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I don't know if you've got this recommendation yet but you should get a credit report and request a freeze. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | lurkingStill | reddit |
Hi OP,
Let me start by telling you that your feelings are completely legitimate, understandable, and NTA.
I am the youngest of four kids; my oldest brother (R) is severely special-needs and we have grown up helping to take care of him. My mom had R at 17 years old, and for a baby that wasn’t expected to make it past... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | pi3b0 | reddit |
Just regarding college. I would recommend staying in the state you are in. In-state tuition is a *lot* cheaper.
Try to get a job as soon as you can. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | jcinto23 | reddit |
1) I am so so happy that the rest of your family is rallying around you.
2) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure that your grandad and you are covered legally, you do NOT want your parents trying to get the police involved with a bullshit kidnapping claim or something similar.
I'd recommend a lawyer to be honest, your par... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | illidra | reddit |
OP, your grandpa is dope. I know other people have already suggested a therapist, so I won't parrot them. Just remember to take care of yourself. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Planeswalking101 | reddit |
I've never clicked on a post as fast as when I saw this update. I am both so glad and sorry for how things turned out. I'm glad your extended family is taking such good care if you but so sorry your parents suck so much. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ioriana | reddit |
This is pretty irresponsible of your parents to be doing. There is a lot of help out there for ASD children. Your parents can get ABA therapist (by going on what you are saying, they should get at least 40 hours a week) they can also get respite care as well (This can be as little as 10 hours a month, to as much as 20 ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Nekotana | reddit |
Thank you for updating. If you ever need kind words from a mom, r/momforaminute is there. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ecwoodard | reddit |
Made me cry. Thank you for updating. Very grateful for your extended family.
Your parents might keep doing flybys/ guilt trips. Hang in there. Print out this update, keep it with you, and read it over when you need. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | heartjoysobfacepalm | reddit |
I understand your predicament, for I also come from a similar situation; my older brother has autism spectrum disorder, and is on the low-end of the scale.
My parents, since I was about seven years old, always stressed that I needed to take care of him and allow him to live with me once I was older despite the four ye... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | intothewillows | reddit |
> "You were put here to be her caretaker".
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Don't ever look back. My parents and me have separated from 3 out of my moms 5 siblings and from my maternal grandmother, because they had a similar mentality to your parents. It's the best decision we 3 made in our lives. It will be shitty for a while, bu... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Jelkluz | reddit |
Oh sweetheart, I am just so sorry your parents put you through this. Thank you for updating us- it is so, so great to hear that your grandfather and extended family are supporting you through this now. Good luck ❤️ | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
You didn't loose your parents, your parents lost you. This should give them some time to think what they have done wrong and hopefully repent. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Torterrain | reddit |
Stay strong OP. I hate to say this but they're probably only asking you about coming home cause they want you to take care of your sister while they take a break. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | SharMarali | reddit |
Fair warning for people moving from a strict environment to a more relaxed environment.
There is a tendancy to go a little crazy with the freedom and end up doing a lot of stuff they later regret. Enjoy your freedom, but keep your head on your shoulders. Have fun, make mistakes, but don't get in over your head. Be sur... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Suchega_Uber | reddit |
Of course, this is not the happiest ending, but it’s still a really good ending for you. Hope for all the best! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Mudmage52 | reddit |
Your grandpa is a fucking champ | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | the_normal_person | reddit |
> My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.
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Do yourself a favor and block their numbers. If they need to communicate with you, they can go through your grandfather (who will likely tell them to fuck off).
| [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | discotable | reddit |
I just read someone else’s suggestion and want to second it, even if you’re a minor, pull your credit report, your parents may have used your social security number & opened accounts in your name.
Please look into this. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | typhoidmarry | reddit |
/r/raisedbynarcissists | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | The_Neutrin0 | reddit |
Good for you! I’m so glad your family is standing up for and defending you. It sounds like your parents fully planned to continue using you as a live-in home health nurse, and taking all of the money for themselves. What assholes. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | specialopps | reddit |
You did not lose your parents. You lost the people that were taking advantage of you and the rest of their family.
Your “parent” is now your grandfather. Cherish him. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | kaflowsinall | reddit |
Your parents didn't parent.
They are going to FLIP when aunt's money doesn't arrive. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Texastexastexas1 | reddit |
what a bunch of scumbags. I'm glad you got away from them.
>I don't hat\[e\] my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her.
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This was my biggest issue with the last post; it seemed like your parents were the source of the problem, your sister ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | jazaniac | reddit |
Honestly if they're not providing your sister the caretaker she needs they may well be abusing more than your aunt's money. An anonymous report might be in order to make sure she's actually getting the care she needs. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Candroth | reddit |
Give your grandad a big hug.
