### Godot version

v4.1.stable.mono.official [970459615]

### System information

Godot v4.1.stable.mono - Windows 10.0.19045 - Vulkan (Forward+) - dedicated NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1050 Ti (NVIDIA; 31.0.15.3179) - AMD Ryzen 3 3200G with Radeon Vega Graphics (4 Threads)

### Issue description

I have a scene with a large amount of InstanceMesh3D, StaticBody3D which are in a Map node. This scene does not cause any lags for me, but as soon as I expand the Map node, my scene starts to lag and it is impossible to work with the project at all. Before that I moved my project from 4.0.2.stable to 4.1.stable. The previous version did not cause such problems.

### Steps to reproduce

Create a scene of over +500 MeshInstance3D with any shape that is in a Node3D node. Try to open and close Node3D and you will see the performance drop.

### Minimal reproduction project

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ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_column, cells.size());
	cells.write[p_column].custom_font = p_font;
	cells.write[p_column].cached_minimum_size_dirty = true;
}
Ref<Font> TreeItem::get_custom_font(int p_column) const {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_column, cells.size(), Ref<Font>());
	return cells[p_column].custom_font;
}
void TreeItem::set_custom_font_size(int p_column, int p_font_size) {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_column, cells.size());
	cells.write[p_column].custom_font_size = p_font_size;
	cells.write[p_column].cached_minimum_size_dirty = true;
}
int TreeItem::get_custom_font_size(int p_column) const {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_column, cells.size(), -1);
	return cells[p_column].custom_font_size;
}
void TreeItem::set_tooltip_text(int p_column, const String &p_tooltip) {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_column, cells.size());
	cells.write[p_column].tooltip = p_tooltip;
}
String TreeItem::get_tooltip_text(int p_column) const {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_column, cells.size(), "");
	return cells[p_column].tooltip;
}
void TreeItem::set_custom_bg_color(int p_column, const Color &p_color, bool p_bg_outline) {