Jordan Peterson: Life, Death, Power, Fame, and Meaning | Lex Fridman Podcast #313

Battle not with monsters lest ye become a monster and if you gaze into the abyss the abyss gazes also Into you right, but I would say Bring it on if you gaze into the abyss long enough. You see the light not the darkness Are you sure about that? I'm betting my life on it The following is a conversation with Jordan Peterson an an influential psychologist lecturer podcast host and author of maps of meaning 12 rules for life and beyond order This is the Lex Friedman podcast to support it Please check out our sponsors in the description and now dear friends. Here's Jordan Peterson Dusty yes, he wrote in the idiot spoken through the character of Prince, Michigan that beauty will save the world World soldier Nissen actually mentioned this in his Nobel Prize Acceptance speech. What do you think the CF scheme meant by that? Was he right? well, I Guess it's the divine that saves the world. Let's say you could say that by definition and then you might say well are there pointers to that which will save the world or that which eternally saves the world and the answer to that in all likelihood is yes, and that's maybe truth and love and justice and the classical virtues beauty Perhaps in some sense foremost among them. It's a that's a difficult case to make but definitely a pointer Which direction is the arrow pointing? Well, the arrow is pointing up No, I think that that which it points to is what beauty points to it transcends beauty It's more than beauty and that speaks to the divine it points to the divine Yeah, and I would say again by definition because we could define the divine in some real sense so one way of defining the divine is What is divine to you is your most fundamental axiom and you might say well I don't have a fundamental axiom and I would say that's fine. But then you're just confused Because you have a bunch of contradictory axioms and you might say well, I have no axioms at all and then I'd say well You're just epistemologically ignorant beyond comprehension if you think that because that's just not true at all So do you don't think a human being can exist within contradictions? Well, yeah, we have to exist within contradiction But when the contradictions make themselves manifest it's a in confusion with regard to direction then the consequence of that technically is anxiety and Frustration and disappointment and all sorts of other negative emotions, but the cardinal negative emotion signifying multiple pathways forward is Anxiety it's an entropy signal but you don't think that kind of a entropy signal can be channeled into Into beauty into love. Why does beauty and love have to be clear ordered? Simple well, I would say it probably doesn't have to be It can't be reduced to clarity and simplicity because when it's optimally structured, it's a balance between Order and chaos not order itself if it's too ordered if music is too ordered. It's not it's not acceptable It sounds like a drum machine. It's too repetitive. It's too predictable It has to have well, it has to have some fire in it Along with the structure. I was in Miami doing a seminar on Exodus with a number of scholars and this is a beauty discussion When Moses first encounters the burning bush It's not a conflagration that demands attention. It's something that catches his attention It's a phenomena and that means to shine forth and Moses has to stop and attend to it and he does and he sees this Fire that doesn't consume the tree and the tree the tree is a structure It's a tree like structure. It's a branching structure. It's a hierarchical structure. It's a self similar structure it's a fractal structure and it's the tree of life and it's the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and The fire in it is the transformation That's always occurring within every structure and the fact that the fire doesn't consume the bush in that representation is a an indication of the balance of transformation with structure and that balance is Presented as God and what attracts Moses to it in some sense is the beauty Now it's the novelty and all that but like a painting is like a burning bush That's a good way of thinking about it a great painting. It's too much for people often, you know, I my house Was and will soon be again completely covered with paintings inside and It was hard on people to come in there because well my mother for example Well, my mother for example say well, why would you want to live in a museum? And I think well, I would rather live in a museum than anywhere else in some real sense, but beauty is daunting It scares people they're terrified of buying art for example because their taste is on display and they should be terrified because Generally people have terrible taste now that doesn't mean they shouldn't foster it and develop it But and you know when you put your taste on display It's a real really exposes you even to yourself as you walk past it. Oh every day Absolutely. I am yeah well in and look how mundane that is and look how trite it is and look at how cliched it is and look at how sterile or too ordered it is or too chaotic or how quickly you start to take it for Granted because you've seen it so many times. Well, if it's a real piece of art that doesn't happen You notice the little details the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. I mean there are images religious images in particular so we could call them deep images that people have been unpacking for 4,000 years and still haven't I'll give you an example. This is a terrible example So I did a lecture series on Genesis and I got a lot of it unpacked but by no means all of it When God kicks Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden He puts cherubim with flames and he puts the dead in the garden of Eden He puts cherubim with flaming swords at the gate to stop human beings from re-entering paradise. I Thought what the hell does that mean cherubim? And why do they have flaming swords? I don't get that. What is that exactly and Then I found out from Matthew Pazio who wrote a great book on symbolism in Genesis that Cherubim are the supporting monsters of God It's a very complicated idea and that they're partly a representation of that which is difficult to fit into Conceptual systems. They've also got an angelic or demonic aspect Take your pick. Why do they have flaming swords? Well, a sword is a symbol of judgment and and the separation of the wheat from the chaff. You use a sword to cut away, to cut away and to carve And a flaming sword is not only that which carves it's that which burns and what is it carve away and burn? Well, you want to get into paradise? It carves away everything about you that isn't perfect. And so what does that mean? Okay. Well, here's part of what it means This is a terrible thing so You could say that the entire Christian narrative is embedded in that image Why? Well, let's say that flaming swords are a symbol of death. That seems pretty obvious Let's say further that they're a symbol of apocalypse and hell That doesn't seem completely unreasonable. So here's an idea Not only do you have to face death You have to face death and hell before you can get to paradise hellish judgment and all that's embedded in that image and then a piece of art with an image like that has all that information in it and it shines forth in some Fundamental sense it reaches into the back tendrils of your mind at levels You can't even comprehend and grips you. I mean, that's why people go to museums and gaze at paintings They don't understand and that's why they'll pay what's the most expensive objects in the world if it's not carbon fiber racing yachts It's definitely Classic paintings right? It's high-level technological implements or it's classic art. Well, why are those things so expensive? Why do we build temples to house the images even secular people go to museums? I'm secular Well, are you in a museum? Yes. Are you looking at art? Yes. Well What makes you think you're secular then? It's arguable that the thing Many many centuries from now that will remain of all of human civilization will be our art Well, not even the words. Well, you know the a book has remained a very long time, right the biblical not that long No millennia. All right But that's in the full arc of living organisms. Yeah, perhaps well Not well, we have images that are we have artistic images that are at least 50,000 years old right that have survived and some of those are They're already profound in their symbolism. Well, we do well in Doris. Yeah, we found them and and and They've lasted they've lasted that long And so and then think about Europe Secular people all over the world make pilgrimages to Europe Well, why? because of the beauty Obviously, I mean that's self-evident and it's partly because there are things in Europe that are so beautiful They take your breath away, right? They make your hair stand on end. They fill you with a sense of awe and and We need to see those things it's not optional We need to see those things the cathedrals was in a cathedral in Vienna, and it was terribly beautiful, you know Terribly well, it was terribly beautiful. It's beauty painful for you is is that the highest form of beauty? It's really challenges you Oh, definitely. Yeah. Yeah, I got a good analysis of the Statue of David Michelangelo's statue says you could be far more than you are that's what that statue says and this Cathedral, you know down we went down into the into the Under structure of it and there were three floors of bones from the plague and there they all are And then that Cathedral's on top of it. It's no joke to go visit a place like that No, it's it it rattles you to the core and our our religious systems have become propositionally dubious But there's no arguing with the architecture although modern architects like to with their sterility and their giant middle fingers erected everywhere but Beauty is a is a terrible pointer to God and you know a secular person will say well, I don't believe in God. It's like Have it your way You got it. You cannot move forward into the unforeseen horizon of the future Except on faith and you might say well have no faith. It's like well good luck with the future then because what are you then nihilistic and hopeless and anxiety-ridden and If not, well something's guiding you forward its faith in something or multiple things, which just makes you a polytheist Which I wouldn't recommend Well, let me ask you one short-lived biological meatbag to another Who is God then? Let's try to sneak up to this question if it's at all possible. Is it possible to even talk about this? Well, it better be because otherwise there's no communicating about it. I did it has to be something that can be brought down to earth Well, we might be too dumb to bring it down. It's not just ignorant. It's also sinful, right? So because there's not knowing and then there's one on it wanting to know or refusing to know. Yeah, and so you might say well Could you extract God from a description of the objective world? right is is God just the ultimate unity of of Of the natural reality and I would say well in a sense there's some truth in that but but not exactly because God in the highest sense is the spirit that you must emulate in order to thrive How's that for a biological definition? Spirit is a pattern the spirit that you must emulate in order to thrive So it's a kind of in one sense when we say the human spirit. It's that it's an animating principle Yeah, it's a meta. It's a pattern and you might say well, what's the pattern? Okay. Well, I can tell you that to some degree Imagine that like your grip by beauty you're gripped by admiration So and you can just notice this this isn't propositional you have to notice it. It's like a hole Turns out I admire that person Hmm. So what does that mean? Well, it means I would like to be like him or her That's what admiration means. It means there's something about the way they are that compels imitation another instinct or inspires respect or awe even Okay, what is that that grips you? well, I Don't know. Well, let's say okay fine But it grips you and you want to be like that kids hero worship for example So to adults for that matter unless they become entirely cynical I worship quite a quite a few heroes. Yeah. Well, there you go Oddly, yes. Well, there you go. And there's no that worship that celebration and proclivity to imitate is worship That's what worship means most fundamentally now imagine you took the set of all admirable people and You extract it out AI learning you extract it out the central features of what constitutes admirable And then you did that repeatedly until you purified it to what was most admirable That's as good as you're gonna get in in terms of a representation of God And you might say well, I don't believe in that it's like well, what do you mean? Yeah, it's not a set of Propositional facts. It's not a scientific theory about the structure of the objective world And then I could say something about that too because I've been thinking about this a lot Especially since talking to Richard Dawkins It's like okay the post-modernist types Going back way before Derrida and Foucault maybe back to Nietzsche Who I admire greatly by the way says God is dead It's like okay But Nietzsche said God is dead and we have killed him and we'll not find enough water to wash away all the blood So that was Nietzsche. He's no fool. He's got away with words He certainly does and so then you think okay. Well, we killed the transcendent Well, what does that mean for science? What does that mean for science? Well, it frees it up because all that nonsense about a deity is just the idiot superstition that stops the scientific What process from moving forward that's basically the new atheist claim something like that it's like wait a second Do you believe in the transcendent if you're a scientist? and the answer is Well, not only do you believe in it you believe in it more than anything else because if you're a scientist You believe in What objects to your theory more than you believe in your theory now? We got to think that through very carefully. So your theory describes the world and as far as you're concerned Your description of the world is the world But because you're a scientist you think well, even though that's my description of the world and that's what I believe there's something beyond what I believe and And that's the object and so I'm gonna throw my theory against the object and see where it'll break and then I'm going to use The evidence of the break as a source of new information to revitalize my theory So as a scientist you have to posit the existence of the ontological transcendent Before you can move forward at all, but more You have to posit that contact with the ontological transcendent Annoying though it is because it upsets your apple cart is exactly what will in fact set you free so then you accept the proposition that there is a transcendent reality and that the that contact with that transcendent reality is Redemptive in the most fundamental sense because if it wasn't well, why would you bother making contact with you're gonna make everything worse or better? Why does the? contact with the transcendent Set you free as a scientist because you assume that you assume I mean freedom in the most fundamental sense It's like well freedom from want freedom from disease freedom from ignorance, right that it informs you So it's the logos in it science. It is definitely that Yeah, it's it's the what it's the direction. Let's say the directionality of science That's a narrative direction not a scientific direction. And then the question is what is the narrative? Well, it posits a transcendent reality. It posits that the transcendent reality is corrective It posits that our knowledge structures should be regarded with humility it posits that you should bow down in the face of of The transcendent evidence and you have to take a vow, you know this as a scientist You have to take a vow to follow that path if you're gonna be a real scientist. It's like the truth No matter what and that means you posit the truth as a redemptive force Well, what is redemptive mean? Well, why bother with science? Well, so people don't starve so people can move about more effectively so life can be more abundant, right? So it's all ensconced within an underlying ethic So the reason I was saying that while we were talking about belief in God, it's like this is a very complicated topic Right. Do you believe in a transcendent reality? See? Okay. Now, let's say You buy the argument. I just made on the natural front. You say yeah. Yeah, that's just nature That's not God And then I'd say well what makes you think you know what nature is? Like see the problem with that argument is that it it already presumes a materialist a reductionist materialist Objective view of what constitutes nature, but if you're a scientist you're gonna think Well in the final analysis, I don't know what nature is. I certainly don't know its origin or destination point I don't know its teleology. I'm really ignorant about it I'm really ignorant about nature. And so when I say it's nothing but nature, I Shouldn't mean it's nothing but what I understand nature to be so I could say will we have a fully reductionist account of cognitive processes and The answer to that is yes but by the time we do that our Understanding of matter will have transformed so much that what we think of as reductionist now won't look anything like What we think of reductionism now matter isn't dead dust I don't know what it is. I have no idea what it is matter is what matters there's a definition That's a very weird definition but the notion that we have You know that if you're a reductionist a materialist reductionist that you can reduce The complexity of what is to your assumptions about the nature of matter? That's not a scientific your specific limited human assumptions of this century of this week that so in that in some sense without God in this complicated big definition, we're talking about the there's no humility or It's less not enough. There's less likely to be or rather science can err in Taking a trajectory away from humility. Well without something much more powerful Than an individual human. Yeah. Well then and we know, you know, the Frankenstein story comes out of that instantly and That's a good story for the current times. It's like you you're playing around with make a new life You bloody well better make sure you have your arrows pointed up and it's interesting because you said science has An ethic to it. I think it's embedded in an ethic Well, there's a you know, science is a big word Yeah, and it includes a lot of disciplines that have different traditions. So biology chemistry genetics physics Those are very different communities and I think biology especially when you get closer and closer to medicine into the human body Does have a very serious first of all has a history with Nazi Germany of being abused and all those kinds of things But as a history of taking this stuff seriously what doesn't have a history of taking this stuff Seriously is robotics and artificial intelligence, which is really interesting because you don't You know, you called me a scientist, but and I would like to wear that label proudly But often people don't think of computer science as a science But nevertheless it will be I think the science of one of the major Scientific fields of the 21st century and you should take that very seriously oftentimes when people build robots or AI systems they think of them as Toys to tinker with oh, isn't this cool? Mm-hmm. Well, I feel this too. Isn't this cool? It is cool, but you know at a certain moment you might isn't this nuclear Explosion cool. Yes, it is or birth control pill cool It's like or or transistor cool. Yeah. Well the other thing too, and and this is a weird Problem in some sense the robotics engineer types. They're thing people, right? I mean the big classes of interest are interest in things versus interest in people Some of my best friends are thing people. Yeah, right and thing people are very very clear logical Thinkers and they're very outcome oriented and practical