<p>@dROOOze has already pretty much answered this, I just want to share a reference:</p>
<p><em>Grand Ricci</em></p>
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<p>少说两句<br />
shǎo shuō liǎng jù<br />
Ne parlez pas tant!</p>
</blockquote>
<p><a href="https://translate.google.com/#view=home&amp;op=translate&amp;sl=auto&amp;tl=en&amp;text=Ne%20parlez%20pas%20tant!" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Google Translate</a> renders this into English as:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>Don't talk so much!</p>
</blockquote>

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Mou某
<p>少 - less</p>
<p>说 - say</p>
<p>两句 - literally means two sentences - actually means several sentences</p>
<p>少说两句 - say several sentences less (than what you are going to say)</p>
<p>n.b. In Chinese language numbers sometimes refer to a general idea of quantity to express many or few rather than a precise figure.</p>
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<p>Thanks for the kind reminding by blackgreen. Here are two more examples below.</p>
<p>两 means a few rather than two:</p>
<p>When you are supposed to finish your speech but actually you need a bit more time, you can say &quot;抱歉，我再多说两句&quot;, which mean &quot;excuse me, I would like to say a few more sentences&quot; rather than literally &quot;two more sentences&quot;. Hope that would be helpful!</p>
<p>千 means many and much rather than thousand:</p>
<p>Another example of the general idea of &quot;many&quot; expressed by some big words like 百,千,万. There is a sentence in an ancient poem &quot;桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情&quot;. The general translation would be, the water of Peach Blossom Lake is of thousands of 尺's depth(尺 means ruler, an ancient unit of measure), but it's still not as deep as the friendship that my friend 汪伦 gives me. Here 千 doesn't mean exactly how many thousands. It's doesn't matter. It is used to express the water as well as the emotion is very &quot;deep&quot;.</p>

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"*In Chinese language numbers sometimes refer to a general idea of quantity*" I think this claim requires some more context and explanation in order to be useful
blackgreen
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Ok one more example. When you are supposed to finish your speech but actually you need a bit more time, you can say "抱歉，我再多说两句", which mean "excuse me, I would like to say a few more sentences" rather than literally "two more sentences". Hope that would be helpful!
smartsheep
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Another example of the general idea of "many" expressed by some big words like 百,千,万. There is a sentence in an ancient poem "桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情". The general translation would be, the water of Peach Blossom lake is of thousands Chi(an ancient unit of measure), but it's still not as deep as the emotion that my friend 汪伦 gives me. Here 千 doesn't mean exactly how many thousands. It's doesn't matter. It is used to express the water as well as the emotion is very "deep".
smartsheep
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You can add the new examples to your answer by clicking the **edit** button under it
blackgreen
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On 两 vs "a few" – compare the English "a couple of", which can both mean "strictly two" and "a few".
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smartsheep
<p>少说两句 is a milder way to say 别说了 or 闭嘴(stop talking).</p>
<p>It can be used whenever you want people to stop speaking/arguing/complaining/etc. E. g.  行了，你少说两句吧。</p>

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dan
<p>This phrase is similar to &quot;take a step back&quot; in this context.
Since most of the stuff said during an argument like this would be provocative (as you can tell from the movie), asking people to &quot;say fewer words&quot; helps both sides to calm down, at least that's the intention.</p>

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xmo
<p>「兩」 here is basically a synonym of 「幾」 (<em>several</em>). 「少說兩句」 means 「少說幾句」, that is, the argument arose out of speaking too much (more likely to drag up disagreements and past grievances), so speaking less is a way of not adding fuel to the fire.</p>
<p>It's not really a way of breaking up the fight, but a way of calming the situation down.</p>

