### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

const Size2 add_button_size = Size2(0, scene_tabs->get_size().y);
	if (scene_tabs->get_offset_buttons_visible()) {
		
		if (scene_tab_add->get_parent() == scene_tabs) {
			scene_tabs->remove_child(scene_tab_add);
			scene_tab_add_ph->add_child(scene_tab_add);
			scene_tab_add->set_rect(Rect2(Point2(), add_button_size));
		}
	} else {
		
		if (scene_tab_add->get_parent() == scene_tab_add_ph) {
			scene_tab_add_ph->remove_child(scene_tab_add);
			scene_tabs->add_child(scene_tab_add);
		}
		if (scene_tabs->get_tab_count() == 0) {
			scene_tab_add->set_rect(Rect2(Point2(), add_button_size));
			return;
		}
		Rect2 last_tab = scene_tabs->get_tab_rect(scene_tabs->get_tab_count() - 1);
		int hsep = scene_tabs->get_theme_constant(SNAME("h_separation"));
		if (scene_tabs->is_layout_rtl()) {
			scene_tab_add->set_rect(Rect2(Point2(last_tab.position.x - scene_tab_add->get_size().x - hsep, last_tab.position.y), add_button_size));
		} else {
			scene_tab_add->set_rect(Rect2(Point2(last_tab.position.x + last_tab.size.width + hsep, last_tab.position.y), add_button_size));
		}
	}
	
	scene_tabs->connect("tab_changed", callable_mp(this, &EditorNode::_scene_tab_changed));
}
void EditorNode::_version_control_menu_option(int p_idx) {