### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

HashMap<StringName, Variant> modified_properties = get_modified_properties_for_node(p_node);
		
		List<Connection> connections_to;
		p_node->get_all_signal_connections(&connections_to);
		List<ConnectionWithNodePath> valid_connections_to;
		for (const Connection &c : connections_to) {
			Node *connection_target_node = Object::cast_to<Node>(c.callable.get_object());
			if (connection_target_node) {
				
				if (!c.callable.is_custom()) {
					ConnectionWithNodePath connection_to;
					connection_to.connection = c;
					connection_to.node_path = p_node->get_path_to(connection_target_node);
					valid_connections_to.push_back(connection_to);
				}
			}
		}
		
		List<Connection> connections_from;
		p_node->get_signals_connected_to_this(&connections_from);
		List<Connection> valid_connections_from;
		for (const Connection &c : connections_from) {
			Node *source_node = Object::cast_to<Node>(c.signal.get_object());
			Node *valid_source_owner = nullptr;
			if (source_node) {
				valid_source_owner = source_node->get_owner();
				while (valid_source_owner) {
					if (valid_source_owner == p_root) {
						break;
					}