Now and that's all good. That makes the machinery and keeps it functioning, but there's a human side of the equation and and You get the extreme thing people and you think yeah. Well, what about the human here and When we're talking about we've been talking about the necessity of having a technological enterprise Embedded in an ethic and you can ignore that like most of the time right you can ignore the overall Ethic in some sense when you're toying around with your toys, but when you're building an artificial intelligence, it's like well That's not a toy That might be toy becomes the monster very cool. Yeah. Yeah. Yes. Yes, and and this is a whole new kind of monster and Maybe it's already here Yes, and you notice how many of those things you can no longer turn off And what is it with you engineers and your inability to put off switches on things now It's like I have to hold this for five seconds for it to shut off or I can't figure it I just want to shut it off click off Well, what is it with you humans that don't put off switches and other humans? Because there's a magic to the thing that you can do And other humans because there's a magic to the thing that you notice and it hurts For both you and perhaps one day the thing itself to turn it off Mm-hmm, and so you have to be very careful as an engineer adding off switches to things I think it's a feature not a bug the off switch the off switch gives a deadline to us humans to systems of existence It makes you it's you know Death is the thing that really brings clarity to life and I do think hence the flaming swords the flaming So I do like your view of the flame of the bush and perhaps the sword as a thing of transformation It's also as a transformation that kind of consumes the thing in the process Well, it depends on how much of the thing is chaff, you know This is why you can't touch the Ark of the Covenant for example, and this is why people can have very bad psychedelic trips It's like if you're 95% dead wood and you get too close to the flame The 5% that's left might not be able to make it So you think it's all chaff, but I think there is some aspect of destruction that is That's you know, the the old Bukowski line of do what you love and let it kill you, right? Don't you think it that destruction is part of that's humility That's humility. That's you bet you bet you bet it's like Inviting the judgment inviting the judgment because maybe you can die a little bit instead of dying completely Yeah, no, that's I think it's Alfred North Whitehead We can let our ideas die instead of us Right, we can have these partial personalities that we can burn off and we can let them go before they become tyrannical pharaohs and everything and we lose everything and so yeah There's this optimal bite of death and who knows what it would mean to optimize that like what if it was possible that if you? died enough all the time that you could continue to live and The thing is we already know that biologically because if you don't die properly all the time well, it's cancerous outgrowths and and it's a very fine balance between Productivity on the biological front and the culling of that right life is a real balance between growth and death And so what would happen if you got that balance, right? Well, we kind of know right because if you live your life properly So to speak and you're humble enough to let your stupidity die before it takes you out. You will live longer That's just a fact Well, but then what's the ultimate extension of that? But then what's the ultimate extension of that and the answer is we don't know we have no idea Well, let me ask you a difficult question Because opposed to the easy ones that you've been asking so far. Well, just the F ski is always just a warm-up So if death if death every single day is the way to progress through life You have become quite famous death in hell Death in hell. Yeah. Yeah, because you don't want to forget the hell part Do you worry that your fame? Traps you into the person That you wore before. Yeah. Well, yeah, Elvis became an Elvis impersonator by the time you died Yeah Do you fear that you have become a Jordan Peterson impersonator that do you fear of in some part becoming? the famous suit wearing Brilliant Jordan Peter this the certainty in the pursuit of truth hmm Always right. I think I worry about it more than anything else. I hope I hope I do I better has fame to some degree when you look at yourself in the mirror in the quiet of your mind Has it corrupted you? No doubt in some regard. I mean, it's very difficult thing to avoid, you know because Things change around you people are much more likely to do what you ask for example, right? And so that's a danger because one of the things that keeps you dying properly is that people push back against you optimally This is why so many celebrities spiral out of control, especially the tyrannical types that say run countries Everyone around them stops saying yeah, you're you're you're deviating a little bit there. They laugh at all their jokes They open all their doors. They they always want something from them. The red carpets always rolled out It's like well you think wouldn't that be lovely? It's well not if the red carpet is rolled out to you Well, you're on your way to perdition. That's not a good deal. You just get there more efficiently And so one of the things that I've tried to learn to manage is to get have people around me all the time who are critics who are saying yeah, I could have done that better and you're a little too harsh there and you're alienating people unnecessarily there and you should have done some more background work there and and I think the responsibility attendant upon that increases as your influence increases and that's That's a as your influence increases then that becomes a lot of responsibility So, you know and then maybe have an off day and well one here's an example I've been writing some columns lately about things that perturb me like the forthcoming famine for example, and It's hard to take those Problems on It's difficult to take those problems on in a serious manner and it's frightening and it would be easier just to go up to the cottage with my wife and go out on the lake and watch the sunset and So I'm tempted to draw on anger as a motivating energy to help me overcome the Resistance to doing this but then that makes me more harsh and judgmental in my tone When I'm reading such things for example on YouTube then might be optimal now I've had debates about with people about that because I have friends who say no if you're calling out the environmental environmentalist globalists who are harassing the Dutch farmers Then a little anger is just the ticket and but then others say well You know, you don't want to be too harsh because you alienate people who would otherwise listen to you. It's like That's a hard balance to get right but also maybe anger Hardens your mind to where you don't notice the the subtle quiet beauty of the world The quiet love that's always there that permeates everything Sometimes you can become deeply cynical about the world if it's the Nietzsche thing Yeah battle not with monsters lest ye become a monster and if you gaze into the abyss the abyss gazes also into you right, but I would say Bring it on Right because well, I also say knowing that he's absolutely right but if You gaze into the abyss long enough. You see the light not the darkness Are you sure about that? I'm betting my life on it Yeah, that's a heck of a bet Well, that's because it might distort your mind to where all you see is abyss is Abyss is the evil in this world. Well, then I would say you haven't looked long enough You know, that's back to the you just a little bit of swords the flaming swords It's like so I said the whole story of Christ was prefigured in that image. It's like the story of Christ psychologically is Radical acceptance of the worst possible tragedy. That's what it means. That's what the crucifix means Psychologically, it's like gaze upon that which you are most afraid of but that story doesn't end there because in in the in the story Christ goes through death into hell So death isn't enough the abyss the abyss of innocent death is not sufficient to produce redemption It has to be a voluntary journey to hell and maybe that's true for everyone and that's like there is no more terrifying idea than that by definition and so then well, do you gaze upon that? well Who knows Who knows how often do you gaze upon death your own? How often do you? Remember remind yourself that this right ends personally personally all the time because you as a as a deep thinker and philosopher it's easy to start philosophizing and forgetting that you're You might die to the angel of death sits on every word How's that? I how often do you actually consciously all the time? Notice the angel all the time. I Think it's one of the things that made me peculiar When I was in graduate school, you know I I thought about I was I had the thought of death in my mind all the time and I noticed that many of the people that I was with these were people I admired fine They that wasn't part of their character, but it was definitely part of mine. I'd wake up every morning This happened for years think time short get at it time short get at it. There's things to do and And so that was always it's still there and it's still there with I would say and it's unbearable in some sense Are you afraid of it? Like what? Yeah, you know I was ready to die a year ago and Not casually I had people I loved you know So no, I'm not very worried about me, but I'm very worried about making a mistake Yeah Her Elon Musk talk about that a couple of months ago. It was really a striking moment Someone asked him about death and he said just offhand and then went on with the conversation He said I'd be a relief and then he went on with the conversation And I thought well, you know, he's got a lot of weight on his shoulders. I'm sure that part of them thinks I'd be easier just if this wasn't here at all Now he said it offhand, but it was a telling moment in my estimation. So for him, that's a why live question Hmm the exhaustion of life. Yeah, you call it life is suffering. But yeah the hardship I'm more afraid of hell than death You're you're afraid of the thing that follows I Don't know if it follows or if it's always here I think we're gonna find out what's the connection between death and hell? I don't know And I don't know I don't know is there something that needs to be done before you arrive You're more likely to die terribly if you live in a manner that brings you to hell That's one connection and terribly is as a very deep kind of concept. Okay. Yeah. Yeah And that's the definition by the way What do you make of Elon Musk? You've spoken about him a bit you met him. I'm struck with admiration That's what I make of him. I always think of that as a primary Well, it's oh, it's like do you find this comedian funny? It's like well, I laugh at him You know what? I mean? It's not propositional again. And so I would there are things I would like to ask Mr. Musk about The Mars venture. I don't know what he's up to there It strikes me as absurd in the most fundamental sense because I think well it'd be easier just to build an outpost in the Antarctica Or in the desert. Well, how much of the human endeavor is absurd? Well, that's what it needs You say great men are seldom credited with their stupidity who the hell knows what Musk is up to I mean, obviously he's building rockets now. He's motivated because he wants to build a Platform for life on Mars. Is that a good idea? Who am I to say he's he's building the rockets man, but I'd like to ask him about it I I would like to see that conversation. I do think that Having talked to him quite a bit offline. I think these Several of his ideas like Mars like he was becoming a multi-planetary species could be one of the things that human civilization looks back at as Duh, I can't believe he is one of the few people that was really pushing this idea because it's the obvious obvious thing for Society to full life to survive. Yeah well It isn't obvious to me that I'm in any position to evaluate Elon Musk Like I would like to talk to him and find out what he's up to and why but I mean he's an impossible person What he's done is impossible all of it It's like he built an electric car that works now does it work completely and will it replace gas cars or should it? I don't know but if we're gonna build electric cars, he seems to be the best at that by a lot and He more or less did that people carp about him, but he more or less did that by himself I know he's very good at distributing responsibility and all of that But he's the spearhead and then that was pretty hard and then he built a rocket At like 110th the price of NASA rockets and then he shot his car out into space That's pretty hard. And then he's building this boring company More or less as a what would you call it? It's sort of it's this whimsical joke in some sense, but it's not a joke He's amazing and you're a link delving into the the depths of the mine Starlink It's like go Elon as far as I'm concerned and then you know, he puts his finger on things So oddly the pop the problem is under population. It's like I think so, too I think it's a terrible problem that we're the West for example is no longer at Replacement with regard to birthrate. It means we've abandoned the Virgin and the child in a most fundamental sense It's a bloody catastrophe and muskies. He sees it clear as can be Wow, and where everyone else is running around going. Oh, there's too many people it's like nope Got that not only see I've learned that there are falsehoods and lies and there are anti truths and an anti truth is something that's so preposterous that you couldn't you couldn't make a claim that's more opposite to the truth and The claim that there are too many people on the planet is an anti truth So, you know people say well you have to accept limits to growth and it said it's like I I have to accept the limits that you're going to impose on me because you're frightened of the future That's your theory. Is it okay? Well, it's an idea. It could be a right idea. It could be a wrong idea. I don't think any truth Here I'll tell you why it's the wrong idea. I think So imagine that there's an emergency Dragon, there's a dragon someone comes and says there's a dragon. I'm the guy to deal with it That's what the environmentalists say the radical types who push limits to growth Then I look at them and I think okay Is that dragon real or not? That's one question. Well, I asked that question of myself every time I spend time alone Is the apocalypse looming on the environmental front? Yes or no. I'll just leave that aside for the time being I think you can make A case both ways for a bunch of different reasons and it's not a trivial concern And we've overfished the oceans terribly and there are environmental issues that are looming large Whether climate change is the cardinal one or not is a whole different question, but we won't get into that. That's not the issue You're clamoring about a dragon Okay Why should I listen to you? Well, let's see how you're reacting to the dragon First of all, you're scared stiff and in the state of panic That might indicate you're not the man for the job second You're willing to use compulsion to harness other people to fight the dragon for you. So now not only are you terrified? You're a terrified tyrant So then I would say well then you're not the Moses that we need to lead us out of this particular exodus and Maybe that's a neurological explanation. It's like if you're so afraid of what you're facing That you're terrified into paralysis and nihilism and that you're willing to use tyrannical compulsion to get your way You are not the right leader for the time so then I like someone like Bjorn Lomborg or Matt Ridley or Marion Toopey and they say well look we've got our environmental problems and And maybe there's a there you could make a case that there's a Malthusian element in some situations but fundamentally the track record of the human race is that we learn very fast and faster all the time to do more with less and We've got this and I think Yes to that idea and I think about it in a in a fundamental way, it's like I trust Lomborg Trust Toopey trust Matt Ridley. They've thought about these things deeply. They're not just saying oh the environment doesn't matter Whatever the environment is You know the environment. I don't even know what that is. That's everything the environment. I'm concerned about the environment's like Which is how is that different than saying I'm worried about everything How are those statements different semantically? Well, yeah the environment it could be I'm worried about human society A lot of these complex systems are difficult to talk about because there's so much involved for sure Yeah everything and then these models because people have gone after me because I don't buy the climate models well, I think about the climate models as extended into the economic models because the climate model is Well, there's going to be a certain degree of heating. Let's say by 2100. It's like, okay Some of that might be human generated some of it's a consequence of warming after the Ice Age This has happened before but fair enough. Let's take your presumption Although there are multiple presumptions and any error in your model Multiplies as time extends but to have it your way Okay. Now we're going to extend the climate model so to speak into the economic model So I just did an analysis of a paper by Deloitte third biggest company in the US 300,000 employees major league consultants. They just produced a report in May I wrote an article for it in the Telegraph, which I'm going to release this week on my youtube channel said well If we get the climate problem under control Economically because that's where the models are now being generated on the economic front So now we have to model the environment That's climate and we have to model the economy and then we have to model their joint interaction And then we have to predict a hundred years into the future And then we have to put a dollar value on that and then we have to claim that we can do that Which we can't and then this is our conclusion We're going to go through a difficult period of privation Because if we don't accept limits to growth, there's going to be a catastrophe 50 years in the future thereabouts and so to avert that catastrophe We are going to make people poorer now How much poor? Well, not a lot compared to how much richer they're going to be But definitely and they say this in their own models Definitely poorer definitely poorer Than they would be if we just left them the hell alone And so then I think okay poorer eh? Who? Well, let's look at it biologically got a hierarchy right of stability and security That's a hierarchy or one type You stress a hierarchy like that a social hierarchy So there's birds in a environment and an avian flu comes in And then you look at the birds in the social hierarchy and the The low-ranking birds have the worst nests So they're most exposed to wind and rain and sun and farthest from Food supplies and most exposed to predators and so those birds are stressed Which is what happens to you at the bottom of a hierarchy. You're more stressed because your life is more uncertain You're more stressed. Your immunological function is compromised because of that You're sacrificing the future for the present An avian flu comes in and the birds die from the bottom up That happens in every epidemic you die From the bottom up. Okay So they say when the aristocracy catches a cold The working class dies of pneumonia. All right, so now we're going to make people poorer Okay, who Well, we know who we make poor when we make people poorer We make those who are barely hanging on Poorer and what does that mean? It means they die And so what the Deloitte consultants are basically saying is well You know, it's kind of unfortunate But according to our models a lot of poor people are going to have to die So that a lot more poor people don't die in the future. It's like okay. Hold on a sec Which of those two things am I supposed