### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
int idx = tool_menu->get_item_count();
	tool_menu->add_item(p_name, TOOLS_CUSTOM);
	tool_menu->set_item_metadata(idx, p_callback);
}
void EditorNode::add_tool_submenu_item(const String &p_name, PopupMenu *p_submenu) {
	ERR_FAIL_NULL(p_submenu);
	ERR_FAIL_COND(p_submenu->get_parent() != nullptr);
	tool_menu->add_child(p_submenu);
	tool_menu->add_submenu_item(p_name, p_submenu->get_name(), TOOLS_CUSTOM);
}
void EditorNode::remove_tool_menu_item(const String &p_name) {
	for (int i = 0; i < tool_menu->get_item_count(); i++) {
		if (tool_menu->get_item_id(i) != TOOLS_CUSTOM) {
			continue;
		}
		if (tool_menu->get_item_text(i) == p_name) {
			if (tool_menu->get_item_submenu(i) != "") {
				Node *n = tool_menu->get_node(tool_menu->get_item_submenu(i));
				tool_menu->remove_child(n);
				memdelete(n);
			}
			tool_menu->remove_item(i);
			tool_menu->reset_size();
			return;
		}
	}
}
PopupMenu *EditorNode::get_export_as_menu() {