### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

List<Node *> nodes_owned_by_original_node;
				original_node->get_owned_by(original_node, &nodes_owned_by_original_node);
				for (Node *owned_node : nodes_owned_by_original_node) {
					owned_node->set_owner(nullptr);
				}
				
				while (original_node->get_child_count()) {
					Node *child = original_node->get_child(0);
					original_node->remove_child(child);
					child->queue_free();
				}
				
				bool is_editable = true;
				Node *owner = original_node->get_owner();
				if (owner) {
					is_editable = owner->is_editable_instance(original_node);
				}
				
				Ref<PackedScene> current_packed_scene;
				if (original_node->get_scene_file_path() == p_instance_path) {
					
					
					current_packed_scene = instance_scene_packed_scene;
				} else {
					
					
					List<String> required_load_paths;
					String scene_path = original_node->get_scene_file_path();