to regard with certainty? The hypothetical poor people that you're going to hypothetically save a hundred years from now Or the actual poor people That you are actually going to kill in the next 10 years Well, i'm going to cast my lot with the actual poor people that you're actually going to kill And so and then I think further it's like well, okay the Deloitte consultants Have you actually modeled the world or is this a big advertising shtick? Designed to attract your corporate clients with the demonstration that you're so intelligent that you can actually model the entire ecosystem of the world Including the economic system and predict it a hundred years forward And isn't there a bit of a moral hazard in making a claim like that? Just like just a trifle, especially when so I talked to Bjorn Lomborg and Michael Leon last week. I accepted the UN Estimates of starvation this coming year 150 million people will suffer food insecurity food insecurity Yeah food insecurity. That's the bloody buzzword famine well, Michael Yon thought 1.2 billion and then that it'll spiral because he said what happens in a famine Is that the governments go nuts crazy? the government's destabilize And then they appropriate the food from the farmers Then the farmers don't have any money Then they can't grow crops and I think yeah, that's exactly what they do. That's exactly what would happen and so Yon told me 1.2 billion and then Bjorn Lomborg said the same thing. I didn't even ask him He just made it as an offhand comment So, let me ask you about the famine of the 30s. Yeah Do you think Ukraine in the Ukraine? Oh, yeah Fun fun fun similar a lot of the things you mentioned in the last few sentences kind of echo To that part of human history the hall the door Do you know what news about? Well now i've just spent four weeks in ukraine. Oh, yeah, there's different parts of the world that still Even if they don't know They know yeah, right if you History is runs in the blood. The dutch knew In some sense they had a famine at the end of world war ii and part of the reason the dutch farmers are so Unbelievably efficient and productive is that the dutch swore at the end of world war ii that that was not going to happen again And then they had to scrape land out of the ocean Because holland that's quite a country. It shouldn't even exist The fact that it's the world's number two export, you know, that's the world's number two exporter of agricultural products holland It's like I don't think it's as big as massachusetts. It's this little tiny place. It shouldn't even exist And they want to put here's this here's the plan. Let's put 30 percent of the farmers out of business Well, the broader ecosystem of agricultural production in holland is six percent of their gdp Now these centralizing politicians think tell me if i'm stupid about this Take an industry You knock it back By fiat by 30 percent Now it runs on like a three percent profit margin. Now. You're going to kill 30 percent of it How are you not going to bring the whole thing down the whole farming ecosystem down? How are you not gonna? impoverish the Transport systems. How are you not going to demolish the grocery stores? You can't take something like that and pare it back by fiat by 30 percent And not kill it. I I can't see how you can do that I mean look what we did with the covid lockdowns. We broke the supply chains. I tried buying something lately You can't and wait and aren't the chinese Threatening taiwan at the moment. What are we going to do without chips? So I don't know what these people are thinking and then I think okay. What are they thinking? Well, the deloitte people are thinking aren't we smart and shouldn't we be hired by our corporate employers? It's like okay Too bad about the poor. Um, what are the uh, environmentalists thinking? We love the planet. It's like do you We love the poor do you okay? Let's pit the planet against the poor who wins the planet? Okay You don't love the poor that much. Do you love the planet? Or do you hate capitalism? Let's pit those two things against each other. Oh, well, it turns out that the planet is the planet And you know what's going to happen? So what's going to happen in sri lanka with these 20 million people who now have nothing to eat? Are they going to eat all the animals? Are they going to burn all the firewood? They're stockpiling firewood in germany It's like so is your environmental globalist utopia? Going to kill the poor and destroy the planet and that's okay because we'll wipe out the planet So you know what? I think it's a good thing to think about Environmental globalist utopia going to kill the poor and destroy the planet and that's okay because we'll wipe out capitalism It's like okay Yeah, the the dragon and the fear of the dragon drives ideologies some of which can build a better world Some of which can destroy that world. Now. What do you think of that theory about about? Trustworthiness if the dragon that you're facing turns you into a terrified tyrant. You're not the man for the job Is that a good theory? It's an interesting theory. Let me use that theory to challenge because what what does terror look like? let me Uh table the turns turn the tables on you You are Terrified afraid concerned about the dragon of something we can call communism marxism Am I terrified of it? Well, okay, okay a tyrant your theories had two components. Yeah I'm not paralyzed. He had a dragon. Yeah, i'm not paralyzed and I don't want to be a tyrant The tyrant part I think is missing with you Uh, but you are very concerned the intensity of your feeling Uh Does not give much space actually, at least in your public persona For sitting quietly with the dragon and sipping in a couple of beers and thinking about this thing Uh the intensity of your anger concern About certain things you're seeing in society Is that going to drive you off the path that ultimately takes us to a better world? That's a good question I mean, I don't i'm trying to get that right. So we've kind of come to a cultural conclusion about the nazis Do you get to be angry about the nazis? Seems the answer to that is yes Well, actually let me push back here um I also don't trust people who are angry about the nazis Because I mean the actual nazis. Well I I there's a lot as you know, there's a lot of people in the world um that uh Use actual nazis to mean a lot. I know I know one of them is very important to me for example. Well, yes Well, he's a nazi I think or magical super nazi as it turns out I I think they actually sort of steal men all their perspectives. I think a lot of people that call you a nazi mean it so yeah So but like There's an important thing there though because I I went to the front in ukraine. Yeah, and a lot of the people Us that lost their home or they're kind of Uh that got to interact a lot with russian soldiers ukrainian people that interact with the russian soldiers uh, they've reported that the russian soldiers Really believe they're saving the the people Of ukraine in these local villages from the nazis. I understand. Yeah, so to them It's not just that the ukrainian government has or ukraine has some nazis. It's like It has been the ideas that the nazis have taken over ukraine and we need to free them This is the belief. Yeah, so this again nazi is still a dragon that lives Yeah, and it's used by people because it's safe to sit next to that dragon and spread any kind of ideology you want so I just want to kind of say that we um have agreed on the on the on the on the On this particular dragon, but I still don't trust anybody who uses that. Yeah, but we have issues with boundaries Right. No. No, it's so this is a very complicated problem, right? So renee gerard believed that It was a human proclivity to demonize the scapegoat and then drive it out of the village and yeah I've thought about that a lot. We need a place to put satan Like seriously, this is a serious issue. Should he be inside the village or outside? Well, maybe he should be inside you Right, that's that's the fundamental essence of the christian doctrine. It's like satan is best fought on the battleground of your soul And that's It's right It's right. Can you actually put words to the kind of dragon that you're fighting? Is it is it is it communism? It's the spirit of cain. Yeah Can you elaborate Well what the spirit of cain is so After adam and eve are thrown out of paradise for becoming self-conscious or when they become self-conscious They're destined to work And the reason for that as far as I can tell is that To become self-conscious is to become aware of the future That's to become aware of death that certainly happens in the adam and eve story to have the scales fall from your eyes And then the consequence of that is that you now have to labor To prevent the catastrophes of the future. That's work work is sacrifice Sacrifice of the present to the future. It's delay of gratification. It's maturity It's sacrifice to something as well and in the spirit of something Okay. So now adam and eve Have two children Cain and abel. So those are the first two people in history Because the garden of eden doesn't count And they're the first two people who are born rather than created So they're the first two people and that's a hell of a lot of work So they're the first two people and that's a hell of a story because it's a story of fratricidal murder that degenerates into genocide flood and tyranny So that's fun for the opening salvo of the story. Let's say And abel and cain both make sacrifices And for some reason abel's sacrifices, please god It's not exactly clear why And cain's don't now there's an Implication in the text that it's because cain's sacrifices are true or second rate God says that abel brings the finest to the sacrificial altar. He doesn't say that about cain So you could imagine that cain is sacrificing away, but he's he's holding something in reserve He's not all in he's not bringing his best to the table. He's not offering his best to god and so abel thrives like mad And everyone loves him and he gets exactly what he needs and wants exactly when he needs and wants it. He's favored of god And cain is bearing this terrible burden forward and working and his sacrifices are rejected so He gets resentful really resentful enough resentful enough to call god out and say something like This is quite the Creation you've got going here I'm breaking myself in half and nothing good's coming my way What the hell's up with that? And then there's abel the sun's shining on him every day How dare you? It's like okay, but this is god that cain's talking to and so god says What cain least wants to hear which is what god usually says to people he says? Look to your own devices You're not making the sacrifices you should And you know it and then he says something even worse He says sin Crouches at your door like a sexually aroused predatory animal And you've invited it in To have your way to have its way with you and so he basically says you have Allowed your resentment to preoccupy yourself and now you're brooding upon it and generating something Creative new and awful possessed by the spirit of resentment And that's why you're in the miserable state you're in So then cain leaves his countenance falls As you might expect and cain leaves and he's so incensed by this because god has said look Your problems of our are of your own making and not only that you invited them in And not only that you engaged in this creatively and not only that you're blaming it on me And not only that that's making you jealous of abel who's your actual idol and goal and cain instead of changing kills abel Right, and then cain's descendants are the first people who make weapons of war and so that's Okay, you want to know what I think that's the eternal story of mankind and it's playing out right now Except at a thousand times the rate. Can I present to you a difficult truth? Not perhaps not a truth but A thought I have That it is not always easy to know Which among us are the cane? That's for sure and resentment it is it is um, it is possible to imagine you as the person who has a resentment towards a particular worldview that you really worry about Yeah, well i've talked I talked to a good friend of mine last week about that publicly. We'll we'll release it So I said well, do I have a particular animus against the left? Let's say It's like well probably Okay, why well? First of all, i'm a university professor It's not like the universities are threatened by the right They're threatened by the left 100 percent and they're not just threatened a little bit They're threatened a lot and that threat made it impossible for me to continue in my profession the way I was And it cost me my clinical practice too And that's not over yet because I have 10 lawsuits against me out right now from the college of psychologists psychologists because they've allowed anyone to complain about me Anywhere in the world for any reason and have the choice to follow that up with an investigation Which is a punishment in and of itself and are doing so And then i've been tortured nearly to death multiple times By bad actors on the left now i've had my fair share of Radical right-wingers being unhappy with what i've said, but personally I've had a family That's been the left the whole time Not only me but my family put it my put my family at risk in a big way and constantly like not once or twice Because many people get cancelled once or twice But i've been cancelled Like 40 times and I know like 200 people now who've been cancelled and I can tell you without Doubt that it is one of the worst experiences of their life It only happens once and so And then I also know that the communists killed 100 million people in the 20th century that the intellectuals excused them for it non-stop and still haven't quit That almost no one knows about it and that the specter of resentful marxism is back in full force And so do I have a bit of an animus against that? Yes, does it go too far? I Don't know i'm trying to figure that out the story you just told It is seems nearly impossible for you an intellectual powerhouse not to have a tremendous amount of resentment Well, and this is the so let me challenge you. Yeah, let me challenge you go right ahead. Let me challenge you. Can you steal man? The case that uh, the prime minister of this country Trudeau Wants the best for this country and actually might do good things for this country as an intellectual challenge. Sure Um, he seems to get along well with his wife He has some kids There's no sexual scandals and he's in a position where that could easily be the case He seems to have done some good things on the oceanic management front He's put a fair bit of canada's oceans into marine protected areas and that might be his most fundamental legacy if it's real I've been trying to get information about the actual reality of the protection and I haven't been able to do that But that's a good thing. So sorry to the family thing is there's some aspect to his character Character, there is some aspect to him. Who's that makes him a good man? Well in that sense I mean, there's the evidence there, you know, I mean, he's not a jeffrey epstein profligate on the sexual front So that's something and his wife They seem to have a real marriage and he has kids so, you know good for him That's a good start by the way for a leader. Yeah, right to be a good man. Well, then I also thought okay Well after the liberals had brought in a harvard intellectual who was a canadian to be their last leader He didn't work out and then they're flailing about for a leader and the liberals in canada are pretty good at maintaining Power and leadership and have been the dominant governing party in canada for a long time And so they went to justin and said well, you know, it's you are a conservative and you can imagine that's not a positive Specter for someone who's on the left Or even a liberal especially and trudo is quite a bit on the left And they said we need you to run and then I thought okay. Well The answer to that should have been no because the trudo justin has no training for this no experience He's not he's a part-time drama teacher fundamentally. He hadn't run a business He just didn't know enough to be prime minister But then i'm trying to put myself in his position. So it's like okay. I don't know enough, but i'm young And we don't want the conservatives and they had had a run a 10-year run So maybe it was time for a new government. I could maybe I could grow into this man Maybe I could surround myself with good people and I could learn humbly and I could become The person i'm now pretending to be which we all have to do as we move forward, right? And so and so then I thought okay I think you made a mistake there because you ran only on your father's name And you didn't have the background but let's give the devil his due and say that's no problem Okay. So now what do you do? Well, you get elected and your first act is to make the cabinet 50 women Despite the fact that only 25 of the elected members are female. It's like okay, you just have your talent pool That was a really bad move for your first move. Can I ask you about that? Do you think? Where does that move come from? Deep somewhere in the heart or is it is it trying to? Listen to the social forces that of the moment and try to ride those waves Ways, you know, maybe greater greater popularity By after thinking it through it's like no you just have your talent pool For cabinet positions. That's what you did. There's enough cabinet positions You know, you could argue that each of the met threshold it's like there's a big difference between threshold and excellent So you don't think that that came from a place of compassion? I don't care if it did come back. I don't regard compassion as a virtue. Compassion is a reflex not a virtue You don't think judicious compassion is a virtue. Wait, wait a minute. Wait a minute compassion can come deep From the human heart and the human mind. I think are we talking about the same kind of compassion? Yeah, trying to understand the suffering treating adults like infants is not virtuous. I I see but you're you Well compassion isn't treating Adults like and I mean those just terry's are you sure? Okay, whatever the term is maybe Whatever the term is maybe love love is compassion is I mean, I suppose i'm speaking to love you don't think Those ideas came from concern compassion You don't think love is a blend of compassion and encouragement and truth love is complicated man Yeah, if I love you things in it if I love you, is it compassion or encouragement you want from me? Yeah, the dance love is definitely a dance of two two humans ultimately that leads to the growth of both Well, that's the thing the growth element is crucial Because the growth element to foster the growth element that requires judgment Compassion and judgment well even and have been conceptualized this way forever two hands of god mercy and justice They have to operate in tandem, right and mercy is Flawed as you are you're acceptable. It's like well, do you want that? Do you want your flaws to be acceptable? And the answer to that is no it's so it's like well, that's where the judgment comes in It's like but you could be better you could be more than you are And that's the maternal and the paternal in some fundamental sense and there has to be a active Exchange of information between those two poles So even if even if Trudeau was motivated by compassion and it's like yeah, just how loving are you first of all? No, it was a really bad decision. And then he and he's expressed contempt for monetary policy I'm not interested in monetary policy. It's like okay, but You're a prime minister And he's expressed admiration for the Chinese Communist Party Because they can be very efficient in their own Because they can be very efficient in their pursuit of environmental goals. It's like oh, yeah efficiency a the efficiency of the tyranny in the service of your terror And so and I've watched him repeatedly and I've listened to him a lot and I've tried to do that clinically and with some degree of dispassion and that's hard too because his father Pierre devastated the West in 1982 with the national energy policy and