You both need it | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
OP, I’m so glad you posted an update!! While I’m sorry that you are going through this and can’t imagine what you’re struggling with, I’m so glad that you got out when you did. I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself, and wish you the best!
Also, your grandfather sounds like a sweetheart! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | madd-eve | reddit |
Hey OP your parents lost YOU. Not the other way around. They lost the chance to have you around and get to know you. I'm so happy your grandfather has come through for you, and I really hope its smooth sailing from here. Good luck OP | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
I'm glad that you're finally getting a bit more freedom rather than being a constant caretaker. Good to hear that you're in a better place than before. I wish you all the very best and then some. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ThotThotleyTheMeek | reddit |
Unless you have some sort of special scholarship for school, please reconsider leaving the state for school simply to get away from your parents/sister. The cost of out-of-state tuition is no joke, and when the time comes to pay back those egregious student loans you will realize that was just one more way your parents... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Bl00perTr00per | reddit |
OP, you're doing great, and I'm glad you have so much support around you. You're much stronger than I was in high school in terms of being able to stick up for yourself. I'm 30 and just now figuring out where to draw lines with my parents. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | CantankerousPlatypus | reddit |
I'm sorry that your parents have failed you, but I'm so happy to hear your extended family has stepped up to show you the love and support you deserve. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Talathia | reddit |
I'm glad you have an awesome grandpa, OP. I hope he lives a long life. And I hope you finally get to do things you always wanted to. I wish you best in your new home. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | sniffsandlathers | reddit |
Holy shit man. I wish you the best of luck with life going forwards. I can't believe your parents would do this to you. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Kawaii_Neko_Girl | reddit |
Good for you my dude. Go and make your future yours. I hope you reconcile with your sis in the future. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Best of luck to you - it's a shitty situation where there aren't any real winners but if you don't act selfishly sometimes the wrong type of people will take full advantage and you will lose yourself. In the end it sounds like, based on the info at hand, this is definitely better for you. Hopefully one day you can he... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Exiled_From_Twitter | reddit |
Damn. This brings me nothing but joy to see the people around giving you the love you deserve. Thanks so much for the update. We all wish you the best, OP. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | meinkampfysocks | reddit |
MVP grandfather and aunt. You were really put into a difficult situation and you're overcoming it.
Wish you good luck & enjoy your time with your friends! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | edeezz | reddit |
I don't have too much to add here, but I'd like to point you toward r/JUSTNOFAMILY. (r/JUSTNOMIL and r/JUSTNOFIL also accept stories about one specific parent; doesn't have to be an in-law).
The JustNo network is really helpful with navigating toxic family situations such as yours, especially as you work through a lot... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Lancerlandshark | reddit |
Get your social security card and birth certif | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | WhoKnowsWhyIDidThis | reddit |
I really hope one of your family members made a call to DHS on behalf of you and your disabled sister who is still in their care. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | pdxcranberry | reddit |
> I don't hate my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.
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u/Renegadesrule33, report your parents. They have been making you do work that you were not suited... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | timelordoftheimpala | reddit |
You are amazing and maybe someday your parents will realize they were wrong. They have been telling themselves for your whole life that their behavior was acceptable, so don't expect a change of heart overnight. Take the space you need to become your own person so that you can repair your relationship with your sister ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | oniraa | reddit |
Oh my gosh...I’m so sorry you went through all of this. But I’m glad to see you’ve found a way out of it and are doing better now. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | irisshadow | reddit |
I'm glad that things are starting to slowly get better for you and your future. For what your parents did, was terrible and the fact that they still didn't apologize for what they did makes it worse. I hope things do get better and that your sister actually gets a caretaker. It's very unfair to you how you were treated... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | TrippleASA | reddit |
God OP your update made me ugly cry. I hope your life improves, and I hope your sister gets the help she needs from a qualified professional.
I'm sorry you lost your parents, but I'm so happy you gained the support of your extended family. Good on you for leaving. You deserve good things. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | annualgoat | reddit |
From an internet stranger and a mother, I am so proud of you. And I am so glad that you have family who care and who are supportive of you. I know it's going to take a while to get used to not having contact with them, and that's okay. You're going through a transitioning period and things will be weird for a while. Yo... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Please update with an edit after you pick up your stuff later today, because as much as we all wish that will happen smoothly, I can't help but not ignore the fact that it's still a contact with your parents again and it might really turn into a shitstorm of a time. Please do take some support along as well when you go... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Nobody_ed | reddit |
Sounds like you have a wonderful extended family, and I wish you all the best. The most important thing is to stick to your guns now and don't let your parents manipulate you into doing their bidding again. Good luck OP! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | kingbluetit | reddit |
When your dad said “you were put here to take care of your sister” I wanted to sock him in the jaw. I don’t care if that makes MTA. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | doobling | reddit |
NTA, your parents are the literal worst. However don’t let that change how you view your sister. I know it’s hard, but she’s not at fault for being disabled. It’s your parents who you should despise, as you obviously and should do. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | erikparcs | reddit |
Wow happy to hear this is turning out better than it was prior. Grandfather pulls through hard in this situation. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Rose_Knight789 | reddit |
Good luck on life bro, hope things get better. Maybe one day you’ll give us another update on how your life has been | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | RiceFlavoredSoda | reddit |
This is like movie script type stuff.
