### Godot version

4.2 6da4ad1

### System information

Windows 10.0.19045 - Vulkan (Forward+) - dedicated NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1060 (NVIDIA; 30.0.15.1403) - Intel(R) Core(TM) i7-7700HQ CPU @ 2.80GHz (8 Threads)

### Issue description

![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/d65ab202-93dd-4d83-bcef-c2b34bfa23f3)

In 4.2 dev3:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/8621ec24-65d4-490d-bfc1-7e6e8aa3606a)


### Steps to reproduce

1. Create a scene with some children
2. Instantiate it in another scene
3. Enable editable children

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
if (!p_node) {
		return nullptr;
	}
	NodePath np = p_node->get_metadata(0);
	if (np == p_path) {
		return p_node;
	}
	TreeItem *children = p_node->get_first_child();
	while (children) {
		TreeItem *n = _find(children, p_path);
		if (n) {
			return n;
		}
		children = children->get_next();
	}
	return nullptr;
}
void SceneTreeEditor::set_selected(Node *p_node, bool p_emit_selected) {