Trudeau is doing exactly the same thing again. And so as a Westerner as well I have an inbuilt animus and one that's well deserved because central Canada especially the glittery literati elite types in the Ottawa Montreal Toronto Triangle have Exploited the West and expressed contempt for the West far too much for far too long and That's accelerating at the moment. For example with Trudeau's recent attack on the Canadian farmers He's an enemy of the oil and gas industry It's an utter and absolute bloody catastrophe and look what's happened in Europe at least in partial consequence And he's no friend to the farmers So I've tried to steelman him, you know I try to put myself in the position of the people that I'm criticizing. I think he's a narcissist Do you think there's a degree to which power changed him? If you're not suited for the position if you're not the man for the position you can be absolutely 100% sure that the power will corrupt you. How could it not? I mean at the at the least if you don't have the chops for the job You have to devalue the job to the point where you can feel comfortable inhabiting it So yes, I think that it's corrupted him. I mean look at him doubling down We wear masks in flights into Canada We have to fill out an arrive can bureaucratic form on our phones because a passport is good isn't good enough We can't get a passport What if you're 85 and you don't know how to use a smartphone? Oh, well too bad for you Yeah, it's like yes, it's corrupted him Would you talk to him? Well if you were to sit down and talk with him and he wanted to talk Would you and what kind of things would you talk about perhaps on your podcast? I don't think I've ever said no to talking to anyone So which is you know, would you? Would that be a first or would you would you make that conversation? Do you believe in the power? No, I'd ask those kinds of contact No, if if if if he was willing to talk to me I'd talk as I'd like to ask him I have lots of things I'd like to ask him about I mean, I've had political types in Canada on my podcast and tried to ask them questions So I'd like to know Is there maybe I've got a big part of him wrong? Yes, and I probably do but My observation has been that every chance he had to retreat from his pharaonic position. Let's say he doubled down and these Our Parliament is not running for the next year It's still zoom in it's still kovat lockdown Parliament for the next year it's already been Fatally compromised perhaps by the lockdowns for the last couple of years Couple of years This is Parliament. We're talking about. Yeah, there's a kind of Paralysis fear-driven paralysis that also Imparts some of the most brilliant people I know are lost in this paralysis I don't think people assign a word to but it's almost like a fear of this unknown thing that lurks in the shadows and that Unfortunately that fear is leveraged by people That you know who are in in academic circles who are in faculty or students and so on are more Administration and they they start to use that fear which makes me quite uncomfortable It does lend people In the positions of power who are not good at handling that power to become Slowly day by day a little bit more corrupt I was really trying to figure out you know the last two weeks thinking this through it's like how do you Know let's say someone asked me a question in in the YouTube comment said why why why can I trust your? advice on the environmental front And I thought that's really good question Okay Let's see if we can figure out the principles by which the advice would be trustworthy. Okay. How how do you know? It's not trustworthy. Well one potential Response to that would be the claims are not in accordance with the facts But you know facts are tricky things and it depends on where you look for them. So that's a tough one to get right because For example Lombard's fundamental critics argue about his facts not just his interpretation of them So that can't be an unerring guide. And so I thought well the facts exact exactly doesn't work Because when it's about everything there's too many facts So then how do you determine if someone's a trustworthy guide in the face of the apocalyptic? Unknown because that's really the question and the answer is They're not terrified tyrants. I Think that's the answer Now, maybe that's wrong if someone has a better answer How do you know if they're a terrified tyrant because they are willing to use compulsion on other people when they could use goodwill like The farmers in Canada objected they said look we Have every economic reason to use as little fertilizer as we can because it's expensive We have satellite maps of where we put the fertilizer We have cut our fertilizer use so substantially in the last 40 years. You can't believe it and we grow way more food We're already breaking ourselves in half And if you know farmers, especially the ones who use fertilizer And if you know farmers, especially the ones who still survive you think you think those people don't know what they're doing. It's like They're pretty damn sophisticated man like Way more sophisticated than our prime minister And now you tell them no, it's a 30% reduction and we don't care how much food you're growing. So it's not a reduction that's Dependent on amount of food produced per unit of fertilizer used which would be at least you could imagine it You could imagine it. Okay, so you're producing this much food And you use this much fertilizer, so you're hyper efficient Maybe we take the 10% of farmers who are the least efficient in that Metric and we say to them you have to get as efficient as the average farmer And then they say well look, you know our our situation is different. We're in a more northern climb the soil's weaker You know, you obviously have to bargain with that. But at least At least you reward them for their productivity Well, it's like well Holland isn't going to have beef. Well, where are they going to get it? Well, you don't need it It's like oh I see you get to tell me what I can eat now. Do you? really okay, and Holland is going to import food From where that's more efficient on the fertilizer front There's no one more efficient than Holland And same with Canada and like isn't this going to make food prices more expensive? and Doesn't that mean that hungry people die? Because that is what it means And so ultimately poor people pay the price of these kinds of policies Not known not ultimately Now today today that's a crucial distinction because they say well ultimately the poor will benefit Yeah, except the dead ones. Yes Today today, right? It seems like the story of war Too is a time when the poor people suffer from the decision made by the powerful the rich the uh Yeah, because they can just leave Yeah Let me ask you about the war in ukraine. Oh, yeah, I got into plenty of trouble about that, too You're You're just a man in a suit Talking on microphones and writing brilliant articles There's also people dying Fighting It's their land. It's their country. It's their history. This is true for both russia and ukraine Yeah, it's people trying to ask They have many dragons and they're asking themselves a question Who are we? What is this? What is the future of this nation? We thought We are a great nation And I think both countries say this and they say Well, how do we become the great nation? We thought we are. Yeah, and So what uh, first of all you got in trouble What what's the the dynamics of the trouble? And uh, it's something you regret saying no. No, I thought about it a lot I laid out four reasons for the war and then I was criticized in the atlantic for The argument was reduced to one reason which was a caricature of the reason I gave a variety of reasons why the war happened mismanagement On the part of the west in relationship to russia and foreign policy over the last since the wall fell It's understandable because it's extremely complex hyper reliance on russia as a Cardinal source of energy provision for europe in the wake of idiot environmental globalist utopianism The expansionist tendencies of russia That are analogous in some sense to the soviet union empire building And then the last one which is the one I got in trouble for which is putin's belief or willingness to manipulate his people into believing That russia is a salvific force in the face of idiot western woke ism And that's the one I got in trouble for it's like while you're justifying putin it's like It's not only it's not only the russians that think the west has lost its mind Eastern europeans think so too. And do I know that it's like well I went to 15 eastern european countries this This spring and I talked to 300 political and cultural leaders and you might say well, they were all conservatives It's like actually no, they weren't actually, no, they weren't most of them were conservatives because it turns out that they're more willing to talk to me, but a good chunk of them were liberals by by any stretch of the Imagination and a fair number of them were cancelled progressives well, because you're very concerned about um, the culture wars that perhaps are a signal of a possible Bad future for this country for this part of the world that reason stands out and Do you Sort of looking back at four reasons think it deserves to have a place in one of the four. Oh, because absolutely Because it is you know, uh, well the four was bifurcated because I said look putin might believe this and I actually think he does Because I read a bunch of putin speeches and I have been reading them for 15 years And my sense of people generally and this was true of hitler. It's like What did hitler believe? Well, did you read what he wrote? He just did what he said he was going to do and you might think well some people are so tricky They have a whole body of elaborated speech That's completely separate from their personality and their personality is pursuing a different Agenda and this whole body of speech is nothing but a front It's like good luck finding someone that sophisticated first of all, if you say things long enough you're going to believe them That's a really interesting and fascinating and important point Even if you start out as a as a lie as a propaganda I think hitler is an example of somebody that I think really quickly you start to believe the propaganda Well, you're really you've thought a lot about ai systems. It's like Don't you become what you practice? And the answer to that is well, absolutely we even know the neurology. It's like when you first formulate a concept Huge swaths of your cortex are lit up so to speak but as you practice that First of all the right hemisphere stops participating and then The the the left participates less and less until you build specialized machinery For exactly that conceptual frame and then you start to see it not just think it And so if you're telling the same lies over and over who do you think you're fooling think well, I can withstand my own lies Not if they're effective lies and if they're effective enough to fool Millions of people and then they reflect them back to you. What makes you think you're going to be able to withstand that? You aren't and so I do think putin believes To the degree that he believes anything. I do believe that he thinks of himself as a bulwark for Christendom against the Degeneration of the west and that's that third way that dugan and putin have been talking about The philosopher alexander dugan and putin for 15 years now what that is Is very amorphous solzhenitsyn thought the russians would have to re return to the incremental development of orthodox christianity To escape from the communist trap and to some degree that's happened in russia because there's been a return to orthodox christianity Now you could say yeah, but the orthodox church has just been co-opted by the state And I would say there's some evidence for that. I've heard for example that the metropolitan Owns now, I don't know if this is true Owns five billion dollars worth of personal property And I would say there's a bit of a moral hazard in that and it's possible that the orthodox christianity The orthodox church has been co-opted, but there has been somewhat of an orthodox revival in russia And I don't think that's all bad now, even if putin doesn't believe any of this if he's just a psychopathic manipulator and unfortunately I don't think that's true I've read his speeches. It doesn't look like it to me and he is by no means the worst russian leader of the last hundred years Well, there's quite a selection there. There certainly is but and I say that knowing that Even if he doesn't believe it He's convinced his people that it's true And so we're stuck with the we're stuck with the claim In either case And that's the point I was trying to make in the article. Sometimes i'm troubled by People that explain things and I've a lot of people reached out to me experts Telling me how I should feel What I should think about ukraine. Oh you naive Lex you're so naive, you know, here's how it really is But then I get to see people that Lost their home. I get to see people on the russian side who believe they're I genuinely think that they're wrong I genuinely think that there's some degree to which they have love in their heart uh, they they see themselves as heroes saving a land from Uh from nazis, how else would you motivate young men to go fight? It's just it's these humans destroying Not only their homes but creating generational hate destroying the possibility of love towards each other They're they're basically creating hate what i've heard a lot of is on february 24th this year Hate was born at a scale that region has not seen Hate towards not vladimir putin hate towards not the soldiers in russia, but hate towards all russians Hate that will last generations and then you can you you can see on um Just the the pain there and then then when all these experts talk about Agriculture and energy and geopolitics and yeah, maybe like what you say with with the Fighting the ideologies of the woke and so on. I just feel like it's missing something deep That war is not fought That war is not fought About any of those things war started and wars averted Based on human beings based on well, here's here's another ugly thought since we haven't had enough so far We locked everything down for covet How much face-to-face communication was there between the west and vladimir putin? How about none? How about that was the wrong amount? Especially given that europe was completely dependent on putin for its energy supplies. Well, not completely but you know what I mean Materially and significantly so maybe had to go talk to him once every six months. Maybe he's in a bit of a bubble Probably and not just an information bubble how all these experts tell me about yeah No a human human you bet man. Look one of the things i've really learned. There's a real emphasis on hospitality in the old testament I just brought all these scholars together to talk about exodus. Hey, I have this security team with me and they're tough military guys But they're on board for this mission. Let's say And so they went out of their way to be hospitable to my academic guests They laid out nice platters of meat and cheese and crackers. They spent all day preparing this house I had rented so that we could have a hospitable time with these scholars most of whom I didn't know well But who said they would come and spend eight days talking about this book with me We rented some jet skis. We had a nice house. We had fun We got to know each other And we got to trust each other because we could see that we could have some fun and that we could let our hair Down a bit. We didn't have to be on guard and that made the talks way deeper and then We found out we couldn't get through exodus in eight days. And so I had proposed very early on that we're going to double the length And so I pulled eight people out of their lives for eight days That's a that's not an easy thing to do It's also quite expensive and the daily wire plus people picked all that up and they said right they said yes right away So we'd love to do this again. Well, why well partly because it was It was intellectually it was unbelievably engaging. I learned so much. It'll take me like a year to digest it if I can ever digest it and but they had they had a really good time and so when they were offered that combination of Intellectual challenge, let's say in hospitality. It was a no-brainer They just said every one of them said if I can do it in any way I will definitely be there and this I went to Washington a bunch of times And the culture of hospitality has broken down in Washington 40 percent of congressmen sleep in their offices. They don't have apartments their family isn't there with them They don't have social occasions with their fellow Democrats or Republicans much less across the table And so and I tried to have some meetings in Washington that were bilateral a couple of times Get young Republican congressmen and Democrats together to talk and as soon as they talk they think oh It was so interesting because one of the lunches was about 15 people half Democrats and half Republicans And all I'd asked them to do was just spend three minutes talking about why you decided to become a congressman Which is not a job I would take by the way You spend 25 hours a week fundraising on the telephone Your family isn't there with you You have to run for re-election every two years. You're beholden to the party apparatus Right you're vilified constantly. This is not You know people think well, this is a job for the privileged. It's like yeah You go and run for congress and find out how much fun it is and put your family on the line and then have to Beg for your job every two years Well your enemies the worst of your enemies are the and the worst of your friends are viciously hen-pecking you And so anyways, we had them all sit around the table said okay. Just say why you Ran for congress. It was so cool. Especially for a Canadian because you Americans you're so bloody theatrical. It's such something to watch It was like mr. Smith goes to Washington for every one of them It's like well this country has given us so much for families have been so So we've benefited so much from our from our time here. We think this is a wonderful country We really felt that we should give back And the next one would talk and it was like exactly the same story and then It didn't matter if they were Republican or Democrat. You couldn't tell the difference. No one could and was it genuine? It's like well, are you genuine you think these people are worse than you? First of all, they're not Second of all, they're probably better All things considered it's not that easy to become a congressman and I'm sure there's some bad apples in the bunch But by and large you walk away from your job But by and large you walk away from your meetings with these people and you think Pretty impressive they really are giving a part of themselves in the name of service maybe over time they become cynical and become Jaded and worn down by the whole system. But I think a lot of it. You imagine that is healed I think And I don't think i'm Well, i'm in part naive but not fully that a lot of it is healed through the power of conversation just basic social interaction I do think that the you bet man the effects of this pandemic by listening Listen just sitting there and it doesn't have to be talking about the actual issue. It's actually humor and all those kinds of things Uh about personal struggles all those kinds of things that remind you that you're all just humans Yeah, well the great leaders that i've met because and i've met some now They go listen to their constituents It's not a policy discussion. It's not an ideology discussion. They go say, okay what's what's your what's your life like and what are your problems and Tell me about them and then they listen and then they're struck by them and then they gather up all that misery and they bring it to the Congressional office or to the parliament and they think Here's what the people are crying out for and the good leaders. That's a leader leader listens So I talked to jimmy carr about comedy And he's sold out Stages worldwide on a tour being