### Godot version

v4.0.3.stable.mono.official [5222a99f5]

### System information

macOS Monterey 12.6.6 (21G646)

### Issue description

When creating a tileset by code with custom data layers, removing a layer with `remove_custom_data_layer` does not update the name-to-layer mapping; `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` will continue to return that layer's original index.

This has a downstream effect of causing TileData objects attempting to use `get_custom_data('Layer B')` to return invalid data (whatever custom data is now in Layer B's old index; e.g. Layer C).

I would expect that after using `remove_custom_data_layer`, I would be able to still use `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` on that tileset.

### Steps to reproduce

Run this code to see that getting Layer B by name after removing the first layer continues to return its original index (1) when in reality it is now at index 0.
```
	var tileset:TileSet = TileSet.new()

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(0, 'Layer A')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(0, TYPE_INT)

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(1, 'Layer B')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(1, TYPE_STRING)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer A
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # Layer B
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # 1

	print('----- removing custom data layer 0 -----')
	tileset.remove_custom_data_layer(0)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer B
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # prints an error, as expected
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # returns 1 still! should return 0.
```

### Minimal reproduction project

[RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11804762/RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip)

for (int i = 0; i < scenes_ids.size(); i++) {
		p_list->push_back(PropertyInfo(Variant::OBJECT, vformat("%s/%d/%s", PNAME("scenes"), scenes_ids[i], PNAME("scene")), PROPERTY_HINT_RESOURCE_TYPE, "TileSetScenesCollectionSource"));
		PropertyInfo property_info = PropertyInfo(Variant::BOOL, vformat("%s/%d/%s", PNAME("scenes"), scenes_ids[i], PNAME("display_placeholder")));
		if (scenes[scenes_ids[i]].display_placeholder == false) {
			property_info.usage ^= PROPERTY_USAGE_STORAGE;
		}
		p_list->push_back(property_info);
	}
}
void TileSetScenesCollectionSource::_bind_methods() {
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("get_scene_tiles_count"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::get_scene_tiles_count);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("get_scene_tile_id", "index"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::get_scene_tile_id);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("has_scene_tile_id", "id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::has_scene_tile_id);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("create_scene_tile", "packed_scene", "id_override"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::create_scene_tile, DEFVAL(INVALID_TILE_ALTERNATIVE));
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("set_scene_tile_id", "id", "new_id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::set_scene_tile_id);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("set_scene_tile_scene", "id", "packed_scene"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::set_scene_tile_scene);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("get_scene_tile_scene", "id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::get_scene_tile_scene);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("set_scene_tile_display_placeholder", "id", "display_placeholder"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::set_scene_tile_display_placeholder);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("get_scene_tile_display_placeholder", "id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::get_scene_tile_display_placeholder);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("remove_scene_tile", "id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::remove_scene_tile);
	ClassDB::bind_method(D_METHOD("get_next_scene_tile_id"), &TileSetScenesCollectionSource::get_next_scene_tile_id);
}
void TileData::set_tile_set(const TileSet *p_tile_set) {
	tile_set = p_tile_set;
	notify_tile_data_properties_should_change();
}
void TileData::notify_tile_data_properties_should_change() {