### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

icon->set_texture(gui_base->get_theme_icon(SNAME("Folder"), SNAME("EditorIcons")));
		} else {
			label->set_text(p_paths[i].get_file());
			icon->set_texture(gui_base->get_theme_icon(SNAME("File"), SNAME("EditorIcons")));
		}
		icon->set_stretch_mode(TextureRect::STRETCH_KEEP_CENTERED);
		icon->set_size(Size2(16, 16));
		hbox->add_child(icon);
		hbox->add_child(label);
		vbox->add_child(hbox);
	}
	if (p_paths.size() > num_rows) {
		Label *label = memnew(Label);
		if (has_file && has_folder) {
			label->set_text(vformat(TTR("%d more files or folders"), p_paths.size() - num_rows));
		} else if (has_folder) {
			label->set_text(vformat(TTR("%d more folders"), p_paths.size() - num_rows));
		} else {
			label->set_text(vformat(TTR("%d more files"), p_paths.size() - num_rows));
		}
		vbox->add_child(label);
	}
	p_from->set_drag_preview(vbox); 
	Dictionary drag_data;
	drag_data["type"] = has_folder ? "files_and_dirs" : "files";
	drag_data["files"] = p_paths;
	drag_data["from"] = p_from;
	return drag_data;
}
void EditorNode::add_tool_menu_item(const String &p_name, const Callable &p_callback) {