funny. That's hard. He said comedy is the most stand-up comedy Which is what I do in some real sense Real sense. It's a thing. I do that. It's most akin to what i'm doing on my book tours I would say it's the closest analog He said it's the most dialogical enterprise and I thought Why what do you mean? Because see it's just the monologue and it's a prepared monologue. I mean you have to Interact dynamically with the audience while you're telling your jokes and you got to get the timing, right? But you have a body of jokes He said well, here's how you prepare the jokes And i've been told this by other comedians You go to 50 clubs before you go on your tour And you got some new material and you think it's funny and you go into a club and You lay out your new material and people laugh at some of it And you pay attention To what they laugh at and what they don't laugh at So you subject yourself to the judgment of the crowd and you get rid of everything that isn't funny And if you do that enough, even if you're not that funny The crowd will tell you what's funny so you can imagine imagine you do 50 shows And each is an hour long and you collect two minutes of humor from each show So you throw away 90 you throw away Two hours more than 98 percent of it Collect two minutes per show So you're not very funny at all. You're like funny two percent of the time you aggregate that man. You're a scream So so that's what a leader does is that is what a leader does goes out and he aggregates the misery, you know And the hopes And then I do think that's revivify To someone who would otherwise be cynical and jaded because then the person can say to themselves Despite the inadequacies of the system and my inadequacies i'm i'm gathering up the misery and and the hope and i'm Bringing it forward where it can be giving it rest giving it a voice Giving it a voice. Yeah giving that's right giving it a voice. Can you actually take me through a day because this is fascinating? um through your comedy tour, uh What is a day in the life of jordan peterson look like? What which is this very interesting day? Let's look at the day when you have to speak preparing your mind Thinking of what you're going to talk about preparing yourself physically mentally to interact with the crowd And through the actual speaking, how do you adjust what you're thinking through and how do you come down from that? So you can start all again as a limited biological system Well, i'm usually up by seven and ready to go by 7 30 or 8 Coffee no, no steak and water How many times a day steak? All that's all I eat. How many times three or four depending on the day steak and water steak and sparkling water Yeah, so monastic asceticism man Well, I did the proper I I usually just once a day I did the the proper jordan peterson last night and just ate two steaks and how was that was wonderful Yeah, well if you have to only eat one thing You know could be worse. So anyways, i'm ready to go at eight because we're generally moving What does it moving mean? You're constantly flying somewhere Okay, and we usually use private flights now Because the commercial airlines aren't reliable enough and you cannot not make a venue, right? So that's rule number one on a tour You make the show Yeah, so everything and then number rule number two is anybody who causes any trouble on the tour is gone Because there is zero room for error now No, there's zero room for unnecessary unaddressed error. So because there's going to be errors the guys I have around me now If they make a mistake they fix it right away So and that's great. There's a lot of people relying on you to be there. So you have like like 4 000 people typically. Yeah, so so then i'm on the plane And i'm usually I usually write or often Because there's no room for error Because there's no Internet on the plane and and that's a good use of time. So i'm writing a new book So I write on the plane typing or handwriting typing Yeah typing and Then we land and we go to It's usually early afternoon by then we go to a hotel. It's usually a nice hotel. That's not corporate I don't really like corporate hotels my Secretary and my one of my logistics guys has got quite good at picking Kind of adventurous hotels boutique hotels are usually in the old parts of the city, especially in europe somewhere interesting And so we go there and then lunch usually And sometimes that's an air fryer and a steak in the hotel room and I leave a trail of air fryers behind me all across the world and then Tammy and I usually go out and have a walk or something and take a look at the city And then I have a rest for like an hour and a half or an hour half an hour Or an hour half an hour like a nap or just now I have to sleep for 20 minutes And that's about all I can sleep, but I need to do that in the late afternoon that refreshes your mind Yeah, that gives me that wakes me up again for the evening And then tam has to sleep longer. She's still recovering from her illness And so she has to sleep longer in the afternoon and that's absolutely necessary for both of us or things start to get frayed and so then We go to the venue and then I usually sit for an hour If i'm going to lecture i've been doing a lot of q a's and that's a little easier But if i'm going to lecture I have to sit for an hour And then I think okay What question am I trying to investigate I have to have that that's the point What mystery am I trying to? unravel, it's usually associated with one of the rules in my book because Technically, it's a book tour But each of those rules is an investigation into an ethic And each of them points to a deeper sort of mystery in some sense and there's no end to the amount it can be explored And so I have the question My question might be something like uh Put your Put your house in perfect order before you criticize the world. Okay. What does that mean? Exactly? Put what does house mean? What does put what does put mean that active verb? Verb, what does perfect and order mean? Why before you criticize the world? What does it mean to criticize? What does it mean to criticize the world? How can you do that properly or improperly? So I start to think about how to decompose the question and you start to think which of these Decompositions are important to really dig into. Yeah. Well, then they'll strike me. It's like, okay There's something there that that i've been maybe noodling around on that. I would like to investigate further then I think okay How can I approach this problem? I think well I have this story that I know I have this story and I have this story But I haven't juxtaposed them before and there's going to be some interesting interaction in the juxtaposition So I have the question and I kind of have a framework of interpretation And then I have some potential narrative places I can go and then I think okay I can go juggle that and see what happens and so then what I want to do is Concentrate on that process while attending to the audience to make sure that the words are landing And then see if I can delve into it deeply enough so that a narrative emerges Spontaneously with an ending now i'm sure you've experienced this in podcasts, right? Maybe i'm wrong, but my experience has been If I fall into the conversation And we know about the time frame There'll be a natural narrative arc And then so you'll kind of know when the midpoint is and you'll kind of see when you're reaching a conclusion And then if you really pay attention, you can see that's a good place to stop It's kind of you come to a point and You have to be alert and patient to see that And you have to be willing to be satisfied with where you've got to but if you do that, and then it's like a comedian making the punchline work, it's like I've got all these balls in the air And they're going somewhere and this is How they come together and people love that right to say oh this and this and this and this and this whack Together and that's an insight and it is very much like a punchline well, that's interesting because your mind actually some i'm fan of your podcast too and You are always driving towards that I would say for me in a podcast conversation. There's often a kind of Alice in Wonderland type of exploration down the rabbit hole man, and then you just a new thing pops up The more absurd the wilder the better conversations with elon are like this. Yeah, it's like Actually, the more you drive towards an arc the more uncomfortable you start to get in a fun absurd conversation because Oh, I i'm now one of the normies. No, I don't want that. I want to be I want I want the rabbit I want the crazy because it because it makes it more, uh, fun, but somehow Throughout it there is Wisdom you try to grasp at well such that there is a thread. Well, that's the thing man. You're following the thread Yeah, the thread's right. Well, that's right. You're that's what we're trying to do that thread That thread is the proper balance between structure and spontaneity and it manifests itself as the instinct of meaning And that's the logos in the dialogos and it really is the logos and god only knows what that means You know, I mean the the biblical claim is that logos is the fundamental principle of reality And I think that's true I actually think that's true Because I think that that meaning that guides you well, here's a way of thinking about i've been writing about this recently What's real? Matter it's like okay. That's one answer What's real? What matters is real? Because that's how you act Okay, so that's different than matter It's like okay What's the most real of what matters? How about pain? Why is it the most real try arguing it away? Good luck So pain is the fundamental reality All right Well, that's rough Doesn't that lead to nihilism and hopelessness? Yeah, doesn't it lead to a philosophy that's antithetical towards being the most fundamental reality is pain Yes Is there anything more fundamental than pain? Love Really if you're in pain Love and truth Love and truth That's what you got and you know If they're more powerful than pain maybe they're the most real things When you think about reality what is real that is the most real thing Well, it's a tough one, right? Because you have to Because if you're a scientist a materialist think well The matter is the most real it's like well, you don't know what the matter is Yeah, so and then when push comes to shove and it will You'll find out what's most real. Yeah I I feel like this is missing Physical reality is is missing some of the things So, of course pain has a biological component and all those kinds of things but it's missing something deep about the human condition that At least the modern science is not able to Describe but is it is reaching towards that? Yeah, it is the reason It one one way to describe it as you're describing is the reason is reaching it is because underneath of science is this assumption that There's a deep logos Thing to this whole thing we're trying to do. Well, you know, there's two traditions right in some sense. There's two logos traditions There's the the Greek rational Enlightenment tradition that's a logos tradition and it insists that there's a logos in nature and that Science is the way to approach it and then there's a judeo-christian logos, which is more embodied and more spiritual and I would say the West is actually an attempt to unite those two and It's the proper attempt to unite those two Because they need to be united And I see the Union coming in your tradition And I see the Union coming in your terms, you know, I talked to friends to all for example about the animating principle of chimpanzee sovereignty And that's pretty close biologically. Is it power? Because that's the claim even from the biologists often the most dominant chimp has the best reproductive success It's like Oh, yeah Dominant. Hey, you mean using compulsion? Okay. Let's look Are the chimps who use compulsion? the most successful and the answer is Sporadically and rarely and for short well that's sporadically for short periods of time why? Because they meet an unpleasant end the subordinates over whom they exercise arbitrary control Wait for a weak moment and then tear them into shreds right every dictators terror and For good reason and the wall has showed that the alpha chimps the males who do have preferential mating access often are often and reliably the best peacemakers and the most reciprocal and so even among chimps the principle of sovereignty is something like iterative iterated reciprocity and That's a way better principle than Power and it's something like I've been thinking. What's the antithesis of the spirit of power? I think it's the spirit of play And you know you I don't know what you think about that But wouldn't you have a good podcast conversation you already described it in some sense as play It's like there's a structure right because it's an ordered conversation But you want there to be play in the system And if you get that right, then it's really engaging and then it seems to have its own narrative arc I'm not trying to impose that even though that's another thing. I don't do I didn't come to this conversation at all Thinking here's what I want out of a conversation with Lex Friedman like instrumentally. I thought I'll go talk to Lex why I? Like his podcasts He's doing something right. I don't know what it is. He asks interesting questions. I'll go have a conversation with him Where's it gonna go? wherever it goes Embracing the spirit of play so what you have this when you're lecturing You're going in front of the crowd. Yeah, you thought of a question. Yeah You get on the stage first of all are you nervous at all? I'm very nervous when I'm sitting down Thinking through the structure Initially, which is why my wife and I have been doing Q&A's and that's easier on me. Yeah It's the it's the the way comedians are nervous like Joe Rogan just did his special So this weekend and so he now has to sit Nervously like a comedian does which is like I have no material now, right? I have to start when I was doing the lectures constantly instead of the Q&A's Basically what I was doing was writing a whole book chapter every night And you know now that's a bit of an exaggeration because I would return to themes that I had developed But it's not really an exaggeration because I didn't ever just go over wrote material ever So it was it's very demanding and that parts nerve-wracking because I sit down. It's an hour before the show and I think Can I put can I do this and you know, the answer is what you did it a thousand times But that's not this time. Yeah, it's like can I come up with a question? Can I think through the structure? Can I pull off the? spontaneous Narrative can I pull it together and the answer is I don't know And so then I get it together in my mind. I think and that's hard. It takes effort and it's nerve-wracking Okay, I got it. But then there's the moment you go out on stage and you think Well, I know I had it but can I do it no notes and Then the question is well, you're gonna find out well you do it. And so then I go out on stage and I don't talk to the audience. I talked to one person at a time and You can talk to one person, you know, cuz you know how to do that So I talked to a person and not too long because I don't want to make them too nervous and then Someone else and someone else and then I'm in contact with the audience And then I can tell if the words are landing and I listen is like are they rustling around? Are they dead quiet because they want dead quiet you yourself? I see good. That's what focus sounds like they you're you're in it together then you bet well And I also here's a good rule if you're learning to speak publicly. I never say a word Till everyone is 100% quiet and that's it's a great way to start a talk because you're setting the frame a and if the frame is We'll all talk while you're talking the message is well, you can talk. This is a place where everybody can talk It's like no, it's not This is a place where people paid to hear me talk So I'm not going to talk till everyone's listening. And so then you get that stillness and then you just wait because that stillness turns into an Expectation and then it comes turns into a kind of nervous expectations like what the hell is he doing? It's not manipulative It's a sense of timing. It's like just when that's right. You think okay now it's time to start Well that nervous the interesting thing about that nervous expectation is from an audience perspective. We're in it together Yeah, I mean there is into that silence. There's a togetherness to it. Of course. It's the union of everyone's attention. Yeah Yeah, and that's and that's a great thing. I mean you love that at a concert when everyone it's not silence then But when everyone's attention is unified and everyone's moving in unison, it's like we're all worshipping the same thing Right is when that would be the point of the conversation the point of the lecture and the worship is the direction of attention Towards it and it's you it's communion because everyone's doing it at the same time. And so I mean, there's not much difference between lecture theater and a church in that regard, right? It's the same fundamental layout and structure And they're very integrally associated with one another one really grew out of the other the lecture theater grew out of the church So it's it's perfectly reasonable to be thinking about it in those terms And so and then okay, so after the lecture we play a piece of music That is a piece of music that I've been producing with some musicians and I've been doing it with some other musicians It's a piece of music that I've been producing with some musicians for a couple of books. I'm going to release in the fall Terrible books ABC of childhood tragedy. They're called dark dark books dark and comical books Terrible books heartbreaking illustrations We set them to music and so we play a piece from that and then afterwards I usually meet about 150 people To have photographs and so each of those is a little is there a little sparkle of human connection the a lot A lot, it's it's very intense 10 seconds with every person you think how can 10 seconds be intense? It's like Pay enough attention it gets intense real quick. Does it break your heart to say goodbye so many times It's like being at a in a wedding lineup, you know at a wedding with that you want to be at And everybody's dressed up and that's so weird Hey, because I bought these expensive suits when I went on tour and it broke my heart because I spent so much money on them I thought god that's completely unconscionable. I thought no way man Yeah, I'm in this 100% and so I'm gonna dress with respect and Like 60% of the audience comes in two or three piece suits, they're all dressed up Then there's this line to greet me and they're all happy to see me. That's not so hard to take you know, although it is in a sense right because Normal interactions are pretty shallow and you think I don't want shallow interactions like yes, you do most of the time Yeah, it's intense. It's very intense and I don't know if you've had a taste of this no doubt because people recognize I also have When a person recognizes me and they come with the love and they're often brilliant people One of the thoughts I have to deal with one of the dragons in my own mind is You know thinking that I don't deserve that kind of attention. And so you probably don't Right, I don't So it's a burden in that I have to step up to be the kind of person that Deserves that not deserves that but in part deserves that kind of attention and that's like holy shit it's crucially important too because if someone comes up to you in an airport and they know who you are and they're Brave enough to admire you or who you are attempting to be and you Make a mistake They will never forget it. Yeah, so it's a high-stakes enterprise and the flip side of that especially with young people a Few words you can say it can change the direction of their life one way or another And so I really have to watch this too in airports. I do not like airports I do not like the creeping totalitarianism in airports. They've always bothered me. Yes, they really bother me And I'm an unpleasant travel companion