### Godot version

v4.0.3.stable.mono.official [5222a99f5]

### System information

macOS Monterey 12.6.6 (21G646)

### Issue description

When creating a tileset by code with custom data layers, removing a layer with `remove_custom_data_layer` does not update the name-to-layer mapping; `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` will continue to return that layer's original index.

This has a downstream effect of causing TileData objects attempting to use `get_custom_data('Layer B')` to return invalid data (whatever custom data is now in Layer B's old index; e.g. Layer C).

I would expect that after using `remove_custom_data_layer`, I would be able to still use `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` on that tileset.

### Steps to reproduce

Run this code to see that getting Layer B by name after removing the first layer continues to return its original index (1) when in reality it is now at index 0.
```
	var tileset:TileSet = TileSet.new()

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(0, 'Layer A')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(0, TYPE_INT)

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(1, 'Layer B')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(1, TYPE_STRING)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer A
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # Layer B
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # 1

	print('----- removing custom data layer 0 -----')
	tileset.remove_custom_data_layer(0)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer B
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # prints an error, as expected
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # returns 1 still! should return 0.
```

### Minimal reproduction project

[RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11804762/RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip)

tile_data->set_modulate(ctd->modulate);
							tile_data->set_z_index(ctd->z_index);
							if (ctd->autotile_occluder_map.has(coords)) {
								if (get_occlusion_layers_count() < 1) {
									add_occlusion_layer();
								}
								Ref<OccluderPolygon2D> occluder = ctd->autotile_occluder_map[coords]->duplicate();
								Vector<Vector2> polygon = ctd->occluder->get_polygon();
								for (int index = 0; index < polygon.size(); index++) {
									polygon.write[index] = xform.xform(polygon[index] - ctd->region.get_size() / 2.0);
								}
								occluder->set_polygon(polygon);
								tile_data->set_occluder(0, occluder);
							}
							if (ctd->autotile_navpoly_map.has(coords)) {
								if (get_navigation_layers_count() < 1) {
									add_navigation_layer();
								}
								Ref<NavigationPolygon> navigation = ctd->autotile_navpoly_map[coords]->duplicate();
								Vector<Vector2> vertices = navigation->get_vertices();
								for (int index = 0; index < vertices.size(); index++) {
									vertices.write[index] = xform.xform(vertices[index] - ctd->region.get_size() / 2.0);
								}
								navigation->set_vertices(vertices);
								tile_data->set_navigation_polygon(0, navigation);
							}
							if (ctd->autotile_priority_map.has(coords)) {
								tile_data->set_probability(ctd->autotile_priority_map[coords]);
							}
							if (ctd->autotile_z_index_map.has(coords)) {