### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
if (waiting_for_first_scan) {
		waiting_for_first_scan = false;
		OS::get_singleton()->benchmark_end_measure("editor_scan_and_import");
		
		
		RenderingServer::get_singleton()->global_shader_parameters_load_settings(true);
		
		if (!singleton->cmdline_export_mode) {
			EditorResourcePreview::get_singleton()->start();
		}
		_load_editor_layout();
		if (!defer_load_scene.is_empty()) {
			OS::get_singleton()->benchmark_begin_measure("editor_load_scene");
			load_scene(defer_load_scene);
			defer_load_scene = "";
			OS::get_singleton()->benchmark_end_measure("editor_load_scene");
			OS::get_singleton()->benchmark_dump();
		}
	}
}
void EditorNode::_scan_external_changes() {