for my wife sometimes because of that although I think we've worked that out Thank God because we're doing a lot of traveling but most of the security guards and And the border personnel all those people they know me and as a general rule, they're positively predisposed to me And so if I'm peevish or irritable Yeah, then Well, that's not good. It's not good And so that's a tight rope to walk to because I do not like that creeping totalitarianism, but by the same token You know if you're just one of the crowd just You know sometimes you it's good just to be one of the crowd and then you're a little irritable and people can just brush that off but if you're someone they have dared to open their heart to because that's what admiration is and then you're And you betray that Then that's a real they'll never forget it and then they'll tell everyone too so It takes a lot of alertness and so Tammy and our life has got complicated because in Toronto, for example We can't really just go for a walk It's always a high drama production because always people come up and they have some Heart-rending story to tell and I'm not being cynical about that. Yes It's a hard thing to Bear because people don't do that. They don't just open themselves up to you like that and share the tragedy of their life But that's an everyday occurrence and so when we go up to our cottage which is out of the city it's a relief, you know because As wonderful as that is like it's a weird I have a weird life because everywhere I go it's very weird It's like I'm surrounded by old friends because I walk down the street in any city now virtually and people say hello Dr. Peterson so nice to see you or they say better things than that very rarely bad things one One experience in 5,000 maybe very rare. Although I've been to a lot of places Five thousand maybe very rare, although you don't forget those either, but it's very it's very strange So and there's an intimacy they know you well and and because they leap into Uh, they avoid the small talk often they leap into familiarity It really is like it's an old friend and it feels like that for me personally the experience is the goodbye hurts because um You know, there's a sense where you're never gonna see that friend again, right? Yeah, that's a strange thing. So to me a lot of the A lot of it just feels like goodbyes. Mm-hmm And one it is You're right about that. And I mean that's I suppose in some sense part of the pain of opening yourself up to people because they also Tammy has been struck particularly. She said I really never knew what men were like. I said, what do you mean? She said I cannot believe how polite The men are when they come and talk to you because it's always the same the pattern is very similar The person comes up. They're mostly men not always but mostly And they're tentative and they're very polite very very polite and they say I hope I'm not bothering you Do you mind, you know, do you mind that I say that they're not bothering me? And I'm doing everything I can to not be the guy who's bothered by that. It's like who do you think you are? Yeah Yes, you're the guy that What is famous and now is above that? Yeah You don't want to be that guy. Yeah So you want to be grateful all the time when people open up like that and and so you got to be alert and on point to do that properly like right away because For these for you, it's five seconds or ten seconds or twenty seconds, whatever it is, but for them They've opened up and so you can really nail them if you're foolish After the 150 people, how do you come down from that? How do you how do you find yourself again? Well, that was when I got caught in Twitter traps you know because I'm so burnt out by then from the from the talk and the And the audience interactions and the whole day because it's a new city. It's a new hotel. It's it's a new 5,000 people It's a new book chapter. It's a whole new horizon of ideas and it's off to another city the next day I'm so burnt out by then that I'm not as good at Controlling my impulses as I might be and Twitter was a real catastrophe for that because it would hook me and then I couldn't Like I used to when I was working on my book a lot. I used to call Tammy I'd say look you have to come and get me. I can't stop. I can't stop I can't stop I got tired and then I kind of because it's part of a kind of hype hypomanic focus I couldn't quit. It's like oh no, I I'm still writing. I need to get away from this, but I couldn't stop and so It's better to to read something book fiction nonfiction fiction Stephen King I was reading a lot of Stephen King when I was on tour last time. That was good I like Stephen King the great narratives great and great characterization, you know, so and There's a familiarity about Stephen King's Writing to that. It's he writes about people, you know, and so I really found that a relief and So that was useful and that in order to tolerate this let's say or to be able to sustain it well, let's take a lot of negotiation on the part of Tammy and I because She's dragged into this and you know her life is part of this whatever this is and she's had to find her way and has for example now she has a different hotel room than me when we travel and She she found that she didn't want to be on the tour this spring and I was ill again for part of it not made it complicated, but She went away back home and she came back and she said and she was nervous But she said I think I need my own room and part of me was not happy with that It's like what do you mean you need you're like, are we not married anymore? It's like you need your own room and She said well, you know I can't she has to do exercises because she was really sick and she has to keep herself in shape and and She has to have some time to do that She does a lot of prayer and meditation and she needs the time and she has her own podcast Which is going quite well and she needs the time and and I trust her and she said well I need this in order to continue and I thought well, okay I give you need this in order to continue Yes, because she went away and didn't say well, I I don't want to be on the tour I don't want to do this anymore. She went away and prayed. Let's say how can I continue to do this? and that was the answer and so she has her own hotel room and That was a really good decision on her part and she's very good and getting better all the time at Figuring out what has to happen for her to make this sustainable and all that's been is a plus because I Don't want to travel without her and and I don't want her life to be miserable and I want her to be fully on board And so she has to be properly selfish Like everyone does in a relationship. Yeah, well, you have to not just that yet this is a weird thing that you're doing and you have to Both you and her have to figure out how to like how to manage this very intense intellectual Well, there's another element to it too that I didn't tell you about so that was a typical day But it's missing a big component because usually we also have a dinner with like 30 Cultural representatives I suppose 10 to 30 from each country because I have a network of people who have networks Who are setting me up with key decision makers in each country? And so then we have like an hour and a half of that now sometimes that's on a day when I don't have a talk if we but sometimes the talks are back-to-back and so she also has to Manage that and to be gracious and and then people are showing us exciting things and tours in the cities and which is all Like it's a surfeit of wonderful. Yes, exactly But it's still yeah, you have to be there for you have to be present for it mentally Yeah as a curious mind as an intellectual mind. How do you how do you get to sleep? Fortunately, that is almost never a problem even when I was unbelievably ill for about three years I Thought about that a lot too, you know that I didn't do a really good job of explaining that while I was ill because It it appeared in some sense that the reason I was ill was because I was taking benzodiazepines But that isn't why I was ill and then I took them and very low dose and I took that for a long time And it helped whatever was wrong with me and it looks like it was an allergy or maybe multiple allergies and then That stopped working And so I took a little bit more for about a month and that made it way worse and so then I cut back a lot and then Then things really got out of hand. And so so there was a deeper thing. Oh, yeah Oh, yeah, what can you put me large, too? Well, I had a lot of immune my daughter as everyone knows has a very reactive immune system and Tammy has three immunological conditions each of them quite serious and I had psoriasis and peripheral uveitis, which is an autoimmune condition and a little pisher yada and And chronic gum disease all of which appeared to be allergy related and so Michaela seems to have got all of that and So that and that I think was at the bottom of because I also had this proclivity to depression That was part of my family history But I think that was all immunological as far as I can tell so one of the things that's happened to me. I Always noticed I really couldn't breathe like I could breathe about 1 5th as much as I sometimes could and and so I was always short of breath and it looks like what that was perhaps was I Was always on the border of an anaphylactic reaction, which is not pleasant And that's hyper sympathetic activation. No parasympathetic activation. I couldn't relax at all That's a immunological response allergic response. Yeah so anyways That was what seemed now this I don't like to talk about this much because it's so bloody radical and you know I don't like to propagate it, but this diet seems to have stopped all of that I don't have psoriasis all of the patches have gone. Yeah, my grump gum disease, which is incurable I had multiple surgeries to deal with it is completely gone took three years my right eye, which was quite cloudy It's cleared up completely What else has changed well, I lost 50 pounds and And like instantly. Yeah, well, I should mention that I Too am NOT a deep investigator of nutritional science I have my skepticism towards the degree to which it is currently is the science because like a lot of complex systems it's very is full of mystery and full of profiteers the people that profit of different kinds of diets But I should say for me personally does seem that I feel by far the best when I eat only meat It's very interesting and I discovered that it's a long time ago. First of all, how do you discover it? So by The discovery went like this. I started listening to ultra marathon runners about 15 years ago and they started talking about fat Adapted running So I first discovered that I don't have to run super fast to enjoy running And in fact, I really enjoy running at a slower pace Mm-hmm. So that was like step one is like, oh, okay if I maintain this is something called the math rule Which is the pretty low heart rate if I maintain that you can actually get pretty fast While maintaining a pretty slow average speed in general. Anyway, they fuel themselves on low carb diets So I got into that on top of that. I also they also fast often so I discovered how incredible my mind feels When fasted, you know people call it intermittent fasting, but well, that's an optimization of death Hey because you're when you fast your body Logically and obviously if you think about it biologically is well, what is your body scavenge first? Well damaged tissue so the and I know the literature on fasting to some degree and it's it's very compelling literature if you if you starve dogs down I think it's 20% below rats to below their optimal body weight. They live 30% longer Yeah, that's a lot 30% like it's like 30% Yeah. Yeah 30% Well, there is aspect to a lot of these things that make me nervous because I always feel like there's no free lunch that I'm gonna pay for it somehow, but there's a focus that I am able to attain when I fast Especially when I eat once a day My mind is almost like nervously focused. It's almost like an anxiety But a positive one or one that I can channel into just like an excitement. You know, I wonder how much of that's associated with well imagine that That signifies lack of food, which not that hard to imagine Well, maybe you should be a lot more alert in that situation, right? Biologically speaking because you're in hunting mode Let's say, you know, not desperate but in hunting mode and God only knows Maybe human beings should be in hunting mode all the time often, but that we don't know that. So I wonder if it has A stress on the system that long-term causes the system to doesn't it doesn't look like it Yeah It seems on the in case of fasting not and then on top of that I discovered that the thing I enjoy I just don't enjoy eating fat as much So I love eating meat and when you talk about low-carb diet So I just discovered through that process if somewhat fatty meat, but just me I just feel a lot of the things that make me feel weird about food like a little groggy or like full or just whatever The aspects of food that I don't enjoy they're not there with meat and I'm still able to enjoy company and when I eat once a day and Eat meat at least in Texas You could still have all the merriment. Oh, yeah. Yeah, you have dinner with friends now I don't do the this, you know, you have a very serious thing that There's health benefits that you are very serious about for me I could still drink whiskey I'll still do the things that add a little bit of Spice spice into the thing. Yeah. Now when you completely remove the spice it does become more difficult Yeah, it's more difficult socially and Tammy seems to only be able to eat lamb although she might be able to eat non-aged beef and That makes traveling complicated too, right because well for obvious reasons. It's like really that's all you can eat Yeah, well say la vie and maybe that's a form of craziness but If we're gonna return to actually the thing you were talking about When you're thinking about a question before the lecture, yeah, let me ask you about thinking in general This is something maybe that you and Jim Keller think a lot about is thinking how to think How do you think through an idea? Well, first of all, I I think okay That's a really good question We tried to work that out with this essay app that my son and I have developed because if you're gonna write the first Question is well, what should I write about? What's the name of the app essay dot app? and Well, the first question is Well, what bugs you? What's bugging you? This is such a cool thing. It's like where is my destiny? Well, what bothers you well, that's where your destiny is your destiny is to be found Well, that's where your destiny is your destiny is to be found in what bothers you Why did those things bother you? There's a lot of things you could be bothered by Like a million things man, but some things grip you They bug you and they might make you resentful and bitter because they bug you so much like they're your things man. They've got you so then I look for a question that I would like the answer to That I don't and I would really like the answer to it So I don't assume I already have the answer because I would actually really like to have the answer So if I could get a better answer Great, and so that's the first thing and that's like a prayer. It's like okay Here's a mystery I would like to Delve into it further Well, so that's humility. It's like here's a mystery which means I don't know I would like to delve into it further which means I don't know enough already and then then comes the revelation it's like Well, what's a revelation? Well, if you ask yourself a question It's a real question Do you get an answer or not? An answer is well, yeah thoughts start to appear in your head So from somewhere that's right from somewhere. Where do they come from? Do you have a sense? Depends on what you're aiming at Depends on the question. Well, no, no, it does to some degree It depends it depends on your intent. So imagine that your intent is to make things better Then maybe they come from the place that's designed to make things better. Maybe your intent is to make things worse Then they come from hell And you think not really it's like you're so sure about that. Are you is your intent conscious? Like are you able? It's it's conscious and habitual right because as you practice on the internet Consciously it becomes habitual, but it's conscious. It's like I when I sit down Before I do a lecture I think okay. What's the goal here to do the best job? I can To what end well people are coming here Not for political issues. They're coming here because they're trying to make their lives better Okay. So what are we doing? We're conducting a joint investigation into the nature of that which makes life better Okay, what's my role to do as good a job about that? As possible what state of mind do I have to be in am I annoyed about the theater? Or am I do am I clued in and thrilled that 4 000 people have showed up at Substantial expense and trouble to come and listen to me talk And if i'm not in that state of mind, I think well Maybe I need something to eat or maybe I need to talk to someone because That ingratitude is no place to start. It's like I should be thrilled to be there obviously And so that that orientation has to be there and then I is it conscious all this is conscious What am I serving the highest good I can conceptualize? What is that? I have some sense, but I don't know it in the final analysis Which is why the investigation is being conducted who's doing it me? Whoever i'm communing with and the audience And so I want I try to get myself and I chase everybody away for that It's like I have to do that by myself. Are you writing stuff down? Yes at that point I make no I just make point notes and it's usually about maybe 30 notes But then I on stage I never refer to them and I often don't even use the structure that I laid out Kind of an interesting thing from where do powerful phrases come from? Do you have a devil? Do you try to encapsulate an idea into a sentence or two? Well, I when I talk I practice this since when I talk and I practice this since consciously since 1985 I try to feel and see If the words are stepping stones or foundation stones, right? It's like is this solid is this word solid is this phrase solid is this sentence solid like it's a real sense of Fundamental foundation under each word and I suppose people ask me if I pray And I would say I pray before every word Well when you're when you're asking questions like you're very clear headed and present in your Ability to ask questions and inquire. So how do you do that? So first of all I'm worried that My mind easily gets trapped When I step on a word and I know it's unstable You kind of realize that you don't really know the definitions of many words you use and that can be Debilitating So I kind of try to be more carefree about the words I use Because otherwise you get trapped. You don't want to be obsessional Like literally my mind halfway through the sentence will think well, what is the word sentence mean? Right? Right, right Well, you know everything else just explodes. You're a big picture idea explodes and you lost yourself in the minutiae. Well neurologically, there's a production center and an editing center and Those can be separately affected by strokes. And so Often when people are writing or talking they try to activate both at the same time And that's so people will try to write an essay and get every sentence right in the first draft. That's a big mistake And so then you might say well, how can you be careful with your words but carefree and the answer is Orient yourself properly right while in the conversation we're having you you have an orientation structure. You want to Be prepared you want to be attentive Then you want to have an interesting conversation And you want to have the kind of interesting conversation that other people Want to listen to that will be good for them in some manner Okay, so that's pretty good frame and and then you kind of scour your heart and you think is that really what you want? Are you after fame or after notoriety? Are you after money? I'm not