### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
path = path.substr(6);
				}
				path = path.get_basename();
				
				scene_name = scene_name.trim_suffix("/");
				path = path.trim_suffix("/");
				
				
				
				can_proceed = can_proceed || (path.size() - scene_name.size()) >= 1;
				E = E->next();
				if (to_erase) {
					iset.erase(to_erase);
				}
			}
			if (!can_proceed) {
				break;
			}
		}
	}
}
void EditorNode::_update_scene_tabs() {
	bool show_rb = EDITOR_GET("interface/scene_tabs/show_script_button");
	if (DisplayServer::get_singleton()->has_feature(DisplayServer::FEATURE_GLOBAL_MENU)) {
		DisplayServer::get_singleton()->global_menu_clear("_dock");
	}
	
	Vector<String> disambiguated_scene_names;
	Vector<String> full_path_names;
	for (int i = 0; i < editor_data.get_edited_scene_count(); i++) {