### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

String source_scene = get_edited_scene()->get_scene_file_path();
			if (FileAccess::exists(source_scene + ".import")) {
				editable_info = TTR("This scene was imported, so changes to it won't be kept.\nInstantiating or inheriting it will allow you to make changes to it.\nPlease read the documentation relevant to importing scenes to better understand this workflow.");
				info_is_warning = true;
			}
		}
	} else {
		Node *selected_node = nullptr;
		if (current_obj->is_class("EditorDebuggerRemoteObject")) {
			disable_folding = true;
		} else if (current_obj->is_class("MultiNodeEdit")) {
			Node *scene = get_edited_scene();
			if (scene) {
				MultiNodeEdit *multi_node_edit = Object::cast_to<MultiNodeEdit>(current_obj);
				int node_count = multi_node_edit->get_node_count();
				if (node_count > 0) {
					List<Node *> multi_nodes;
					for (int node_index = 0; node_index < node_count; ++node_index) {
						Node *node = scene->get_node(multi_node_edit->get_node(node_index));
						if (node) {
							multi_nodes.push_back(node);
						}
					}
					if (!multi_nodes.is_empty()) {
						
						multi_nodes.sort_custom<Node::Comparator>();
						selected_node = multi_nodes.front()->get();
					}
				}
			}