### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

int scene_idx = -1;
	for (int i = 0; i < editor_data.get_edited_scene_count(); i++) {
		if (editor_data.get_scene_path(i) == p_path) {
			scene_idx = i;
			break;
		}
	}
	int current_tab = editor_data.get_edited_scene();
	if (scene_idx == -1) {
		if (get_edited_scene()) {
			
			EditorUndoRedoManager::get_singleton()->clear_history(false, editor_data.get_current_edited_scene_history_id());
		}
		return;
	}
	if (current_tab == scene_idx) {
		editor_data.apply_changes_in_editors();
		_save_editor_states(p_path);
	}
	
	_remove_scene(scene_idx, false);
	load_scene(p_path, true, false, true, true);
	
	editor_data.move_edited_scene_to_index(scene_idx);
	EditorUndoRedoManager::get_singleton()->clear_history(false, editor_data.get_scene_history_id(scene_idx));
	
	scene_tabs->set_current_tab(current_tab);
}
void EditorNode::find_all_instances_inheriting_path_in_node(Node *p_root, Node *p_node, const String &p_instance_path, List<Node *> &p_instance_list) {