### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		if (bottom_panel_items[i].control->is_visible()) {
			_bottom_panel_switch(false, i);
			break;
		}
	}
}
void EditorNode::make_bottom_panel_item_visible(Control *p_item) {
	for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		if (bottom_panel_items[i].control == p_item) {
			_bottom_panel_switch(true, i);
			break;
		}
	}
}
void EditorNode::raise_bottom_panel_item(Control *p_item) {
	for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		if (bottom_panel_items[i].control == p_item) {
			bottom_panel_items[i].button->move_to_front();
			SWAP(bottom_panel_items.write[i], bottom_panel_items.write[bottom_panel_items.size() - 1]);
			break;
		}
	}
	for (int i = 0; i < bottom_panel_items.size(); i++) {
		bottom_panel_items[i].button->disconnect("toggled", callable_mp(this, &EditorNode::_bottom_panel_switch));
		bottom_panel_items[i].button->connect("toggled", callable_mp(this, &EditorNode::_bottom_panel_switch).bind(i));
	}
}
void EditorNode::remove_bottom_panel_item(Control *p_item) {