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dROOOze
<p>In the movie <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finding_Mr._Right" rel="noreferrer">北京遇上西雅图</a> (~25m45s), during an argument the protagonist calls another pregnant woman a 骚货 (&quot;slut&quot;) and they start physically fighting.  A third woman tries to break them up and says:</p>
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<p><a href="https://i.sstatic.net/9u0O7.jpg" rel="noreferrer"><img src="https://i.sstatic.net/9u0O7.jpg" alt="photo of my TV" /></a></p>
<p>行了 行了 别别别<br />
少说两句 少说两句 哎呀 肚子 肚子 孩子</p>
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<p>I don't understand why she would say 少说两句 in particular, which means something like &quot;say two fewer sentences&quot;.  I think the general idea is &quot;stop speaking uncontrollably&quot;, and HiNative posts (<a href="https://hinative.com/zh-CN/questions/6845822" rel="noreferrer">here</a> and <a href="https://hinative.com/en-US/questions/12807464" rel="noreferrer">here</a>) suggests this is the case, but it's unclear to me why we would say 少说两句.</p>
<p><strong>Question</strong>: Why say 少说两句 to break up a fight?</p>

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It is not exactly equivalent, but there is in English a "The less said, the better" in order to avoid making a bad situation worse. There is also an old superstition that pregnant women, (as in this case), should be careful of many things, including what they say as the unborn baby "hears" everything and the words, good or bad, gets "imprinted" in his / her tender psyche. An incident 6 decades ago shows how human words of negativity could conjure up unwanted entities. My elder sister was arguing with someone and Hakka evil curses were uttered. I actually felt an evil presence in the room.
Wayne Cheah
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Interesting. I thought it would be roughly the equivalent of "Don't you dare to say one more word", a warning to shut it.
Mast
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@WayneCheah Any book to read more about this?
Sektor
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@Sektor. Besides being an old superstition, medically, here's some material - https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/when-can-a-fetus-hear
Wayne Cheah
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@WayneCheah Thank you! Yes, I was specifically referring to old superstitions, beliefs, etc.
Sektor
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@Mast. The idea of  少說兩句, (literally, "Speak two sentences less"; in other words an appeal to good sense), is to try and de-escalate an inflammatory situation. I think "Don't you dare to say one more word", (an aggressive command), would likely have the opposite effect.
Wayne Cheah
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@Sektor. There are many pregnancy superstitions one hears while growing up in a Chinese community, especially in the rural areas. And speaking words of negativity, like curses / speaking ill of others by the mother, etc, top the list. However, all over the World such superstitions exist. Here's some of them. https://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/parenting/pregnancy/88535413/13-pregnancy-superstitions-from-across-the-globe
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Why say 少说两句 to break up a fight?
# Why say 少说两句 to break up a fight?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2020-08-12)

In the movie [北京遇上西雅图](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finding_Mr._Right) (~25m45s), during an argument the protagonist calls another pregnant woman a 骚货 ("slut") and they start physically fighting. A third woman tries to break them up and says:

> [![photo of my TV](https://i.sstatic.net/9u0O7.jpg)](https://i.sstatic.net/9u0O7.jpg)
>
> 行了 行了 别别别  
> 少说两句 少说两句 哎呀 肚子 肚子 孩子

I don't understand why she would say 少说两句 in particular, which means something like "say two fewer sentences". I think the general idea is "stop speaking uncontrollably", and HiNative posts ([here](https://hinative.com/zh-CN/questions/6845822) and [here](https://hinative.com/en-US/questions/12807464)) suggests this is the case, but it's unclear to me why we would say 少说两句.

**Question**: Why say 少说两句 to break up a fight?

**Tags:** meaning, slang
> **Comments:**
> **username_1**: It is not exactly equivalent, but there is in English a "The less said, the better" in order to avoid making a bad situation worse. There is also an old superstition that pregnant women, (as in this case), should be careful of many things, including what they say as the unborn baby "hears" everything and the words, good or bad, gets "imprinted" in his / her tender psyche. An incident 6 decades ago shows how human words of negativity could conjure up unwanted entities. My elder sister was arguing with someone and Hakka evil curses were uttered. I actually felt an evil presence in the room.  
> **username_2**: Interesting. I thought it would be roughly the equivalent of "Don't you dare to say one more word", a warning to shut it.  
> **username_3**: @WayneCheah Any book to read more about this?  
> **username_1**: @Sektor. Besides being an old superstition, medically, here's some material - https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/when-can-a-fetus-hear  
> **username_3**: @WayneCheah Thank you! Yes, I was specifically referring to old superstitions, beliefs, etc.  
> **username_1**: @Mast. The idea of  少說兩句, (literally, "Speak two sentences less"; in other words an appeal to good sense), is to try and de-escalate an inflammatory situation. I think "Don't you dare to say one more word", (an aggressive command), would likely have the opposite effect.  
> **username_1**: @Sektor. There are many pregnancy superstitions one hears while growing up in a Chinese community, especially in the rural areas. And speaking words of negativity, like curses / speaking ill of others by the mother, etc, top the list. However, all over the World such superstitions exist. Here's some of them. https://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/parenting/pregnancy/88535413/13-pregnancy-superstitions-from-across-the-globe  

