### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
if (EDITOR_3D < main_editor_buttons.size() && main_editor_buttons[EDITOR_3D]->is_visible()) {
		
		editor_select(EDITOR_3D);
		return;
	}
	
	
	for (int i = 0; i < main_editor_buttons.size(); i++) {
		Button *editor_button = main_editor_buttons[i];
		if (editor_button->is_visible()) {
			editor_select(i);
			return;
		}
	}
	editor_select(-1);
}
void EditorNode::_notification(int p_what) {