saying any of those things are necessarily bad but They're not optimal, especially if you're not willing to admit them, right and so they can contaminate you So you want to be decontaminated? So you have the right trip. Let's say and And so you have to put yourself that's a meditative practice. You have to put yourself in the right receptive position With the right goal in mind then you can And I think you can get better and better at this then you can trust What's going to happen? You know for so for example before I came here I I mean, I presume you have a reason for doing the podcast with me. What's the reason? I mean we wanted to talk for a long time. Yeah, so the reason is evolved The one of the reasons is I've listened to you For quite a long time. So you've become a one-way friend And I have many many friends Some of my best friends don't even know I exist. So that I'm a big fan of podcasts and audiobooks Actually, most of my friends are dead. Yeah, right The writers the definition of a reader A lot of dead great dead friends. So I wanted I wanted to meet this one-way friend I suppose didn't have a conversation and then there's this kind of Puzzle that I'm trying to solve and I'm trying to figure out what's going on And this kind of puzzle that I've been longing to solve the same reason I went to Ukraine Of asking this question of myself. Uh, who am I? And what was this part of the world? What is this thing that happened in the 20th century? That I lost so much of my family there and I feel so much of my family is defined by that place Now that place includes the soviet union it includes It includes russia and ukraine includes nazi. Germany includes these big powerful leaders and huge millions of people that were lost in the beauty the power of the dream, but were also uh the torture That's uh was forced onto them through different governmental Institutions and you are somebody that seemed from some angle to Also be drawn to try to understand What was that and not in some sort of historical sense, but in a deeply psychological human sense What is that? Will it repeat again? In what way is it repeating again? And how can we stop it? And how can we stop it? And so that's the crucial issue I felt I wanted to from a very different backgrounds Different backgrounds, uh, pull at the thread of that curiosity, you know an engineer you're a psychologist both lost in that curiosity and uh both wear suits And uh a talk with various levels of eloquence, um about sort of um The shadows that these that that history, uh uh cast on us And so that that was one and also the psychology. I wanted to be a psychiatrist for a long time. I was uh I was fascinated by the human mind and until I discovered artificial intelligence the fact that I could program and make a robot move and Until I discovered that magic I thought I wanted to understand the human mind by being psychiatrist by talking to people by Uh through to talk therapy psychotherapy now You got the best of both worlds because you get to talk to people and you get build robots Yeah, I mean, but the dream ultimately is the robot That I felt like by building the thinking you start to try to understand it. That's one way I mean, we're all we all have different skills and proclivities. So like my particular one is um has to do with Uh, I learned by building yeah, I I think through a thing by building it And programming is a wonderful thing because it allows you to like build a little toy example So in the same way, you can do a little thought experiment Uh programming allows you to create a thought experiment in action. It can move it can live it can And then you could ask questions of it. So all of those Because of my interest in Freud and Jung Because of my interest in Freud and Jung you're also in different ways have have delved deeply into um into humanity the human psyche through the perspective of those of those Psychologists so for all those reasons, I thought our paths are crossed Yeah, so that well, so that's quite a frame for a discussion, right? You had all sorts of reasons and then you think well, are you just letting the conversation go where it will it's like well Not exactly You spent all this time It's not like this came about by accident this conversation you spent all this time framing it and so all of that provides the implicit substructure for the play in the conversation and If you have that implicit, here's another way. This is very much worth knowing is If you get the implicit structure of perception, right everything becomes a game And not only that a game you want to play and maybe in the final analysis a game you'd want to play forever so You know, that's obviously a distant beckoning ideal but We know in games need rules Or there's no play Is there advice you can give? You can give uh now that we know the frame to give to me lex about how to uh, do this podcast better how to Think About this world how to be a good engineer How to uh be a good human being from what you know, take your preoccupation with suffering seriously It's a serious business Right and that's part of that to circle back to the beginning let's say That's that willingness to gaze into the abyss, which is obviously what you were doing when you went to ukraine it's like It's gazing into the abyss that makes you better The thing is and this is maybe where niches ideas not as differentiated as it became Sometimes your gaze can be forcefully directed towards the abyss And then you're traumatized If it's involuntary and accidental it can kill you The more it's voluntary The more transformative it is and that's part of that idea about facing death and hell It's like can you tolerate death and hell and the answer is this terrible answer is Yes to the degree that you're willing to do it Voluntarily and then you might ask well Why should I have to subject myself to death and hell i'm innocent? and then the answer to that is Even the innocent must be voluntarily sacrificed to the highest good That's such an interesting distinction Voluntary suffering voluntary. Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's why the central christian doctrine is Pick up your cross and follow me And i'm speaking Not in religious terms saying that i'm just speaking as a psychologist It's like one of the things we've learned in the last hundred years is voluntary exposure to that which freezes and terrifies you in measured proportions is curative so a form of At least in part involuntary sufferings depression Depression Do you have advice for people on how to find a way out You're a man who has suffered in this way perhaps continue to suffer in this way, how do you find a way out? The first thing I do as a clinician if someone comes to me and says they're depressed is ask myself a question Well, what does this person mean by that? So I have to find out like because maybe they're not depressed Maybe they're hyper anxious or maybe they're obsessional like there's various forms of Powerful negative emotion so they need to be differentiated. But then the next question you have to ask is well Are you depressed? Or do you have a terrible life? Or is it some combination of the two? So if you're depressed As far as I can tell You don't have a terrible life You have friends you have family you have an intimate relationship. You have a job or a career You're about as educated as you should be given your intelligence use your time outside of work wisely You're not beholden to alcohol or other temptations You're engaged in the community in some Fundamental sense and all that's working Now if you have all that and you're feeling really awful You're either ill or you're depressed and so then Sometimes there's a biochemical route to that treatment of that My experience has been as a clinician is if you're depressed, but you have a life and you take an antidepressant It will probably help you a lot Now, maybe you're not depressed Exactly. You just have a terrible life What does that look like? You have no relationship your family's a mess You've got no friends. You've got no plan. You've got no job You use your time outside of work. Not only badly, but destructively you have a drug or alcohol habit or some other vice pornography addiction You are completely unengaged in the surrounding community. You have no scaffolding whatsoever To support you in your current mode of being or you move forward and then As a therapist, well you do two things. Well if it's depression Per se well, like I said, there's sometimes a biochemical route a nutritional route. There's ways that can be addressed It's probably physiological if you're at least in part if you're depressed, but you have an okay life. Sometimes it's conceptual You can turn to dreams sometimes to help people because dreams contain the seeds of the potential future And if your person is a real good dreamer and you can analyze dreams that can be really helpful But that seems to be only true for more creative people And for the people who just have a terrible life, it's like okay, you have a terrible life well Let's pick a front How about you need how about you need a friend like one sort of friend? Do you know how to shake hands and introduce yourself? I'll have the person show me So let's do it for a sec. So Like this hi, I'm Jordan, right and people don't know how to do that And then they can't even get the ball rolling for the listener. Jordan just gave me a firm handshake Yeah, as opposed to a dead fish You know and and there's these elementary social skills that Hypothetically if you were well cared for you learned when you were like three and sometimes people have I had lots of clients To whom no one ever paid any attention To whom no one ever paid any attention and they needed like 10 000 hours of attention and some of that was just listening because they had 10 000 hours of conversations they never had with anyone and they were all tangled up in their head and they had to just One client in particular. I worked with this person for 15 years and What She wanted from me was for me just to shut the hell up for 50 minutes, which is very hard for me and to just Tell me what had happened to her and then what happened at the end of the conversation then I could Discuss a bit with her And then as we we progressed through the years the amount of time that we spent in discussion increased in proportion In this sessions until by the time we stopped seeing each other when my clinical practice collapsed We were talking about 80 percent of the time but she literally she'd never been attended to properly ever And so she was an uncarved block in the daoist sense, right? She hadn't been subjected to those flaming swords that separated the wheat from the chaff and so You can do that in therapy if you're listening and you're depressed I would say if you can't Find a therapist and that's getting harder and harder because it's actually become illegal to be a therapist now because you have to agree with Your clients which is a terrible thing to do with them Just like it's terrible just to arbitrarily oppose them you could do the Self-authoring program online because it helps you write an autobiography And so if you have memories that are more than 18 months old that bother you when you think them up Part of you is locked inside that an undeveloped part of you is still Trapped in that that's a metaphorical way of thinking about that's why it still has emotional significance So you can write about your past experiences But I would say wait for at least 18 months if something bad has happened to you Because otherwise you just hurt yourself again by encountering it You can bring yourself up to date with an autobiography. There's an analysis of faults and virtues. That's the present authoring and then there's Guided writing exercise that helps you make a future plan that's Young men who do that could go to college young men who do that 90 minutes just the future authoring 90 minutes They're 50% less likely to drop out. That's all it takes So sometimes depression is this heavy cloud That makes it hard to even make a single step towards it or you said isolate Make a friend. Oh man, sometimes the first step is extremely difficult. Oh my god Sometimes it's it's way worse than that. Like I had clients who were so depressed. They literally couldn't get out of bed So what's their first step? It's like Can you sit up? once today no Can you prop yourself up on your elbows once today like you just You scale back the dragon Till you find one that's conquerable that moves you forward. There's a there's a rubric for life Scale back the dragons till you find one conquerable and it'll give you a little bit of goal Commensurate with the struggle but the plus side of that because that's you think that god that's depressing you mean I have to start by sitting up While you do if you can't sit up But the the plus side of that is it's the Pareto distribution issue is that aggregates exponentially increase and Failures do too by the way, but aggregates exponentially increase So once you start the ball rolling it can get zipping along pretty good this person that I talked about Was incapable of sitting with me in a cafe when we first met just talking even though I was Her therapist but by the end she was doing stand-up comedy so You know it took years but Still most people won't do stand-up comedy. That's that's quite the bloody achievement. She she would read her poetry on stage, too So for someone who was petrified into paralysis by social anxiety And who had to start very small It was a hell of an accomplishment Yeah, it all starts with one step. Do you have advice for young people? In high school you've given a lot of people look up to you for advice for strength for strength to Search for themselves to find themselves Take on some responsibility Do something for other people You're doing something for yourself while you're doing that even if you don't know it for sure because you're a community across time Find something to serve Somebody to help someone to help a job to find a job do your best with the customers Don't be above your job. You're gonna get an entry-level job when you're a kid Well, what else would you want you want to be the boss? What do you know? You don't know anything You could be the boss of your job You know if you're working in a grocery store, you're working in a convenience store assuming you're not working for terrified tyrants You can be nice to the customers. You can develop your social skills You can learn how to handle boss employee relationship You can be there 15 minutes early and leave 15 minutes late Like you can learn in an entry-level job man And i'll tell you if you take an entry-level job and you learn and it's a reasonably decent place You will not be in an entry-level job for long because everyone who's competent is desperate for competent people And if you go and show up and you show up and you show up and you show up and you show up And if you go and show yourself as competent, there'll be a trial period But if you go show yourself as competent all sorts of doors, you didn't even know were there will start opening like mad So you strive for competence? For craftsmanship. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah for discipline, you know, I mean I I said in one of the chapters in my books is is focused on putting your house in order It's like well, how do you start? Make your bed You know I it actually took me quite a long time in my life before I made my bed regularly in the morning Most of my life was in pretty good order, but that was one thing I didn't have in order My clothes in my closet as well. All that's in order. Not all of it. I'm cleaning out some drawers right now, but Look around and see what bugs you in your room. Just look It's like okay. I'm in my room. Do I like this room? No, it bugs me. Okay Why well the paint's peeling there and it's dusty there and the carpet's dirty and that? Corner is kind of ugly and the light there isn't very good and my clothes closet's a mess So I don't even like to open it. Um, okay, that's a lot of problems That sucks. That's a lot of opportunity Pick something and fix it Something that bugs you. Yeah, but not too much. So the rule is Pick something you know would make pick a problem Pick a solution to it that you know wouldn't help That you could do That you would do So you have to negotiate with yourself. It's like well, I won't clean up this room. How do you know? I've been in here for 10 years and I've never cleaned it up It's like well, obviously that's too big a dragon for you. Would you clean one drawer? Find out And so imagine now you want to be happy when you open that drawer and you think well, that's stupid. It's like is it? Maybe it's your sock drawer, which I cleaned up in my room the other day, by the way, you're gonna you're gonna open that every morning That's like 30 seconds of your life every day Okay, so that's three minutes a Week, that's 12 minutes a month. That's two hours a year So maybe your life is made out of you got 16 hours a day Let's figure this out 5 12 in an hour 12 in an hour 144 in 12 hours. Yeah, let's say 200 205 minute chunks. That's your life Ladies and gentlemen, Jordan Peterson did just some math how many five minute chunks there are in a day And I got it. Pretty sure that's pretty accurate. It's approximately right so You got 205 minute chunks and they repeat a lot of them repeat So if you get every one of those right, they're trivial right who cares what my sock drawer looks like it's fair enough, man But that's your life The things you repeat every day the mundane things think I could get all those mundane things, right? That's the game rules. It's like now all the mundane is in place Now you can play because all the mundane is in place and this is actually true. So with children Imagine you want your children to play Well play is very fragile neurologically any competing motivation or emotion will suppress play So everything has to be in order Everything has to be a walled garden before the children will play That's a good way of thinking about it. So you put everything in order and you think oh my god Now i'm tyrannized by this order. It's like no you aren't not if it's voluntary And then the order is the precondition for the freedom And so then all of a sudden you get all these things in order. It's like oh look at this I've got some room to play here and then Then maybe you're not depressed Now it's not a good thing to be depressed. It's not a good thing to be depressed Maybe you're not depressed now. It's it's often not that simple. You know, it's not that simple Try putting your room in order perfect order. That's hard I mean, it's a really powerful way to think about those five minute chunks. Just get one of them right in a day Yeah, well if you do that for 200 days Your life is in order. Yeah You know, I thought I did that with my clients a lot So a lot of them would come home from work the guys say and and their wives would meet them at the door And it'd be a fight right away You know and it's a clash there because he comes home and he's tired and hungry and he's worked all day and he's hoping that You know, he gets welcomed when he comes back to the home But then the wife is at home and she's been with the kids all day and she's tired and hungry and she's hoping that when He comes home. He'll show her some appreciation for what's happened today And then they clash and then they both have problems to discuss because they've had their troubles during the day And so then every time they get together They are not like it's a bit of a fight for 20 minutes and then the whole evening is screwed And so then you think okay Here's the deal It's knock and the door will open. Okay, you get to pick how what happens when you come home But you have to figure out what it is. So now this is the deal You treat yourself properly You imagine coming home and it goes the way you want and need it to go Okay What does that look like? You get to have it but you have to know what it is. What does it look like? And you think okay. I want to come home. I want to be happy about coming home. I come home I open the door. I say hello, honey. I'm home My wife says hi. It's so nice to hear your voice. She comes