃火锅。</p>
  
  <p>小英：真的吗？我儿子也特别喜欢吃火锅！</p>
  
  <p>小明：你竟然占我的便宜！！</p>
</blockquote>

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Lol, the second example is brilliant, wondering if the Chinese learner will get it or not.
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<p>My understanding of 占我的便宜 means something similar to 吃豆腐 and I have never heard it used outside of taking sexual advantage. Can this be used in other contexts? Google translate suggests it means "take advantage of me", in English this phrase could also be used to take financial advantage or using someone for your own personal gain, is this the same usage in Chinese?</p>

<p>Further to this question, how did this phrase come about, why were these specific characters combined to make this meaning?</p>

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Usage and meaning of "占我的便宜"
# Usage and meaning of "占我的便宜"

(Asked by: username_0 on 2013-09-30)

My understanding of 占我的便宜 means something similar to 吃豆腐 and I have never heard it used outside of taking sexual advantage. Can this be used in other contexts? Google translate suggests it means "take advantage of me", in English this phrase could also be used to take financial advantage or using someone for your own personal gain, is this the same usage in Chinese?

Further to this question, how did this phrase come about, why were these specific characters combined to make this meaning?

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> **Comments:**
> **username_0**: Related 吃豆腐 question: http://chinese.stackexchange.com/questions/1042/what-is-the-exact-meaning-of-%E5%90%83%E8%B1%86%E8%85%90-and-where-does-the-expression-come-from  

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### Answer by username_1 on 2013-09-30. Score: 4

"占我的便宜" and "吃豆腐" are all disadvantages for usage with nagetive meaning for daily Chinese people.

However, the first set phrase is NOT ONLY used to women but to other things as well. We usually use this phrase to describe a senario that someones (tries to) gain sth at the expense of others, but the expense is very little for the others. And the fixed one is very similar to "揩油"(ShangHai dialect).——This is very similar to you.

Another meaning is that “贪小”（greedy for small gains or profits）

Now let's see some Chinese samples:

不要捡地上随便掉落的元宝、金银器物，**不要占便宜**，否则你极可能被犯罪分子要挟勒索！

"吃豆腐" is used when a man wanna do something ugh to a woman (especially something that is dirty)：(e.g), **A man in the bus is rubbing the woman with the reason that the bus is fully crowded with people**.

For more, you can see this **[sample](https://chinese.stackexchange.com/questions/1042/what-is-the-exact-meaning-of-%E5%90%83%E8%B1%86%E8%85%90-and-where-does-the-expression-come-from?lq=1)**.


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### Answer by username_2 on 2013-10-02. Score: 4

吃豆腐 always means 调戏妇女. 占我的便宜 is synonymous with 吃豆腐 in some contexts. For example, when a girl becomes the victim of sexual harassment, she might shout out:

> 抓流氓啊！有人占我的便宜！

However, there are cases where 占我的便宜 has nothing to do with sexual harassment. For example, the following kind of conversation is very common in daily life:

> 小明：我特别喜欢吃火锅。
>
> 小英：真的吗？我儿子也特别喜欢吃火锅！
>
> 小明：你竟然占我的便宜！！

> **Comments:**
> **username_3**: Lol, the second example is brilliant, wondering if the Chinese learner will get it or not.  

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