### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

}
		Node3D *node_3d = Object::cast_to<Node3D>(p_node);
		if (node_3d) {
			new_additive_node_entry.transform_3d = node_3d->get_relative_transform(node_3d->get_parent());
		}
		
		HashMap<Node *, Node *> ownership_table;
		for (int i = 0; i < p_node->get_child_count(); i++) {
			Node *child = p_node->get_child(i);
			update_ownership_table_for_addition_node_ancestors(child, ownership_table);
		}
		new_additive_node_entry.ownership_table = ownership_table;
		p_addition_list.push_back(new_additive_node_entry);
		return;
	}
	for (int i = 0; i < p_node->get_child_count(); i++) {
		Node *child = p_node->get_child(i);
		update_diff_data_for_node(p_edited_scene, p_root, child, p_modification_table, p_addition_list);
	}
}
void EditorNode::open_request(const String &p_path) {
	if (!opening_prev) {
		List<String>::Element *prev_scene_item = previous_scenes.find(p_path);
		if (prev_scene_item != nullptr) {
			prev_scene_item->erase();
		}
	}
	load_scene(p_path); 
}
void EditorNode::edit_foreign_resource(Ref<Resource> p_resource) {