### Godot version

v4.0.3.stable.mono.official [5222a99f5]

### System information

macOS Monterey 12.6.6 (21G646)

### Issue description

When creating a tileset by code with custom data layers, removing a layer with `remove_custom_data_layer` does not update the name-to-layer mapping; `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` will continue to return that layer's original index.

This has a downstream effect of causing TileData objects attempting to use `get_custom_data('Layer B')` to return invalid data (whatever custom data is now in Layer B's old index; e.g. Layer C).

I would expect that after using `remove_custom_data_layer`, I would be able to still use `get_custom_data_layer_by_name` on that tileset.

### Steps to reproduce

Run this code to see that getting Layer B by name after removing the first layer continues to return its original index (1) when in reality it is now at index 0.
```
	var tileset:TileSet = TileSet.new()

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(0, 'Layer A')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(0, TYPE_INT)

	tileset.add_custom_data_layer()
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_name(1, 'Layer B')
	tileset.set_custom_data_layer_type(1, TYPE_STRING)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer A
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # Layer B
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # 1

	print('----- removing custom data layer 0 -----')
	tileset.remove_custom_data_layer(0)

	print('Layer index 0 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(0)) # Layer B
	print('Layer index 1 name : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_name(1)) # prints an error, as expected
	print('Layer B is on index : ', tileset.get_custom_data_layer_by_name("Layer B")) # returns 1 still! should return 0.
```

### Minimal reproduction project

[RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/11804762/RemoveCustomDataLayer.zip)

if (!tile_set) {
		return;
	}
	occluders.resize(tile_set->get_occlusion_layers_count());
	physics.resize(tile_set->get_physics_layers_count());
	for (int bit_index = 0; bit_index < 16; bit_index++) {
		if (terrain_set < 0 || terrain_peering_bits[bit_index] >= tile_set->get_terrains_count(terrain_set)) {
			terrain_peering_bits[bit_index] = -1;
		}
	}
	navigation.resize(tile_set->get_navigation_layers_count());
	
	custom_data.resize(tile_set->get_custom_data_layers_count());
	for (int i = 0; i < custom_data.size(); i++) {
		if (custom_data[i].get_type() != tile_set->get_custom_data_layer_type(i)) {
			Variant new_val;
			Callable::CallError error;
			if (Variant::can_convert(custom_data[i].get_type(), tile_set->get_custom_data_layer_type(i))) {
				const Variant *args[] = { &custom_data[i] };
				Variant::construct(tile_set->get_custom_data_layer_type(i), new_val, args, 1, error);
			} else {
				Variant::construct(tile_set->get_custom_data_layer_type(i), new_val, nullptr, 0, error);
			}
			custom_data.write[i] = new_val;
		}
	}
	notify_property_list_changed();
	emit_signal(SNAME("changed"));
}
void TileData::add_occlusion_layer(int p_to_pos) {