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## 5 answers

### Answer by username_10 on 2020-08-12. Score: 13 | Accepted answer

「兩」 here is basically a synonym of 「幾」 (*several*). 「少說兩句」 means 「少說幾句」, that is, the argument arose out of speaking too much (more likely to drag up disagreements and past grievances), so speaking less is a way of not adding fuel to the fire.

It's not really a way of breaking up the fight, but a way of calming the situation down.


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### Answer by username_4 on 2020-08-12. Score: 5

@dROOOze has already pretty much answered this, I just want to share a reference:

*Grand Ricci*

> 少说两句  
> shǎo shuō liǎng jù  
> Ne parlez pas tant!

[Google Translate](https://translate.google.com/#view=home&op=translate&sl=auto&tl=en&text=Ne%20parlez%20pas%20tant!) renders this into English as:

> Don't talk so much!


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### Answer by username_5 on 2020-08-12. Score: 5

少 - less

说 - say

两句 - literally means two sentences - actually means several sentences

少说两句 - say several sentences less (than what you are going to say)

n.b. In Chinese language numbers sometimes refer to a general idea of quantity to express many or few rather than a precise figure.

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Thanks for the kind reminding by blackgreen. Here are two more examples below.

两 means a few rather than two:

When you are supposed to finish your speech but actually you need a bit more time, you can say "抱歉，我再多说两句", which mean "excuse me, I would like to say a few more sentences" rather than literally "two more sentences". Hope that would be helpful!

千 means many and much rather than thousand:

Another example of the general idea of "many" expressed by some big words like 百,千,万. There is a sentence in an ancient poem "桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情". The general translation would be, the water of Peach Blossom Lake is of thousands of 尺's depth(尺 means ruler, an ancient unit of measure), but it's still not as deep as the friendship that my friend 汪伦 gives me. Here 千 doesn't mean exactly how many thousands. It's doesn't matter. It is used to express the water as well as the emotion is very "deep".

> **Comments:**
> **username_6**: "*In Chinese language numbers sometimes refer to a general idea of quantity*" I think this claim requires some more context and explanation in order to be useful  
> **username_5**: Ok one more example. When you are supposed to finish your speech but actually you need a bit more time, you can say "抱歉，我再多说两句", which mean "excuse me, I would like to say a few more sentences" rather than literally "two more sentences". Hope that would be helpful!  
> **username_5**: Another example of the general idea of "many" expressed by some big words like 百,千,万. There is a sentence in an ancient poem "桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情". The general translation would be, the water of Peach Blossom lake is of thousands Chi(an ancient unit of measure), but it's still not as deep as the emotion that my friend 汪伦 gives me. Here 千 doesn't mean exactly how many thousands. It's doesn't matter. It is used to express the water as well as the emotion is very "deep".  
> **username_6**: You can add the new examples to your answer by clicking the **edit** button under it  
> **username_7**: On 两 vs "a few" – compare the English "a couple of", which can both mean "strictly two" and "a few".  

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### Answer by username_8 on 2020-08-12. Score: 4

少说两句 is a milder way to say 别说了 or 闭嘴(stop talking).

It can be used whenever you want people to stop speaking/arguing/complaining/etc. E. g. 行了，你少说两句吧。


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### Answer by username_9 on 2020-08-12. Score: 1

This phrase is similar to "take a step back" in this context.
Since most of the stuff said during an argument like this would be provocative (as you can tell from the movie), asking people to "say fewer words" helps both sides to calm down, at least that's the intention.


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