<p>Not exactly the same, just some options: 否定, 打压, 贬低. Need to be used depending on the context.</p>
<p>See how it's used in a real article talking about PUA:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>以职场举例。贬低是PUA的第一个套路，即老板持续不断地打压你、否定你、贬低你，对你进行人身攻击，然后操纵你的思想。如上述艺人的老板对艺人长相发表的言论，日复一日，被贬低者逐渐失去自我判断，开始自我怀疑自我否定。PUA通过言语贬低，瓦解和摧毁一个人的自尊自信，然后控制他的思想。当一个人失去自我认同，就会无条件认同老板，认为老板说的都是对的。</p>
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<p>source: <a href="http://news.cctv.com/2020/08/06/ARTIV7DbKZJ0irPAftW0hXbO200806.shtml" rel="nofollow noreferrer">http://news.cctv.com/2020/08/06/ARTIV7DbKZJ0irPAftW0hXbO200806.shtml</a></p>
<p>The direct translation is normally &quot;否定&quot; (&quot;否定&quot; can be a verb in Chinese):</p>
<blockquote>
<p>书中常见术语在国内PUA圈至今仍在流传，如开场、认证、兴趣指标、否定、剥夺、时间限制、服从、冷冻……等。</p>
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<p>source: <a href="https://www.sohu.com/a/367516628_260616" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https://www.sohu.com/a/367516628_260616</a></p>
<p>&quot;欲擒故纵&quot; mentioned in another answer is a little different than &quot;negging&quot;. &quot;欲擒故纵&quot; is more like &quot;play hard to get&quot;.</p>

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<p>'Negging' is a specifically coined term by the author of a specific book about methods of picking up girls. I presume the end game is either acquiring a life partner or building a casual romantic relationship with a woman.</p>

<p>Negging is in effect, a code name for a technique, and this technique is using subtle and mild insult to manipulate the target to 1. be curious 2.feels challenged 3. be willing to engage. </p>

<p>The true goal is not to repel but attract her. It is opposite of another  technique pozzing: (whereby one pays a person a compliment in order to gain their affection)</p>

<p>Since it is not a general English term, I think I would treat the translation with more liberty</p>

<p>There's an idiom in Chinese called: 欲擒故縱 (When you try to capture a target, intentionally distance yourself instead of approach closely)</p>

<p>If pozzing (奉丞手法) shows a 欲擒態度, then negging (挑衅手法) would show a 故縱態度 (displaying dismissive sign to attract the girl's attention and get her to engage) </p>

<p>I would translate "to neg" as "挑衅" and "negging" as "挑衅手法" </p>

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欲擒故縱 is not negative, but negging sounds very negative to me according to the descriptions in the question and your answer
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I suspect "neg" came from the word  "negative", meaning "using clever negative remark as your tool. When pozzing (pay compliment) doesn't work, try it the other way. It is just one way among others to attract a girl,
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neg: abbr. 负面的；负极的（=negative）verb - Express or imply a negative value judgement (esp. of someone while dating)
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<p>Perhaps this is not a Chinese thing (and if not, Chinese people are probably best off without it).  However, a vital part of a <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community" rel="nofollow noreferrer">pick-up artist</a>'s (<a href="http://youdao.com/w/%E6%8A%8A%E5%A6%B9%E8%BE%BE%E4%BA%BA" rel="nofollow noreferrer">把妹达人</a>) skill set is <em>negging</em> (not <em>n<strong>a</strong>gging</em>, but <em>n<strong>e</strong>gging</em>):</p>

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  <p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negging" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Negging</a> is an act of emotional manipulation whereby <strong><em>a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment ... to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval</em></strong>.</p>
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<p>A typical instance of negging is where a man deliberately insults a woman in a preconceived subtle way.  Why do this?  To lower her self-esteem and make her susceptible to him.  For example:</p>

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  <p>You look like you're on a diet.  That's great!<br>
  <sub><a href="https://xkcd.com/1027/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">XKCD comic 1027: Pickup Artist</a></sub></p>
</blockquote>

<p><strong>Question</strong>: How do I say "negging" in Chinese?</p>

<p>The only thing I've found so far is:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>Also a popular phenomenon known as negging or offering a "back-handed" compliment which was meant to make a man look confident and self assured, was more likely to cause her to "run for the hills".<br>
  此外，有一种流行的趋势，就是批评抨击或者讽刺挖苦，能使看起来更加自信，但这更有可能把身旁的女性吓跑。<br>
  <sub><a href="http://youdao.com/w/negging" rel="nofollow noreferrer">YouDao</a>, attributed to <a href="http://bbs.51ielts.com/thread-719593-1-1.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">bbs.51ielts.com</a> but is no longer available</sub></p>
</blockquote>

