### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

save_all_scenes();
	ProjectSettings::get_singleton()->save();
	disk_changed->hide();
}
void EditorNode::_reload_modified_scenes() {
	int current_idx = editor_data.get_edited_scene();
	for (int i = 0; i < editor_data.get_edited_scene_count(); i++) {
		if (editor_data.get_scene_path(i) == "") {
			continue;
		}
		uint64_t last_date = editor_data.get_scene_modified_time(i);
		uint64_t date = FileAccess::get_modified_time(editor_data.get_scene_path(i));
		if (date > last_date) {
			String filename = editor_data.get_scene_path(i);
			editor_data.set_edited_scene(i);
			_remove_edited_scene(false);
			Error err = load_scene(filename, false, false, true, false, true);
			if (err != OK) {
				ERR_PRINT(vformat("Failed to load scene: %s", filename));
			}
			editor_data.move_edited_scene_to_index(i);
		}
	}
	set_current_scene(current_idx);
	_update_scene_tabs();
	disk_changed->hide();
}
void EditorNode::_reload_project_settings() {