### Godot version

4.1.beta3, 4.0.3.stable

### System information

Godot v4.1.beta3 - Windows 10.0.19045 - Vulkan (Forward+) - dedicated NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3070 Ti (NVIDIA; 31.0.15.3598) - Intel(R) Core(TM) i5-8600K CPU @ 3.60GHz (6 Threads)

### Issue description

The game crashes on a Windows export without "Export with Debug" when I use VideoStreamPlayer node as a background in my scene.

I have created 2 simple scenes with VideoStreamPlayer and a button in each to switch between them. When I run the game in the editor, it works fine, when I export it with debug it works fine. As soon as I untick "Export with Debug" the game crashes randomly, sometimes after a few button clicks(changing scenes), sometimes on the first click... The console gives no errors whatsoever...

Tried to do it in both: Godot 4.0.3 and 4.1 beta3, the result is the same. 

I have also recreated this in Godot 3.5.2, the exported game without "Export with Debug" works fine, without crashes at all.

I have spent 4-5 hours yesterday searching internet and trying to fix it, but I couldn't. Tried different ffmpeg builds to convert the video, tried different video framerates, with audio and without audio... Looks like it's a Godot 4 issue.

### Steps to reproduce

1 - create a scene, add VideoStreamPlayer node, assign your video to it.
2 - create another scene with a VideoStreamPlayer node and assign your video to it.
3 - create buttons on each scene to switch between them.
4 - export your project for windows without "Export with Debug"
5 - play the game, after switching the scenes a couple of time, the game will crash.

### Minimal reproduction project

[Crash_Test_3.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11893147/Crash_Test_3.zip)

bool threaded = i < group_count && process_groups[i]->owner ? process_groups[i]->owner->data.process_thread_group == Node::PROCESS_THREAD_GROUP_SUB_THREAD : false;
		if (i == group_count || current_order != order || current_threaded != threaded) {
			if (process_count > 0) {
				
				bool using_threads = process_groups[from]->owner && process_groups[from]->owner->data.process_thread_group == Node::PROCESS_THREAD_GROUP_SUB_THREAD && !node_threading_disabled;
				if (using_threads) {
					local_process_group_cache.clear();
				}
				for (uint32_t j = from; j < i; j++) {
					if (process_groups[j]->last_pass == process_last_pass) {
						if (using_threads) {
							local_process_group_cache.push_back(process_groups[j]);
						} else {
							_process_group(process_groups[j], p_physics);
						}
					}
				}
				if (using_threads) {
					WorkerThreadPool::GroupID id = WorkerThreadPool::get_singleton()->add_template_group_task(this, &SceneTree::_process_groups_thread, p_physics, local_process_group_cache.size(), -1, true);
					WorkerThreadPool::get_singleton()->wait_for_group_task_completion(id);
				}
			}
			if (i == group_count) {
				
				break;
			}
			from = i;
			current_threaded = threaded;
			current_order = order;
		}