### Godot version

543750a1b3f5696f9ba8e91cb49dc7db05d2ae62

### System information

Windows 10, Vulkan

### Issue description

This is a regression since v4.1.dev4.official [5c2295ff5], I can't bisect atm to find the commit that caused it, maybe https://github.com/godotengine/godot/pull/77651 but that's just a guess.
When a HBoxContainer has a label child, and that label's text is changed, one used to be able to find the new size of the container by using call_deferred, this is no longer the case.

MRP correct behavior (v4.1.dev4.official [5c2295ff5]):
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/115422160/1b4a2b6f-ef19-42c1-b3e5-9f0c499a7a8c)
MRP incorrect (543750a1b3f5696f9ba8e91cb49dc7db05d2ae62):
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/115422160/25b711ae-7c3a-4c48-aff7-383bb8f600c3)




### Steps to reproduce

```gdscript
extends Control

@onready var h_box_container: HBoxContainer = $HBoxContainer
@onready var label: Label = $HBoxContainer/Label

func _ready() -> void:
	label.text = "larger non default text"
	print("h_box_container size.x: ", h_box_container.size.x)
	call_deferred("size_after_text_changed")

func size_after_text_changed() -> void:
	print("deferred h_box_container size.x: ", h_box_container.size.x)
```

### Minimal reproduction project

[call_deferred bug.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11654441/call_deferred.bug.zip)

ERR_READ_THREAD_GUARD;
	Node::get_argument_options(p_function, p_idx, r_options);
	if (p_idx == 0) {
		List<StringName> sn;
		String pf = p_function;
		if (pf == "add_theme_color_override" || pf == "has_theme_color" || pf == "has_theme_color_override" || pf == "get_theme_color") {
			ThemeDB::get_singleton()->get_default_theme()->get_color_list(get_class(), &sn);
		} else if (pf == "add_theme_style_override" || pf == "has_theme_style" || pf == "has_theme_style_override" || pf == "get_theme_style") {
			ThemeDB::get_singleton()->get_default_theme()->get_stylebox_list(get_class(), &sn);
		} else if (pf == "add_theme_font_override" || pf == "has_theme_font" || pf == "has_theme_font_override" || pf == "get_theme_font") {
			ThemeDB::get_singleton()->get_default_theme()->get_font_list(get_class(), &sn);
		} else if (pf == "add_theme_font_size_override" || pf == "has_theme_font_size" || pf == "has_theme_font_size_override" || pf == "get_theme_font_size") {
			ThemeDB::get_singleton()->get_default_theme()->get_font_size_list(get_class(), &sn);
		} else if (pf == "add_theme_constant_override" || pf == "has_theme_constant" || pf == "has_theme_constant_override" || pf == "get_theme_constant") {
			ThemeDB::get_singleton()->get_default_theme()->get_constant_list(get_class(), &sn);
		}
		sn.sort_custom<StringName::AlphCompare>();
		for (const StringName &name : sn) {
			r_options->push_back(String(name).quote());
		}
	}
}
PackedStringArray Control::get_configuration_warnings() const {