### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		if (bottom_panel_items[i].control == p_item) {
			if (p_item->is_visible_in_tree()) {
				_bottom_panel_switch(false, i);
			}
			bottom_panel_vb->remove_child(bottom_panel_items[i].control);
			bottom_panel_hb_editors->remove_child(bottom_panel_items[i].button);
			memdelete(bottom_panel_items[i].button);
			bottom_panel_items.remove_at(i);
			break;
		}
	}
	for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		bottom_panel_items[i].button->disconnect("toggled", callable_mp(this, &EditorNode::_bottom_panel_switch));
		bottom_panel_items[i].button->connect("toggled", callable_mp(this, &EditorNode::_bottom_panel_switch).bind(i));
	}
}
void EditorNode::_bottom_panel_switch(bool p_enable, int p_idx) {
	if (bottom_panel_updating) {
		return;
	}
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_idx, bottom_panel_items.size());
	if (bottom_panel_items[p_idx].control->is_visible() == p_enable) {
		return;
	}
	if (p_enable) {