### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

DEV_ASSERT(Thread::get_caller_id() == Thread::get_main_id());
	singleton->load_errors->add_image(singleton->gui_base->get_theme_icon(SNAME("Warning"), SNAME("EditorIcons")));
	singleton->load_errors->add_text(p_warning + "\n");
	EditorInterface::get_singleton()->popup_dialog_centered_ratio(singleton->load_error_dialog, 0.5);
}
bool EditorNode::_find_scene_in_use(Node *p_node, const String &p_path) const {
	if (p_node->get_scene_file_path() == p_path) {
		return true;
	}
	for (int i = 0; i < p_node->get_child_count(); i++) {
		if (_find_scene_in_use(p_node->get_child(i), p_path)) {
			return true;
		}
	}
	return false;
}
bool EditorNode::is_scene_in_use(const String &p_path) {
	Node *es = get_edited_scene();
	if (es) {
		return _find_scene_in_use(es, p_path);
	}
	return false;
}
OS::ProcessID EditorNode::has_child_process(OS::ProcessID p_pid) const {
	return project_run_bar->has_child_process(p_pid);
}
void EditorNode::stop_child_process(OS::ProcessID p_pid) {