### Godot version

4.0 fb10f45

### System information

Windows 10 x64

### Issue description

Behold, empty TileSet editor, with no TileMap node nor bottom button visible:
![image](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/assets/2223172/0f052770-4946-40eb-a790-a995dbe2599c)
Regression from #72277 (most likely, I didn't test)

### Steps to reproduce

1. Add some Node to your scene
2. Add a TileMap as a child
3. Select TileMap
4. Fold its parent in the scene tree
5. Restart the editor
6. The TileMap selection is restored and so is the folded node, resulting in a weird paradox

### Minimal reproduction project

N/A
parent = (slash_idx >= 0 && parent.length() > 1) ? parent.substr(slash_idx + 1) : parent;
					r_filenames.write[set_idx] = parent + r_filenames[set_idx];
				}
			}
			
			bool can_proceed = false;
			RBSet<int>::Element *E = iset.front();
			while (E) {
				String scene_name = r_filenames[E->get()];
				bool duplicate_found = false;
				for (const int &F : iset) {
					if (E->get() == F) {
						continue;
					}
					String other_scene_name = r_filenames[F];
					if (other_scene_name == scene_name) {
						duplicate_found = true;
						break;
					}
				}
				RBSet<int>::Element *to_erase = duplicate_found ? nullptr : E;
				
				
				
				
				
				String path = p_full_paths[E->get()];
				
				scene_name = scene_name.get_basename();
				if (path.begins_with("res:")) {