### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

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			img->convert(Image::FORMAT_RGB8);
			
			String temp_path = EditorPaths::get_singleton()->get_cache_dir();
			String cache_base = ProjectSettings::get_singleton()->globalize_path(p_file).md5_text();
			cache_base = temp_path.path_join("resthumb-" + cache_base);
			
			post_process_preview(img);
			img->save_png(cache_base + ".png");
		}
	}
	save.step(TTR("Saving Scene"), 4);
	_save_scene(p_file, p_idx);
	if (!singleton->cmdline_export_mode) {
		EditorResourcePreview::get_singleton()->check_for_invalidation(p_file);
	}
}
bool EditorNode::_validate_scene_recursive(const String &p_filename, Node *p_node) {
	for (int i = 0; i < p_node->get_child_count(); i++) {
		Node *child = p_node->get_child(i);
		if (child->get_scene_file_path() == p_filename) {
			return true;
		}
		if (_validate_scene_recursive(p_filename, child)) {
			return true;
		}
	}
	return false;
}
int EditorNode::_save_external_resources() {