### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
if (owner) {
					Ref<SceneState> ss_inst = owner->get_scene_instance_state();
					if (ss_inst.is_valid()) {
						ss_inst->update_instance_resource(p_instance_path, current_packed_scene);
					}
					owner->set_editable_instance(instantiated_node, is_editable);
				}
				
				for (AdditiveNodeEntry additive_node_entry : addition_list) {
					Node *parent_node = instantiated_node->get_node_or_null(additive_node_entry.parent);
					if (!parent_node) {
						parent_node = current_edited_scene;
					}
					parent_node->add_child(additive_node_entry.node);
					parent_node->move_child(additive_node_entry.node, additive_node_entry.index);
					
					if (additive_node_entry.owner == original_node) {
						additive_node_entry.owner = instantiated_node;
					}
					additive_node_entry.node->set_owner(additive_node_entry.owner);
					
					{
						Node2D *node_2d = Object::cast_to<Node2D>(additive_node_entry.node);
						if (node_2d) {
							node_2d->set_transform(additive_node_entry.transform_2d);
						}
						Node3D *node_3d = Object::cast_to<Node3D>(additive_node_entry.node);
						if (node_3d) {
							node_3d->set_transform(additive_node_entry.transform_3d);
						}