### Godot version

v4.1.rc1.official [1f9e540f1]

### System information

Windows 10

### Issue description

Attempting to reorder the children of a TabContainer results in an unintended ordering and incorrect undo states.

Also happens in v4.0.3.stable.official [5222a99f5].

https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/3820082/2c2458e3-88ad-46d9-8a04-f289a049984a



### Steps to reproduce

1. Add a new TabContainer
2. Add a few children to it
3. Drag and drop to erroneously reorder them
4. Attempt to undo the change

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
if (name == StringName()) {
		
		name = p_child->get_class();
	}
	const Node *const *existing = data.children.getptr(name);
	if (!existing || *existing == p_child) { 
		return;
	}
	
	String name_string = name;
	String nums;
	for (int i = name_string.length() - 1; i >= 0; i--) {
		char32_t n = name_string[i];
		if (is_digit(n)) {
			nums = String::chr(name_string[i]) + nums;
		} else {