### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
switch (current_menu_option) {
		case FILE_NEW_INHERITED_SCENE: {
			Node *scene = editor_data.get_edited_scene_root();
			
			if (!scene) {
				_menu_option_confirm(FILE_CLOSE, true);
			}
			load_scene(p_file, false, true);
		} break;
		case FILE_OPEN_SCENE: {
			load_scene(p_file);
		} break;
		case SETTINGS_PICK_MAIN_SCENE: {
			ProjectSettings::get_singleton()->set("application/run/main_scene", p_file);
			ProjectSettings::get_singleton()->save();
			
			project_run_bar->play_main_scene((bool)pick_main_scene->get_meta("from_native", false));
		} break;
		case FILE_CLOSE:
		case SCENE_TAB_CLOSE:
		case FILE_SAVE_SCENE:
		case FILE_SAVE_AS_SCENE: {
			int scene_idx = (current_menu_option == FILE_SAVE_SCENE || current_menu_option == FILE_SAVE_AS_SCENE) ? -1 : tab_closing_idx;
			if (file->get_file_mode() == EditorFileDialog::FILE_MODE_SAVE_FILE) {
				bool same_open_scene = false;