up. She says Hi, dear. She gives you a hug. She says how was your day? And you say well, we'll sit and talk about that. How was your day? Well, we'll sit and talk about that. Do you need something to eat? probably Let's go sit and talk about our day. It's like that sounds pretty good. Okay That sounds pretty good might not be perfect. It sounds a hell of a lot better than what we're doing now So how about we go? Talk to we'll go talk to your wife say okay This is what's happening when I come home. I would like it to be better What would you like to have happen? If you could have what you wanted and so she sits down and she thinks okay if he comes home What do I want to have happen? And then now you got two visions and you say well, what would you like? And you listen and she says What would you like and you tell her and then you think okay now, how can we bring these visions together? So not only do we both get what we want, but because we've brought them together We even get more than we want. Well, who wouldn't agree to that unless they were aiming down And that's so exciting. It's not a compromise It's a union of ideals that's even makes a better ideal That's even makes a better ideal and then you get to come home and then then there's another rule that goes along with that which is Please dear have the grace To allow me to do this stupidly and badly. Well, I learned at least 20 times. Yeah And i'll give you the same leeway and then we'll practice stupidly for 20 times and we'll talk about it And then maybe we'll get it right for the next 10 000 times Yeah, right and you can do that with your whole you can do that with your whole life and you can do that with your Kids and you can do that with your family like it's not easy, but you can do it's a lot easier than the alternative Let me ask for some dating advice from jordan peterson. How do you find on that topic the love of your life? That's a good question I was asked that multiple times On my tour three times in a row in fact because we ask people to use this slido gadget That's a popular question to vary it always came up to the top and I got asked that Three times in a row and I didn't have a good answer and then I thought Why don't I have a good answer I thought oh I know why because that's a stupid question So so why yeah, why Why because it's it's putting the cart before the horse. Here's the right question How do I make myself into the perfect date You answer that question and you will not have any problem answering the previous question it's like What I want in a partner If I offered everything I could do a partner who would I be You work on that ask that question. Just ask just ask yourself. Okay I have to be The person that women would want Okay, what do they want Clean that's not a bad start Reasonably good physical shape so healthy Productive generous honest Willing to delay gratification so you dance with a woman it's like what's she doing? What are you two doing? Well, it's a patterned your there's patterns happening around you. That's the music patterns patterns of being that's the music Now, can you align yourself with the patterns of being gracefully? That's what she's checking out And then can you do that with her? And then can you do that in a playful and attentive manner? And keep your bloody hands to yourself for at least a minute And so can you dance in a playful manner? It's like you can go through this in your imagination And you know, you'll know, you know, and then you think well how far am I from those things? And the answer is usually man. It's pretty horrible abyss separating you from that ideal but the harder you work on Offering other people what they need and want The more people will love you and you'll get better And the more you work on what you want and what you don't want The more people will line up to play with you And so it's the wrong question. It's like how can I be the best partner possible? And then you think well if I do that people will just take advantage of me And that's the non-naive Objection, right because the naive person's saying well, i'll be good and everyone will treat me right. It's like The cynic says no i'll be good and someone will Take me out And that's the wrong question. And the answer is well You factor that in And that's why you're supposed to be What is it? As soft as a dove and as wise as a serpent. It's like I know you're full of snakes I know it Maybe I know it more than you do But we'll play anyways And that's the risk anyway, that's right voluntarily, right? It's like and what's so cool about that is that even though the person you're dealing with is full of snakes If you offer your hand in trust and it's real You will evoke the best in them. Yeah, and that's true. Even i've dealt with people who are pretty damn criminal and pretty psychopathic And sometimes dangerously so And you tread very lightly when you're dealing with someone like that, especially if they're intoxicated and even then your best bet is that Alert trust. It's the it's the only it's the fact the only thing I know that I had one client who was a paranoid. He was paranoid psychopath. That's a bad combination He was a bad guy man. He had like four restraining orders On him and restraining orders don't work on the sort of people that you put restraining orders on And he used to be harassed now and then by you know, a bureaucrat in a bank with with delusions of power And he would say to them he he used to kind of act this out to me when I was talking to him. He'd say I'm going to be your worst nightmare And he meant it. Yeah, and he would do it. He had this obsessional Psychopathic vengeance that was just like right there Paranoid to the hilt and paranoid people are hyper acute so they're watching you for any sign of deceit or manipulation and they're really good at it because like they're 100% that's what paranoia is it's 100% focus on that and Even under those circumstances if you step carefully enough you can Maybe you can avoid the axe. That's a good thing to know if you ever meet someone truly dangerous Absolutely, I believe in that that being fragile nevertheless Taking that leap of trust towards another person even when they're dangerous, especially when they're dangerous if you care If there's something there in those hills you want to find Then that's probably the only way you're going to find is taking that risk I have to ask you about gulag archipelago by solzhenitsyn That speak to this very point. There's so many layers to this book. We could talk about it forever I'm sure in many ways we are talking about it forever But there is sort of one of the themes Captured in a few ways that was described through the book is that line between good and evil that runs through every human being as he writes The line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being During the life of any heart this line keeps changing place Sometimes it is squeezed one way to exuberant evil and sometimes it shifts to allow enough space for good to flourish One in the same human being is at various ages under various circumstances a totally different human being At times he's close to being a devil at times to sainthood But his name doesn't change At times to sainthood but his name doesn't change And to that name we ascribe the whole lot Good and evil. What do you think about this line? What do you think about this thing where we talked about if you give somebody a chance? You actually bring out the best in them. What do you think about this other aspect? that throughout time That line shifts inside each person and you get to define that shift. What do you think about this line? Are we all capable of evil? Well, you know the cosmic drama that's satan versus christ It's like well, who's that about? If it's not about you I i'm speaking just as a psychologist or as a literary critic. Those are characters at least they're that Well, are they human characters? Well, obviously Well, are they archetypal human characters? Yes, what does that mean? Cosmically and ontologically. I don't know Is the world a story? Maybe but the way stories are often told is the characters embody. I know those are those are unsophisticated not great literature though It's very rare in great literature. What you have in great literature generally is the internal drama right in As the literature becomes more pop I would say The characters are more unitary. So there's a real bad guy and he's all bad and there's a real good guy and he's all good And that's not as interesting. It's not as sophisticated If when you reach dostoevskyan heights in in literary representation or shakespearean heights You can identify with the villain And that's that's when literature really reaches its pinnacle in some sense and also the characters change And also the characters change throughout they shift throughout they're unpredictable throughout I'm taking the speaking of russia more seriously recently and i've gotten to talk to translators of dostoevsky and tolstoy and Chekhov and those kinds of folks and you get the One of the mistakes that translators made with dostoevsky for the longest time Is they would? Quote unquote fix the chaotic mess that is dostoevsky because there was a sense like he was too rushed in his writing It seemed like there was tangents that had nothing to do with anything The characters were unpredictable and not inconsistent. There's parts of phrases that seem to be incomplete That kind of stuff and what they realized that is that's not that's actually crafted that way It's not it's you know It's like editing james joyce like finnegan's wake or something because it doesn't make any sense They realize that that is the magic of it that captures the humanity of these characters that they are unpredictable They change throughout time. There's a bunch of contradictions On which point I gotta ask is there a case to be made that brothers karamazov is the greatest book ever written? Yeah, there's a case to be made for that. I don't know. Is it better than crime and punishment? Yes. Yeah, you think so? Why do you i'm not arguing with it? Why do you think that? Uh, well, this is every book is a person some of my best friends and are inside that book Yeah, it's an amazing book. There's no doubt about it. Uh, I think it's some books are Defined by your personal relationship with them and that one was definitive and I almost graduated to that one because for the longest time The idiot was my favorite book of all Because I identified with the idea of the book Of all because I identified with the ideas represented by prince. Michigan. I also identified. Oh, that's interesting To prince michigan as a as a human being holy fool the fool because the world kind of my my whole life still kind of sees me saw me in my perception my narrow perception is kind of the fool and I Different from the interpretation that a lot of people take of this book I see him as a kind of hero to be definitely to be a naive uh quote unquote fool, but really just a naive optimist And naive in the best possible way. I do believe that that's childlike Yeah, childlike is a better so naive is usually seen as that's childish naive. Yeah, but childlike That's why no one enters the kingdom of heaven unless they become like a child That's prince. Michigan dostoevsky knew that so that's why you like the idiot. That's so interesting See, I think I like crime and punishment because while you identified with michigan I think I identified more with her skull Nicole because I was tempted by luciferian intellect, you know in in in the manner that In a in a manner very similar to the manner. He was tempted But I mean, I think I think you can make a case that the brothers karamazov is Dostoevsky's crowning achievement Well, that's something man. All right, he ruined literature for me Because everything else just felled in sip it afterwards not everything Not everything. I I found some books that In my experience hit that pinnacle, um the master and margarita That's a deadly book. I read that I think four times and I still there's still it's unbelievably deep Uh, there's a nichols kazanskis greek writer some of his books are His writing is amazing as well. Did you ever connect with the literary like existentialist camus? uh, or people like herman hesse or or even kofka Did you ever connect with those to the same degree? Yeah to the same enough to be an influence You know you have to be deaf in some fundamental sense not to encounters a great dead friend and fail to learn No, and and I mean I tried to separate the wheat from the chaff when I read You know and I read all the great clinicians all of them perhaps not Those who are foremost in the pantheon And I tried to pull out what I could and that was a lot. I learned a lot from freud I learned a lot from rogers and I learned a lot from well from dostoevsky and nicha I'm going to do a course on dostoevsky and nicha for this peterson academy. This is coming up in january Oh, that'll be them together. I'm really looking forward to it. You're weaving I hadn't thought about doing them together. Oh, that'd be fun. That's a good idea. Well, that'd be a good idea There's an issue that idea You often weave them together really masterfully because there is a there is religious In the broad sense of that word themes throughout the writing of both. You know, there's uncanny Parallelisms in their writing and their lives. So um And dostoevsky's deeper than nicha, but that's because he was a Writer of fiction nicha is almost a character in a dusty. Yes. He is definitely that he is definitely that yes And apparently nicha knew more about dostoevsky than people had thought there's been some recent scholarship on that grounds Dostoevsky didn't know anything about nicha as far as I know I could be wrong about that But the thing that dostoevsky had over nicha is nicha had to make things propositional in some real sense because he was a philosopher and It's hard to propositionalize things that are outside your ken, but you can characterize them and so In the brothers karamazov. Ivan is a more Developed character than aliosha in in in the explicit sense. He can make better arguments But alosha wins like mishkin because he's the better man and dostoevsky can show that in the actions, right? He can't render it entirely propositional, but that's probably because what's good can't be rendered entirely propositional And so dostoevsky had that edge over nicha said well, ivan is this brilliant rationalist atheist Materialist and puts forward an argument on that front that's still unparalleled as far as i'm concerned And overwhelms aliosha who cannot respond but aliosha is still the better man So which is very interesting, you know that what you know, the funny thing about those two characters is You jordan peterson seem to be somebody that at least in part embodies both Because you are one of the intellectuals of our time rigorous and thought But also are able to have that kind of What would you describe if you if you remove the religiosity of alosha? there's a What's a good word love towards the world spirit of encouragement? Yes Which well, it's it's you know, one of the things I did learn perhaps from looking into the abyss to the degree that I have had to or was willing to Was that at some level you have to make a fundamental statement of faith when god creates the world after each day He says he saw that it was good You think well, is it good? It's like wow, there's a tough question I mean, you know, do you want to bring a child into a world such as this which is a fundamental question of whether or not? It's good It's an act of faith to declare that it's good Because the evidence is ambivalent and so then you think okay. Well, am I going to act as if it's good? And what would happen if I did and maybe the answer to that is I think this is the answer The more you You know, you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you you The more you act Out the proposition that it's good the better it gets And so that's it Dostoevsky said this is something else Every man is not only responsible for everything he does but for everything everyone else does. It's like What is that profound or are you just insane? Then you think Is what you receive back proportionate to what you deliver And the answer to that might be yes That's a terrifying idea. And and it's certainly you can see that it's true in some sense because people certainly respond to you In kind with how you treat them. That's certainly the case. I mean, it's it's terrifying and it's exciting. Yeah, right That's an adventure, isn't it you? Yeah You create the world by the way you live it The way you live it the the world you experience is defined by the way you live that world And that's really that's really interesting and then taken as a collective we create the world together in that way Yeah, what do you think is the meaning of it all? What's the meaning of life Jordan Peterson? You've we've defined it many many times throughout this conversation the adventure along the route man and I would say Where's that adventure to be found in faith? What's the faith? The highest value is love and truth is its handmaiden That's a statement of faith right because you can't tell You have to act it out to see if it's if it's true Yeah, and so you can't even find out without and that's so peculiar. You have to make the commitment a priory Yeah, it's like a marriage. It's the same thing It's like well, is this the person for me? That's the wrong question How do I find out if this is the person for me? By binding myself to them Well, maybe the same thing is true of life right you bind yourself to it and That tighter you bind yourself to it. The more you find out what it is And that's like a radical embrace and it's it's a really radical embrace That's the crucifix symbol and more than that because like I said the the full passion story Isn't death it isn't even unjust death It isn't even unjust death and the crucifixion of the innocent which is really getting pretty bad It's unjust torturous innocent death attendant upon betrayal and tyranny followed by hell Well, that's a hell of a thing to radically embrace. It's like bring it on I think a lot of people put truth is the highest ideal and Think they can get to that ideal While living in a place of cynicism and ultimately escape from life and hiding from life afraid of life And it's a is beautifully put that love Love is the highest ideal to reach for and truth is it's handmade I try I thought about that for a long time right this hierarchy of ideal and the thing about truth that bitter truth let's say that cynical truth is it can break the shackles of naivety and actually a Burnt cynicism is a moral improvement over a blind naivety Even though one is in some ways positive, but only because it's protected and the other is bitter and dark, but still better But you're not done at that point. You're just barely started. It's like you're cynical You're not cynical enough It's like how cynical are you? Are you I'm an Auschwitz prison guard level of cynical Because you have to be you have to go down pretty deep into the weeds before you find that part of you But you can find it if you want and then you think well, I want to stop this Well, that was the question you posed in some sense. You're obsessed with say what happened on these mass-scale catastrophes In the communist countries. It's like well millions of people participated So you could have and maybe you would have enjoyed it So what part of that is you and you can find it if you want? Yeah, it's it's all there the prisoner the interrogator the Judas Pontius Pilate All of it all of it and it's all of it is inside us Yeah, you just have to look and once you do maybe eventually you can find the love Jordan, you're an incredible human being. I'm deeply honored. You would talk to me Thank you for being a truth seeker in this world and thank you for the love. Hey, I'm Thanks for listening to this conversation with Jordan Peterson to support this podcast Please check out our sponsors in the description. And now let me leave you with some words from Friedrich Nietzsche You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star Thank you for listening and hope to see you next time