### Godot version

v4.0.3.stable.mono.official [5222a99f5]

### System information

macOS Monterey 12.6.6 (21G646)

### Issue description

When creating a tileset by code with custom data layers, removing a layer with `remove_custom_data_layer` does not update the name-to-layer mapping; `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` will continue to return that layer's original index.

This has a downstream effect of causing TileData objects attempting to use `get_custom_data('Layer B')` to return invalid data (whatever custom data is now in Layer B's old index; e.g. Layer C).

I would expect that after using `remove_custom_data_layer`, I would be able to still use `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` on that tileset.

### Steps to reproduce

Run this code to see that getting Layer B by name after removing the first layer continues to return its original index (1) when in reality it is now at index 0.
```
	var tileset:TileSet = TileSet.new()

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(0, 'Layer A')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(0, TYPE_INT)

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(1, 'Layer B')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(1, TYPE_STRING)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer A
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # Layer B
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # 1

	print('----- removing custom data layer 0 -----')
	tileset.remove_custom_data_layer(0)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer B
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # prints an error, as expected
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # returns 1 still! should return 0.
```

### Minimal reproduction project

[RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11804762/RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip)

ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_terrain_set, terrain_sets.size());
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_terrain_index, terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains.size());
	terrain_sets.write[p_terrain_set].terrains.write[p_terrain_index].name = p_name;
	emit_changed();
}
String TileSet::get_terrain_name(int p_terrain_set, int p_terrain_index) const {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_terrain_set, terrain_sets.size(), String());
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_terrain_index, terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains.size(), String());
	return terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains[p_terrain_index].name;
}
void TileSet::set_terrain_color(int p_terrain_set, int p_terrain_index, Color p_color) {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_terrain_set, terrain_sets.size());
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX(p_terrain_index, terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains.size());
	if (p_color.a != 1.0) {
		WARN_PRINT("Terrain color should have alpha == 1.0");
		p_color.a = 1.0;
	}
	terrain_sets.write[p_terrain_set].terrains.write[p_terrain_index].color = p_color;
	emit_changed();
}
Color TileSet::get_terrain_color(int p_terrain_set, int p_terrain_index) const {
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_terrain_set, terrain_sets.size(), Color());
	ERR_FAIL_INDEX_V(p_terrain_index, terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains.size(), Color());
	return terrain_sets[p_terrain_set].terrains[p_terrain_index].color;
}
bool TileSet::is_valid_terrain_peering_bit_for_mode(TileSet::TerrainMode p_terrain_mode, TileSet::CellNeighbor p_peering_bit) const {