Like, the second coming of *Gilbert Grape* in a few ways.
Glad you got away and are able to start healing, OP. Best of luck going forward. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Looking-Cool-Joker | reddit |
Thank you for the update, I was wondering how you were doing. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ChubberTheChubber | reddit |
I just want to point out if anyone else hasn't yet.
You didn't lose your parents. Your parents lost you. You have no blame in this. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Dingo-thatate-urbaby | reddit |
You did it.
You’re awesome.
You fought back
And won the war.
You are truly the best kind of person to have dealt with the situation.
Godspeed to you sir. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | OneMensTrash | reddit |
Hey man, i know i'm just a stranger on the internet, but im really proud of you. What you did took a lot of courage, and down the road, when reflecting on these moments, standing up for yourself, you will understand how much confidence you had to do that, and it will continue to grow. Don't let people hurt you. Theres ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | JungleReaver | reddit |
How can a great man such as your grandpa breed such lowlife.
Good luck for the rest OP! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | itsfeykro | reddit |
> Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it.
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I really hope this does not mean that you are going to all... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | capitolcapitalstrat | reddit |
Good guy fucking grandpa. You're truly lucky to have such a wonderful extended family. Most of us aren't that lucky. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ForLotsOfSubs321 | reddit |
Hey OP, don’t feel bad about your feelings. Sure they were addressed to the wrong person, but it was much easier to hate your sister than the people who should have your best interests at heart. Props to your Grandpa and the rest of your family, I’m really glad you have them at least! Right now it must hurt very badly ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | sleepyplatipus | reddit |
Good on you for not projecting your anger on your sister. It’s not her you should hate, it’s your parents.
And we’re proud and happy for you OP. The road ahead may be long, but just remember that you’ll always have support. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | AtomicEggSandwich | reddit |
All the best, OP!!!
We're looking forward to hearing from you!!!! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | neo_neo_neo_96 | reddit |
Stay strong my man. Go sicko mode on your life. And if it means anything, I, a random person on the internet, wishes you the best and believes in you. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Monosphere | reddit |
Im the oldest of 6 kids. My sister right below me was handicapped. She stopped mentally developing at 1.5 years. I was homeschooled and had no friends. Had to stay home to care for the younger kids. Very rarely went to friends house and I felt guilty the entire time I wasn't home to help. I ended up running away and ev... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Couthlessfer | reddit |
I'll be rooting for you. Stay wary of any false apologies that will probably happen in the near future, and become the best version of yourself moving forward. Best of luck mate. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | EmperoaaR | reddit |
Thank God your grandpa is able to take you in. Your parents are assholes in the truest sense of the word. You're a badass for standing up for yourself and surviving in that house. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | woolfonmynoggin | reddit |
Did you tell your parents you absolutely have zero intention of being a caretaker to your sister? Not now, not ever? They need to know this so they can start making actual plans that do not include you or the money they have been stealing from their family. I’m so glad that cash flow has stopped.
Im afraid that t... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Momof3dragons2012 | reddit |
Good job Gramps! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | JoeCreator | reddit |
Be extremely careful OP. Your parents seem to coming off as having extreme narcissistic tendencies. So expect them to, once they realize you are not coming home, to call the police on your grandfather. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | ICUMTARANTULAS | reddit |
I know this varies from state to state, but where I am, the parents of a disabled child can get caretakers paid for by the state. My point is, they put you in a terrible position that was completely unnecessary. Stick to your guns OP. Best of luck! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Ejacksin | reddit |
happy the rest of your family is supportive | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | magikarpsan | reddit |
Awesome. I’m glad you got out. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
I hope the years of validation flooding into you for this week feels as amazing as you deserve | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Foureyedlemon | reddit |
> she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me
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Translation: "Now we have to take care of our daughter ourselves & our family knows we stole money for a non-existent caretaker." Glad you got out when you did & exposed your parents for the lying thieves they are. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Good for you. Making such a hard descision to better your life couldnt of been easier but you did exactly what you should of done. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | tbonelarouge | reddit |
Hey! I normally don't log in (just browse) but I wanted to comment as I was just wondering about your story yesterday. There was a [This American Life episode](https://www.thisamericanlife.org/317/unconditional-love/act-two-4) that came on yesterday where the parents decided to send their autistic son to a facility aft... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
It’s good that you’ve got a couple good family members to lean back on, especially your grandfather. I’m wishing you the best OP, and I really hope that someday you’ll be able to reconcile with your parents :) | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Carb_Lover01 | reddit |
Your parents have manipulated you, trying to make you believe your purpose in life is to care for your sister. I’m so glad you’ve taken action to support yourself and I’m so happy you have a loving family to support you. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Props to your grandfather for coming through! Don’t be hard on yourself - you handled that situation way better than most of us would have. What’s important is that you have your life back and can do you.
