### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
current_menu_option = p_option;
	tab_closing_idx = p_tab;
	Node *scene = editor_data.get_edited_scene_root(p_tab);
	if (!scene) {
		_discard_changes();
		return;
	}
	bool unsaved = EditorUndoRedoManager::get_singleton()->is_history_unsaved(editor_data.get_scene_history_id(p_tab));
	if (unsaved) {
		if (get_current_tab() != p_tab) {
			set_current_scene(p_tab);
		}
		String scene_filename = scene->get_scene_file_path();
		if (current_menu_option == RELOAD_CURRENT_PROJECT) {
			save_confirmation->set_ok_button_text(TTR("Save & Reload"));
			save_confirmation->set_text(vformat(TTR("Save changes to '%s' before reloading?"), !scene_filename.is_empty() ? scene_filename : "unsaved scene"));
		} else {
			save_confirmation->set_ok_button_text(TTR("Save & Close"));
			save_confirmation->set_text(vformat(TTR("Save changes to '%s' before closing?"), !scene_filename.is_empty() ? scene_filename : "unsaved scene"));
		}
		save_confirmation->reset_size();
		save_confirmation->popup_centered();
	} else {
		_discard_changes();
	}
	save_editor_layout_delayed();
	_update_scene_tabs();
}
void EditorNode::_scene_tab_hovered(int p_tab) {