### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

_save_scene_with_preview(p_file);
				project_run_bar->play_main_scene((bool)pick_main_scene->get_meta("from_native", false));
			}
		} break;
		case FILE_EXPORT_MESH_LIBRARY: {
			Ref<MeshLibrary> ml;
			if (file_export_lib_merge->is_pressed() && FileAccess::exists(p_file)) {
				ml = ResourceLoader::load(p_file, "MeshLibrary");
				if (ml.is_null()) {
					show_accept(TTR("Can't load MeshLibrary for merging!"), TTR("OK"));
					return;
				}
			}
			if (ml.is_null()) {
				ml = Ref<MeshLibrary>(memnew(MeshLibrary));
			}
			MeshLibraryEditor::update_library_file(editor_data.get_edited_scene_root(), ml, true, file_export_lib_apply_xforms->is_pressed());
			Error err = ResourceSaver::save(ml, p_file);
			if (err) {
				show_accept(TTR("Error saving MeshLibrary!"), TTR("OK"));
				return;
			} else if (ResourceCache::has(p_file)) {
				
				ResourceLoader::load(p_file)->reload_from_file();
			}
		} break;
		case RESOURCE_SAVE:
		case RESOURCE_SAVE_AS: {
			ERR_FAIL_COND(saving_resource.is_null());
			save_resource_in_path(saving_resource, p_file);