You have a good head on your shoulders - you’re going to be just fine! 😇 | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | WriteAway1 | reddit |
You might find /r/raisedbynarcissists to be a place that is good for support. I’m not saying your parents are narcissists, but at the very least, they are lacking in empathy and see you as an extension of themselves, not your own person. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | MrsSpice | reddit |
Your parents sound like total pieces of shit to not only you, but also your sister, they're ignoring her needs by not getting her a caretaker, I encourage you to talk to your family about that as well and see if they can get her into a situation where shes cared for.
I hope from here on out you can work to build a goo... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
For you to be a teenager and realize you were projecting hate onto your sister that rightfully belonged on your parents is huge. That level of introspection and self-analysis will take you far and keep you sane through much of your life. I was impressed by that.
I hope your parents realize how wrong they were for the ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Evannt | reddit |
Your parents sounded like Narcissists in your previous post, but now there is no doubt. You weren't put here to take care of your sister. You were put here so that you could study, have fun with your friends and not be an idiot, unlike your parents. The fact that they do not apologise to you, despite grounding you WHIL... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | DungeonsAndDuck | reddit |
proud of you OP . the folks on r/raisedbynarcissists might also have some good advice to help you through these rough times . | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
As a parent of a special needs person, I can tell you that using my other children as caregivers never ever entered our minds. Not once. Not ever. My special daughter is now thriving in a group home thank goodness but even if she were still living with me I would not burden her siblings. It has to come from them, that ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Makememak | reddit |
Wow OP. Read your original post and really felt for you. I'm glad you've come to the realization that you didn't necessarily hate your sister but the position you had been put in. Super glad your extended family have taken you in and are giving you the support you need for a future. I'm sorry it wasn't the perfect outc... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | beckyyall | reddit |
Oh thank god, I love this grandfather. OP, please give him a hug for me. Your parents are monsters and they don't own you. I'm so sorry they've failed you so badly | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | DorothyInNeverland | reddit |
OP I'm glad you're getting support and your hate amd anger are directed at the adults who were supposed to care for both of you. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | sunbear2525 | reddit |
> My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on.
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She has no obligation to do such a thing, but if she really does, be sure to thank her for it. Honestly both her and your grandpa sound like wonderful people. I'm glad we got a happy ending (of ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Darkmayr | reddit |
I was heartbroken to read your original post, but am glad that you updated and things seem to be moving in the right direction for you. Bless your grandfather, he sounds like a wonderful person. I know it will seem rough not talking to/living with your parents anymore, but it sounds like it’s for the best. I hope thing... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | alliecat1798 | reddit |
Aw honey I’m so glad you’re getting out and that you have a support system now. You will do fine.
Also I want you not to feel bad over your anger at your sister. It was only natural. No need to force yourself to feel anything towards her, though if you really do care for her that’s great but I don’t blame you a bit if... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | nosleepforthedreamer | reddit |
\> Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.
This is incredibly mature insight. Hold on... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Dont____Panic | reddit |
Thank you so much for posting this update! I'm sure many people were wondering how you're doing now. And I'm really happy that the rest of your family is there for you. It's horrifying to hear how your parents treat you, and don't treat you as an actual person with wants and needs, but indeed, as a caretaker.
For ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Alianirlian | reddit |
Keep us up to date | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | BalouCurie | reddit |
I don't know for sure, or know if it helps, but I'd imagine your mom did mean it when she said she loves you. Unfortunately, in tough situations, love can sometimes get twisted. That doesn't mean it's not there.
And it certainly doesn't mean what your parents did was ok. They still made a very, very wrong decision, a... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | kierkegaardsho | reddit |
As much as this experience has been very difficult, the clear silver lining is that you now know how amazing of a grandfather you have. He sounds like a purely kind hearted soul and you are so lucky to have him to support you. I’m sure you realized this before, but having to deal with this would have been so much mo... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
I’m so so glad your grandfather can be an advocate for you! That’s amazing! I wish you all the best! Hang in there!! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | girlandfeline | reddit |
You poor thing!! I hope you’re doing a lot better now. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | AmericanDaydreamer | reddit |
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