### Godot version

Godot 4.1-beta2

### System information

Manjaro Gnome, Intel Core i7-11800H

### Issue description

On a relatively modern laptop (Intel Core i7-11800H), in a scene with many scripted nodes (total of 900+ with roughly half of them scripted), adding or duplicating a node freezes the editor for several seconds. Godot 4.0.2 handles such scenes much better!

Here is a flame graph captured while repeatedly duplicating simple Marker2D nodes with Ctrl+D in a complicated scene:
![Screenshot from 2023-06-15 23-54-38](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2766569/d0019f17-9b82-4a26-9b47-71fa7a3bef3a)

Performance data file to use with hotspot v1.4.1 (relevant data starts at the 75-second mark and lasts about 20+ seconds):
[perf.data.perfparser.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763700/perf.data.perfparser.zip)



### Steps to reproduce

1) Add 1000 nodes with a script attached.
2) Duplicate a node and witness lags.

Also affects scrolling the scene tree dock.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_node_lags_repro.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11763731/add_node_lags_repro.zip)

List<String> property_names;
						for (const PropertyInfo &E2 : pinfo) {
							if (E2.usage & PROPERTY_USAGE_STORAGE) {
								property_names.push_back(E2.name);
							}
						}
						
						for (const KeyValue<StringName, Variant> &E2 : E.value.property_table) {
							if (property_names.find(E2.key)) {
								modifiable_node->set(E2.key, E2.value);
							}
						}
						
						for (const ConnectionWithNodePath &E2 : E.value.connections_to) {
							Connection conn = E2.connection;
							
							Node *target_node = cast_to<Node>(conn.callable.get_object());
							
							
							
							if (!target_node || !target_node->is_queued_for_deletion()) {
								target_node = modifiable_node->get_node_or_null(E2.node_path);
							}
							if (target_node) {
								
								Callable new_callable = Callable(target_node, conn.callable.get_method());
								if (!modifiable_node->is_connected(conn.signal.get_name(), new_callable)) {
									ERR_FAIL_COND(modifiable_node->connect(conn.signal.get_name(), new_callable, conn.flags) != OK);
								}
							}