<p>But it more accurately says:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In addition, there is one kind of popular trend, it is criticizing or mocking, it can appear more self-confident, but more possibly scares away the woman next to you. </p>
</blockquote>

<p>So it's not much help.</p>

<p>(<em>PS</em>. Don't read too much into this question.  I'm writing fiction.)</p>

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How do I say "negging" in Chinese?
# How do I say "negging" in Chinese?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2019-12-21)

Perhaps this is not a Chinese thing (and if not, Chinese people are probably best off without it). However, a vital part of a [pick-up artist](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community)'s ([把妹达人](http://youdao.com/w/%E6%8A%8A%E5%A6%B9%E8%BE%BE%E4%BA%BA)) skill set is *negging* (not *n**a**gging*, but *n**e**gging*):

> [Negging](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negging) is an act of emotional manipulation whereby ***a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment ... to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval***.

A typical instance of negging is where a man deliberately insults a woman in a preconceived subtle way. Why do this? To lower her self-esteem and make her susceptible to him. For example:

> You look like you're on a diet. That's great!  
> [XKCD comic 1027: Pickup Artist](https://xkcd.com/1027/)

**Question**: How do I say "negging" in Chinese?

The only thing I've found so far is:

> Also a popular phenomenon known as negging or offering a "back-handed" compliment which was meant to make a man look confident and self assured, was more likely to cause her to "run for the hills".  
> 此外，有一种流行的趋势，就是批评抨击或者讽刺挖苦，能使看起来更加自信，但这更有可能把身旁的女性吓跑。  
> [YouDao](http://youdao.com/w/negging), attributed to [bbs.51ielts.com](http://bbs.51ielts.com/thread-719593-1-1.html) but is no longer available

But it more accurately says:

> In addition, there is one kind of popular trend, it is criticizing or mocking, it can appear more self-confident, but more possibly scares away the woman next to you.

So it's not much help.

(*PS*. Don't read too much into this question. I'm writing fiction.)

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## 2 answers

### Answer by username_1 on 2021-09-13. Score: 2

Not exactly the same, just some options: 否定, 打压, 贬低. Need to be used depending on the context.

See how it's used in a real article talking about PUA:

> 以职场举例。贬低是PUA的第一个套路，即老板持续不断地打压你、否定你、贬低你，对你进行人身攻击，然后操纵你的思想。如上述艺人的老板对艺人长相发表的言论，日复一日，被贬低者逐渐失去自我判断，开始自我怀疑自我否定。PUA通过言语贬低，瓦解和摧毁一个人的自尊自信，然后控制他的思想。当一个人失去自我认同，就会无条件认同老板，认为老板说的都是对的。

source: <http://news.cctv.com/2020/08/06/ARTIV7DbKZJ0irPAftW0hXbO200806.shtml>

The direct translation is normally "否定" ("否定" can be a verb in Chinese):

> 书中常见术语在国内PUA圈至今仍在流传，如开场、认证、兴趣指标、否定、剥夺、时间限制、服从、冷冻……等。

source: <https://www.sohu.com/a/367516628_260616>

"欲擒故纵" mentioned in another answer is a little different than "negging". "欲擒故纵" is more like "play hard to get".


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### Answer by username_2 on 2019-12-21. Score: 1

'Negging' is a specifically coined term by the author of a specific book about methods of picking up girls. I presume the end game is either acquiring a life partner or building a casual romantic relationship with a woman.

Negging is in effect, a code name for a technique, and this technique is using subtle and mild insult to manipulate the target to 1. be curious 2.feels challenged 3. be willing to engage.

The true goal is not to repel but attract her. It is opposite of another technique pozzing: (whereby one pays a person a compliment in order to gain their affection)

Since it is not a general English term, I think I would treat the translation with more liberty

There's an idiom in Chinese called: 欲擒故縱 (When you try to capture a target, intentionally distance yourself instead of approach closely)

If pozzing (奉丞手法) shows a 欲擒態度, then negging (挑衅手法) would show a 故縱態度 (displaying dismissive sign to attract the girl's attention and get her to engage)

I would translate "to neg" as "挑衅" and "negging" as "挑衅手法"

> **Comments:**
> **username_3**: 欲擒故縱 is not negative, but negging sounds very negative to me according to the descriptions in the question and your answer  
> **username_2**: I suspect "neg" came from the word  "negative", meaning "using clever negative remark as your tool. When pozzing (pay compliment) doesn't work, try it the other way. It is just one way among others to attract a girl,  
> **username_4**: neg: abbr. 负面的；负极的（=negative）verb - Express or imply a negative value judgement (esp. of someone while dating)  

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