### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
for (FileDialog *E : file_dialogs) {
		E->invalidate();
	}
	for (EditorFileDialog *E : editor_file_dialogs) {
		E->invalidate();
	}
	_mark_unsaved_scenes();
	
	String export_error;
	Error err = OK;
	if (!export_defer.preset.is_empty() && !EditorFileSystem::get_singleton()->is_scanning()) {
		String preset_name = export_defer.preset;
		
		
		export_defer.preset = "";
		Ref<EditorExportPreset> export_preset;
		for (int i = 0; i < EditorExport::get_singleton()->get_export_preset_count(); ++i) {
			export_preset = EditorExport::get_singleton()->get_export_preset(i);
			if (export_preset->get_name() == preset_name) {
				break;
			}
			export_preset.unref();