### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
int scene_idx = -1;
	for (int i = 0; i < editor_data.get_edited_scene_count(); i++) {
		if (editor_data.get_scene_path(i) == p_path) {
			scene_idx = i;
			break;
		}
	}
	int current_tab = editor_data.get_edited_scene();
	if (scene_idx == -1) {
		if (get_edited_scene()) {
			
			EditorUndoRedoManager::get_singleton()->clear_history(false, editor_data.get_current_edited_scene_history_id());
		}
		return;
	}
	if (current_tab == scene_idx) {
		editor_data.apply_changes_in_editors();
		_save_editor_states(p_path);
	}
	
	_remove_scene(scene_idx, false);
	load_scene(p_path, true, false, true, true);
	
	editor_data.move_edited_scene_to_index(scene_idx);
	EditorUndoRedoManager::get_singleton()->clear_history(false, editor_data.get_scene_history_id(scene_idx));
	
	scene_tabs->set_current_tab(current_tab);
}
void EditorNode::find_all_instances_inheriting_path_in_node(Node *p_root, Node *p_node, const String &p_instance_path, List<Node *> &p_instance_list) {